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This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by Manta(m): 9:31am On Jun 04, 2008
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.




[center]QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?










ANSWER :
The husband just said "I am with you Darling"[/center]

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened, No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles
begins with a single step". Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY:
This story is really worth reading. , Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship,
in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out something called L.I.F.E

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Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by Jam247(f): 5:56am On Jan 18, 2011
^^^^^^ love it!! Thanks Manta!
Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by diamondc(f): 7:05am On Jan 18, 2011
very nice of d hubby i tink i will emulate him
Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by tgirl09: 9:21am On Jan 18, 2011
Dat is a good husband i pray i should be like that
Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by Coolabbie: 2:47pm On Jan 18, 2011
A beautiful piece.
Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by maclatunji: 4:52pm On Jan 19, 2011
Nice, I am trying to apply a similar philosophy to my life. It goes like this: If something does not add value to me, I just let it go. From the story, shouting or yelling at the woman would not bring the child back. The man also knew that no one can love a child more than its mother, not even the father. Her pain would exceed his, so she needed his support.

If it is a true story, BIG RESPECT TO THE MAN.
Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by mengi: 4:09pm On Jan 21, 2011
Intresting but if you ask me i will say such is very very rare. its like an ideal case not really practical. am not saying it cant happen but sincerely speaking, it is rare.
Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by sleekflexy(f): 12:42am On Jan 23, 2011
Wow, what a touching story. The world would be a better place indeed if 70% of the people on earth can have the type of wisdom the husband displayed in the story.
Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by MurphyG1(m): 7:00pm On Jan 23, 2011
Nice story. I learnt from it. cool
Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by tpia6: 7:58pm On Jan 23, 2011
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Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by Carlosein(m): 10:36am On Jan 24, 2011
tpia*:

make una fear God and stop wishing evil on other people.



Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jan 24, 2011
Awww . . nice story!

Reminds me of my uncle's wife who some years ago was walking down the stair case with her new born; she tripped and fell and the baby fell off her hands, bounced down the staircase (much like a football undecided) . . . . and died! sad sad sad

The family wanted her head on a platter of gold . . . but her husband stood by her through it all! They had 3 more kids after that and they are living happily even after! cool cool
Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by rasputinn(m): 12:45pm On Jan 27, 2011
Mpcheewww
Y'all should get real abeg
Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by Nplnsolo(m): 11:50pm On Mar 09, 2011
That was a beautiful conclusion to the story. It was beautiful that it makes me feel sad, ashamed and enlightened.
Re: This Is How We Miss Out Something Called "life"- I am with you Darling by potolistic(m): 10:42pm On Aug 02, 2015
Wow.... Kinda learnt smfin new 2day

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