Nairalanders pls I need ur candid opinion,dis guy is 31 while am still 19 is d age nt a problem can we get marry as couple. Pls ur suggestion

kweenzannie: can we get marry as couple.

Nooooooo, u cannot get marry as couple but as bedmates.
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Go and find out about Omotola's marriage, there is an info for u.

you can marry him

If both of you love each other,you can marry.

Op are you a graduate yet? If you are not, face your education first and come out with good grade.
#sincere advice

kweenzannie: Nairalanders pls I need ur candid opinion,dis guy is 31 while am still 19 is d age nt a problem can we get marry as couple. Pls ur suggestion

Before I can give you a reasonable and practical advice, tell me when you intend to get married.

kweenzannie: Nairalanders pls I need ur candid opinion,dis guy is 31 while am still 19 is d age nt a problem can we get marry as couple. Pls ur suggestion

i'm sure you are still a studnt.. why not wait until you are through with your studies and possibly get a job before thinking of marriage. Believe me, marriage is not a bed of roses

12years!!!


Could this be love


Well, that guy must be rich for u to consider him (that makes u a gold digger) or do you want to tell me you did not see all these sagging boys on the street



Tell us ur other reason(s) why u want to consider him and why u want to marry early




_{Its ur life girl, no body dictate it for u}

Enegod: i'm sure you are still a studnt.. why not wait until you are through with your studies and possibly get a job before thinking of marriage. Believe me, marriage is not a bed of roses

Don't be too sure. Some became graduate at age 17. This one wey private universities don full everywhere.
Always give room for benefit of doubt before making assertions.

jhydebaba: 12years!!!


Could this be love


Well, that guy must be rich for u to consider him (that makes u a gold digger) or do you want to tell me you did not see all these sagging boys on the street



Tell us ur other reason(s) why u want to consider him and why u want to marry early




_{Its ur life girl, no body dictate it for u}

Chei! Na how you take reach this conclusion na?
Not all girls are like that o.

OCTAVO:
Chei! Na how you take reach this conclusion na?
Not all girls are like that o.

U no fit trust all these tiny legged girls, abi, wetin go make person wan marry her papa mate



No offense pls.

OCTAVO:
Don't be too sure. Some became graduate at age 17. This one wey private universities don full everywhere.
Always give room for benefit of doubt before making assertions.

17 keh! Bros small small na.

19 ? 31 ? why the rush ?

You are free to marry uncle. As long as you both love each other. Also, if he doesn't Lord over you because of the age difference... Such scenarios, d babe hav such hard time expressing herself in the relationship

Mehn, dat age difference na die o! Kai! It all depends on how mature you are physically and mentally cos i ve seen 19yrs old gals dat looks and reason like 23. If u are sure he luvs u then go for it but dont be too hopeful cos he might be usin dat marriage thing to deceive u and get into ur pants(dat's if he neva start sef)
as for me o, my guy must be 3-5 older.

Op, in the next 20 years as married couple, you will be worn and expired while his energetic manhud live on

Codedboy95: 19 ? 31 ? why the rush ?

The 31 is getting old while the 19 is pressured to grow up faster to accomodate the 31.

If really he loves u, age doesn't matter in relationship

jhydebaba: U no fit trust all these tiny legged girls, abi, wetin go make person wan marry her papa mate



No offense pls.

nt my papa's agemate o

Mrs.Chima:


The 31 is getting old while the 19 is pressured to grow up faster to accomodate the 31.

u no A̶̲̥̅♏ a lady aΩ̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ he's a man coz women aя̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ bound 2 get old in̶̲̥̅̊ tym coz Ø̶̷̩̥̊͡Ƒ̶̷̩̥̊͡ child bearing

As someone asked above, why the rush?

You can marry so long as you're cool with him. You both should sort out this ish with your parents and get their blessings and let thenlmconsent since you are of age. All the best.

Hmmmmmm,aint an easy ride o. Talking from experience

numerical_guy:

17 keh! Bros small small na.

