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Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Nobody: 12:28pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
idnoble135: Over four hours and no comment. This is a good research work.You are concerned about financial security,and not vision. From ur statement above you can marry a man from a wealthy background that can provide for ur needs even if he doesn't know what to do with his life. |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Bright2(m): 12:34pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
Gbam gbam gbam gbam gbam gbam gbam gbammmm correcteeeeee! Good research but ladies una go gree listen? He goes to swim every weekend but you don't,he cares much about his dressing but you an engineer you don't, he changes car every 5years but you as an engineer you don't,he ignores every thing his wife does but you an engineer you don't,he does put on italian shoes but you an engineer you prefer safety shoes are you the only engineer in this world? He drives gently with executive car but you drive like a mad man with hilux, he tatoos his left hand but you an engineer said it's irrelevant,he does put on leather wrist watch but an engineer prefer rubber watch,he cheers up with people & visits close friends but you an engineer you don't . Ahhhh! I don tire!!! |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by ojubi(m): 12:34pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
There is no such thing as love. Humans can't love. Cos love does not change with circumstances. If you know you can live with the person contract the marriage, and if things changes with time divorce and get out. I am starting this contraption called marriage with an exit strategy in mind just in case things stop working out with time. 1 Like |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by naptu2: 12:35pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
yuzedo: Hahahahahahahaha |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by gideonjeta(m): 12:41pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
points noted.I intend to apply these before saying the special words to my special One. |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by kaykay123(m): 12:43pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
ojubi: There is no such thing as love. God will bless the woman that gave birth to you.... |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by canalily(m): 12:47pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
my question for this post, abeg bro no vex o o h! Buh i need ur contributions. What of partners who hav these qualities buh have a little financial challenge to settle down. What do you advice them to do? This is a 9ice post. |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by SirRil(m): 12:49pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
Nice tips@op. Vision really matters. Alot of people do not put that into consideration before saying the 'yes, i do' thing. |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Ishilove: 12:50pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
wolajumoke: Very true, otherwise you might end up with a partner who will waste your destiny. wolajumoke:VERY TRUE. Someone who abuses you in any form is guranteed to get worse once you marry them. wolajumoke:So true wolajumoke:Easier preached than practiced. Comparison is a byatch wolajumoke:In my experience, more than half the men who have propositioned me are chatterboxes( quite an unattractive trait ) , which is very much the opposite of me, so I wouldn't particularly agree with this point wolajumoke:Hokay!! wolajumoke:Not too open sha. Know where to draw the line. wolajumoke:Very true. Selfless and forgiving love is very hard to find. wolajumoke:Very true. Love gasto where powerful binoculars. Era of 'love is blind' is long dead. wolajumoke:YEZZUR!!! I agree 200% . The God-factor must be in the foundation of every marriage because with Oluwa involved, you can never go wrong 1 Like |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Nobody: 12:53pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
okpaniokpani:financial security is an aspect of vision but not the whole view. Btw, before we continue what is vision? |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by canalily(m): 12:56pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
wolajumoke: 1. Vision |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by canalily(m): 1:01pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
idnoble135:Gbam ! ! Na real mugu, his brain is in the abdominal region |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Afolayan123: 1:02pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
Hardly u see a girl that can compliment all dis wit a guy dat has vision.......u can't find all before marraige.......at least one must be lacking....... |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Nightshift1(m): 1:09pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
wolajumoke: Wonderful marriage is not made of two perfect people but two forgivers Best point in the whole essay -Always forgive each other |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Nobody: 1:10pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
My partner needs to see number 2 and 4 |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Nobody: 1:10pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
My partner needs to see this, especially number 2 and 4 |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Collins0609(m): 1:23pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
Do not post rubbish here.cos 80% of women dnt care abt dis their only care abt money |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by johnsonjosbles(m): 1:24pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
idnoble135: Over four hours and no comment. This is a good research work.. What makes you think non quick response suggest perfect research work? We are in working hour and reonable pple focus on dia job 1st before later pay attention to any other isue. I'm sure you are jobless,that's why you can observe that perfectly isn't Iτ̅? Cudos to the post cos Iτ̅ speak well, every 1 in relationship needs to observe that in ohter to achieve success. Iτ̅ ȋ̝̊̅§. Well |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by canalily(m): 1:25pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
