So the brother did not look and she was offended
She eventually became a Muslim


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jm8ZckqRCnw


And a similar story. Although the brother is not really a model of virtues. But the point remains - When they bare it and we don't care, it is a challenge
May Allah make it easy for us

http://shine.yahoo.com/healthy-living/why-a-former-model-is-covering-up-for-love-182140949.html

The two met while Watts was vacationing in Salah’s native Tunisia in April, when, Watts explained, every man flirted with her except for Salah.

"I saw it as a challenge," she told the Sun. "I went over one day and asked him his name. His English wasn’t very good so at first we spoke in a mixture of English and what little French I remember from school. We went for a walk on the beach together and things developed from there, but all we did on the first trip was have a kiss." She went back to visit him three weeks later and they soon fell in love.

Hmmm, very interesting story ma sha Allah

I once thought lowering my gaze means perpetually looking down on the path that i walk. Fortunately for me, before i could start practicing my understanding of lowering my gaze and put myself at risk, i came to know it means to avert ones sight from what is forbidden to look at.

Even those without Islam but do have a sense of modesty and respect for the female kind do lower their gaze.

Yeah it's a challenge to these kind of females, a good man who just ignores you or shows no sign of interest in all your 'advertisement' can be demeaning #Fact!


May Allah make it easy for us ameen.

About the lowering of the gaze, I got it wrong at first too.

It isnt about eye contacts but what the contact is about.