yea

No contact on your part whatsoever and do not go back

Havila28: I was insecure in the relationship. A month into it, the phone calls and pings reduced and I panicked. Then he started using a girl's pix as dp n I pointed it out. Now he called the rel off and defriended me on facebook.

I admit I was insecure, but he never did anything to reassure me, not even once. I told him I feel loved tru phonecalls and still nothing.

I dnt know what to do. I want him back badly and don't know how to go about it.

Sorry dear, gal up and move on not easy but somehow,someway a second by second delete him from your heart. Surely you know you deserve better.

People will advice you on something and do otherwise if they happen to be the victim. You alone know what u feel so follow your heart. There is no Shame in fighting for your heart.

and u want to kill yoursef becos?

see, watever u do, don't call him.
don't text and no stalking!
please do not give him the reason to treat you like trash.

just get busy, hang out with friends,
upgrade yourself and work on your self esteem so you stop feeling insecure.

And what if d OP is ugly? What if she was d 1 that lured d guy into d relationship? If u have what it takes 2 win his heart back then u hav 2 chill and see america wonders

My dear
Its normal
Mine calls me ' paranoid witch'
Sometimes, these men don't like to be choked, I know its nt easy bt pls try to free him, it works, u too act like u don't care

As per gettin him back, u have ur charm
Charm him to ur arms
Nt babalawo charm o

U lost him

Havila28: I dnt know what to do. I want him back badly and don't know how to go about it.

am touched!!

With time you will get over it, and he will look like shit to ur face when you start making new male friends.

kai.. the guy don chop clean mouth sharperly... banGERLEEEE exclusive from notjust ok dot Cum .. so how was d sex like with him? was he big or small

Enegod: am touched!!

praise God!!

heed101: And what if d OP is ugly? What if she was d 1 that lured d guy into d relationship? If u have what it takes 2 win his heart back then u hav 2 chill and see america wonders

lemme hear word jare...NB:no gurl is ugly,it jst takes d ryt guy 2 c d beauty...

Harbosede02: praise God!!

@Op
Thank your God you have being rid of a future pest. Let your hair down and rock on. Life goes on jare

A month+ relatnship! He dumps u and u wnt him back BADLY! U should kw he has gotten what he wanted n he doesn't wnt u anymore! Forget him girl! Work on urself n learn 4rm ur mistakes. When u get a new guy, don't give urself 2him, don't go feeling insecure, let him crave 4u! Then use head, be smart! Try 2kw if he only wnts 2shine ur kongo n clean mouth, or really wnts u as his girl.

Y do u wnt him soo BADLY? Is he dat handsome or rich?

Havila28: I was insecure in the relationship. A month into it, the phone calls and pings reduced and I panicked. Then he started using a girl's pix as dp n I pointed it out. Now he called the rel off and defriended me on facebook.

I admit I was insecure, but he never did anything to reassure me, not even once. I told him I feel loved tru phonecalls and still nothing.

I dnt know what to do. I want him back badly and don't know how to go about it.

Your insecurity as you said ruined the relationship! I guess you are the type who nags incessantly. What were you thinking asking him to call you all the time? Abi u employ an for MTN? Girl carry your cross cos you brought it on yourself

kntrovasial mi: and u want to kill yoursef becos?

see, watever u do, don't call him.
don't text and no stalking!
please do not give him the reason to treat you like trash.

just get busy, hang out with friends,
upgrade yourself and work on your self esteem so you stop feeling insecure.

EOD!

Harbosede02: praise God!!

Enegod:

Harbosede02: NB:no gurl is ugly,it jst takes d ryt guy 2 c d beauty...

WORD!

There are two possibilities
1.) he has gotten what he wants(sex) and he's on to the next one.

2.) U freaked him out. Your insecurity made you shower him with too much love. I tend to hate girls that are obsessed with me. They just tend to irritate me.

Whichever the case may be you have to move on. Btw try not to scare the next guy away. Some of us love having a certain degree of freedom. 2/3 phone calls a day is enough. You don't have to leave 15 missed calls on my phone to show you love me. It would only make me hate you.

I wish you the best

Jaidey-one:
2/3 phone calls a day is enough. You don't have to leave 15 missed calls on my phone to show you love me. It would only make me hate you.

Word!

Harbosede02: lemme hear word jare...NB:no gurl is ugly,it jst takes d ryt guy 2 c d beauty...

hahahaha should I start posting pissure?

Walexz02:
hahahaha should I start posting pissure?

don't waste ur tym..nt intrested in whatsover "pissure"u wana post.

eeyah sorry,take heart and move on...

Sorry OP, cheer up.

A relationship just ended, and you opened a thread to tell the whole world about it?
Na you be first woman wey don loose em bf?
Ok la

Yield: Sorry OP, cheer up.

I always love your signature.

Especially with the youtube Instrumentals.

Can you kindly tell me the title of the Album and the artist. I'll love to buy

And when are you changing it ....Am following you...already.

Thanks.

@OP Please move on. A man would do what he would do.. there is no mistake.. Everything is always planed out from the onset. To stay with this gurl or Not.. Except ofcourse in exceptional circumstances.