zandie: My partner needs to see this, especially number 2 and 4then go close to hm or ha nd show the point. Maybe it wil help for change! |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by cosify: 1:28pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
Good article. To me, d best among them are 1 and 7. For 1, many girls see themselves as d responsibility of d man and so do not care about developing themselves or having a vision which is bad. For 7, most girls are pathological liars. It kills me personally. I hate lies and liars. |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by philfearon(m): 1:28pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
ogugua88:I thought you are a Robot? Should a Robot be talking of Pre-Marriage issues? Hmmmmm....No offence o,b4 i get banned....... |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Koolmexxi(m): 1:39pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
Superstory.... A whole lot of reason to say I don't... |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Vanityupnvanity(m): 1:40pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
No point is new their pls. Maybe the poster should get something new. |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by DICKtator: 1:46pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
Can she CULTERY? I mean a wife in church , a ho in bed type? A major factor!!! Would she gulp the whole thang? a REAL VIRGIN unlike Onila? sTREET SMART LIKE IDOWUOGBO? Poetic like Isshelove, i mean ishilove? provide some kinda security like Policewoman? A bit controlling like mukina2? disclipined/religious like deols? book-smart like ogugua88/itsModella? pretty like adaobi123,Ambeautiful,achukwunet? family-oriented like Caracta,tsjkii? allow me cheat on her with MaryJane like SniperinaDiaper? i mean we could have a menage-a-trois Doesn't give a fork/ assertive like Calloti a.k.a. mgbeketoto? boobilicious like Shugamania? allows me to cheat like MrsChima? politically inclined like berem? stays hidden and reserved for only me like kandikane? even though she yarns beautiful trashes like tpia, we would still connect? can phuccck well like hmmmmmmmm................... i mean the list is endless............ 5 Likes |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by gaburiel(m): 1:47pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
lanre_front: I strongly disagree with number 5 above:Managing your differences. On the contrary, I strongly agree with number 5. He is not talking about not been compatible or being direct opposite, but being able to complement you where you are weak. Imagine an extremely quiet person, marrying an extremely quiet person for example, there might be peace, but their house would be too dull, the children might go wayword, cos they wouldnt advice the children when they go wrong and outsiders might start advising them wrongly. Secondly, consider a dirty person getting married to a very dirty person, am sure you would almost always have to enter their house with your nose closed and leave as soon as possible, but if one is clean, he/she can take the cleaning as his/her responsibility (if its the woman that is dirty, it would require special grace for the man to take up such duty) and also help the other person achieve some level of hygiene and the list goes on. So its not necessarily marry your opposite but who you marry should be strong where you are weak and you should be strong where she is weak. Both of you should however be compatible and of course you could both be strong in some instances. 1 Like |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by obowunmi(m): 1:48pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
To the women, make sure the man has a functioning pen,,is. If his man tool is not big, and satisfying no matter the amount of vision. Things won't work out. Mind blowing Sexxx is important. |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Caracta(f): 1:51pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
Lol @ DICKtator's post. Na wa for you o. Only you? |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Nobody: 1:52pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
@johnsonjosbles:Sir, the article was posted on sunday. The reply was on sunday. And it was towards the evening of that day. |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by Nobody: 1:59pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
Very important points. Niyi47: Nice article. Thumps up.^ |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by madjune(m): 2:27pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
MOST MEN MARRY THESE DAYS BECAUSE THEY WANT READY FOOD AND READY F.CK WHILE WOMEN MARRY BECAUSE THEY ARE RUNNING OUT OF TIME. ADD THE TWO 2GEDA= FCKED OUT OF TIME EQUALS TO UNHAPPINESS. 1 Like |
Re: Things To Consider Before Saying I Do by freetowns: 2:42pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
are u high? Bright2: Gbam gbam gbam gbam gbam gbam gbam gbammmm correcteeeeee! Good research but ladies una go gree listen? He goes to swim every weekend but you don't,he cares much about his dressing but you an engineer you don't, he changes car every 5years but you as an engineer you don't,he ignores every thing his wife does but you an engineer you don't,he does put on italian shoes but you an engineer you prefer safety shoes are you the only engineer in this world? He drives gently with executive car but you drive like a mad man with hilux, he tatoos his left hand but you an engineer said it's irrelevant,he does put on leather wrist watch but an engineer prefer rubber watch,he cheers up with people & visits close friends but you an engineer you don't . Ahhhh! I don tire!!!are u high? Bright2: Gbam gbam gbam gbam gbam gbam gbam gbammmm correcteeeeee! Good research but ladies una go gree listen? He goes to swim every weekend but you don't,he cares much about his dressing but you an engineer you don't, he changes car every 5years but you as an engineer you don't,he ignores every thing his wife does but you an engineer you don't,he does put on italian shoes but you an engineer you prefer safety shoes are you the only engineer in this world? He drives gently with executive car but you drive like a mad man with hilux, he tatoos his left hand but you an engineer said it's irrelevant,he does put on leather wrist watch but an engineer prefer rubber watch,he cheers up with people & visits close friends but you an engineer you don't . Ahhhh! I don tire!!! |
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