I no fit laf

kreami diva: Hmmmmmm,aint an easy ride o. Talking from experience

Sorry.

OP,shey Kois Problem between you and Cognitive reasoning?

I can advice u based on experience.if u r mentally prepared for d challenges that come with marriage,why not?But in my case,i was a graduate nd was done with my nysc too.i advice u to make sure u re thru with ur edcation first.

Uyi Iredia: You can marry so long as you're cool with him. You both should sort out this ish with your parents and get their blessings and let thenlmconsent since you are of age. All the best.

thank U̶̲̥̅̊

If Omotola followed most of the advice Y'all are giving the OP, she'd *NEVER* be where she is today, ask her colleague Rita Dominic...
OP follow the lil' heart God gave you o, he speaks to you thru there- Omotola followed hers.
If you feel its genuine and wont break when you grab it, then what are you waiting for, a weather forecast? Jump for it!! You never know how many genuine chances you may get in life after this #fact...
Afterall, these days we all see Gazzillions of 28, 29, 38yr old educated and successful ladies lining up in churches fasting, praying and sowing seeds for Husbands- the truth is;
many of them blewup chances like this when it came, because some thought they were too young, they wanted to finish school or they wanted that fancy job(if only they knew better- that one can always establish a proper balance between marriage and other personal goals, yes! its called effective management & its not impossible, women do it. Its just like driving and answering a phonecall)
OP you see, in the loooooong run while we are chasing our dreams, breaking records, bagging Phd's, buying Range Rover's... Just like all the stories with happy endings, Life is all about living happily ever after-
Will He make you Happy?
Forget all this advice here,
Thats a question you and only you can answer, afterall you are the one who knows him and yourself not us, nope not us- we got our own crap to handle.
I'm out.

optimus-prime1:
If Omotola followed most of the advice Y'all are giving the OP, she'd *NEVER* be where she is today, ask her colleague Rita Dominic...
OP follow the lil' heart God gave you o, he speaks to you thru there- Omotola followed hers.
If you feel its genuine and wont break when you grab it, then what are you waiting for, a weather forecast? Jump for it!! You never know how many genuine chances you may get in life after this #fact...
Afterall, these days we all see Gazzillions of 28, 29, 38yr old educated and successful ladies lining up in churches fasting, praying and sowing seeds for Husbands- the truth is;
many of them blewup chances like this when it came, because some thought they were too young, they wanted to finish school or they wanted that fancy job(if only they knew better- that one can always establish a proper balance between marriage and other personal goals, yes! its called effective management & its not impossible, women do it. Its just like driving and answering a phonecall)
OP you see, in the loooooong run while we are chasing our dreams, breaking records, bagging Phd's, buying Range Rover's... Just like all the stories with happy endings, Life is all about living happily ever after-
Will He make you Happy?
Forget all this advice here,
Thats a question you and only you can answer, afterall you are the one who knows him and yourself not us, nope not us- we got our own crap to handle.
I'm out.

thank U̶̲̥̅̊ so much 4 d enlightment Ȋ̝̊̅ really appreciate U̶̲̥̅̊

NL_princess: Mehn, dat age difference na die o! Kai! It all depends on how mature you are physically and mentally cos i ve seen 19yrs old gals dat looks and reason like 23. If u are sure he luvs u then go for it but dont be too hopeful cos he might be usin dat marriage thing to deceive u and get into ur pants(dat's if he neva start sef)
as for me o, my [b][/b]guy must be 3-5 older.

and then. 25 at 35, you'll be looking 50 at 25 after 3 kidz.....no offence, jst saying!!!

kweenzannie: Nairalanders pls I need ur candid opinion,dis guy is 31 while am still 19 is d age nt a problem can we get marry as couple. Pls ur suggestion

the age difference is much but its notin compared to luv.but i will advice if u arnt done wit skul,concentrate on ur studies, n i jst hope u r not considering marring dis guy becos of materila benefit but if u r,pls do hv a second tot. U r still very young,Marriage isn't a bed of rosses.Gudluck