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5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Nobody: 10:29pm On Aug 20, 2013 |
ADD FELIX on bbm: 21EF48B0 Have a trial with market wise hippo and see the difference!!! Topic: Reasons Not To Sleep With A Virgin Taking a girl’s virginity is a popular male fantasy, but if they stopped to consider the reality of the situation, the fantasy might start to look more like a nightmare. It may be an ego boost to imagine being a girl’s first and taking her precious virginity, bookmarking yourself in the annexes of her mind forever. However, there are aspects of making her a woman that could be less than pleasurable. So, before you unlock that chastity belt, get an idea of what you’re getting yourself into. Here are five reasons not to sleep with a virgin that you should consider before taking the plunge. 1- There’s Extra Prep Work: Unlike a more experienced woman, a virgin really doesn’t know what to expect. This means that you’re going to have to put in some effort before the deed is done and plan ahead to make sure that she’s comfortable and completely willing. It may take some considerable convincing on your part to get her into bed, and while that isn't one of our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin, your seduction skills will certainly be put to the test when it comes to taking a girl’s virginity. Also, the older she is, the harder it will be. If she has managed to protect her virginity all through high school and into her 20s, it will be that much more difficult to persuade her that she should give it up to you. 2- There’s A Freak-out Potential: When it comes to having sex with a virgin, the potential for her to freak out before, during or after the sex act is quite high. She may decide at the last minute that she doesn’t want to go through with it or she may feel massively guilty afterward for having done it. Because so much importance is put on her virginity, her first time is bound to be an emotional experience, which means that you might have to deal with panic, sadness, guilt, and other unpleasant reactions. She has probably imagined the event for a long time and wants it to go absolutely perfectly. If even the slightest thing doesn’t go according to plan, it could result in tears and tantrums. If you don’t like watching girls cry, don’t sleep with virgins. That’s a lot of pressure and that’s why it’s among our five reasons not to sleep with a virgin. 3- She’ll Likely Get Attached: It is fairly likely that a recently devirginized girl will expect to have a lasting relationship with the guy that bedded her. If you’re not planning on becoming her boyfriend, or at least continuing to date her, don’t sleep with her. It’s really that simple. Very few girls imagine their first time with someone who drops off the face of the earth immediately afterward, never to be heard from again. She’s going to want you to stick around, so if a relationship is not in your plan, consider this point in our list of five reasons not to sleep with a virgin and find someone else to share your bed. 4- She Lacks Skills: Since she’s inexperienced, she’s probably not going to be that good in bed, and that’s a big reason not to sleep with a virgin. There are exceptions to this rule, of course, since there are plenty of skills a girl can learn before she loses her actual virginity. If, however, she has little experience with sexual activity in general, the encounter is not going to be all that pleasurable for you. If all you want is the power trip that comes from taking her virginity, then you’re golden, but if you want a mutually satisfying sexual experience, you should look for someone who has had time to develop some sexual skills. 5- It Could Get Messy: There is a possibility that having sex with a virgin could literally make a mess of your sheets. Being penetrated for the first time is likely to hurt her and it could result in some bleeding. If the sight of blood makes you squeamish, devirginizing a girl is not for you. A woman’s first sexual experience can leave a very unsexy mess to clean up. Where No Man Has Gone Before As you can see, taking a girl’s virginity is not all that it’s cracked up to be. There are groundwork concerns, emotional issues, commitment questions, technique problems, and other more tangible messes to deal with. So perhaps you should leave the devirginizing to the high school boys and look for a sexual encounter that isn’t quite so complicated. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Enegod(m): 10:38pm On Aug 20, 2013 |
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Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Nobody: 2:24am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Mcheeww 1 Like |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by lepasharon(f): 2:35am On Aug 21, 2013 |
stereotype |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Nobody: 6:00am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Hehehe... I remember those days... |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by dmcdad: 6:38am On Aug 21, 2013 |
^^^^ I guess these days na.... E don become... 1 Like |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by lexib(m): 6:55am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Rightly said. |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by james1(m): 7:10am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Rings true,nice one. @marthakings.what do you remember in those days? You do look innocent but looks can be deceptive.hehehehehehehehehe. |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Nobody: 7:35am On Aug 21, 2013 |
"Reasons nt sleep wif a virgin"xo if guys don't sleep wif virgins,wu will?? 1 Like |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Popowaa: 7:40am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Absolute nonsense 5 Likes |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by flolancracker: 7:47am On Aug 21, 2013 |
OP is right ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by flolancracker: 7:48am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Popowaa: Absolute nonsensewhere's †he nonsense in it? ![]() |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by james1(m): 7:49am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Harbosede02: "Reasons nt sleep wif a virgin"xo if guys don't sleep wif virgins,wu will??True,someone got to do the job! |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by flolancracker: 7:49am On Aug 21, 2013 |
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Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by flolancracker: 7:50am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Harbosede02: "Reasons nt sleep wif a virgin"xo if guys don't sleep wif virgins,wu will?? ![]() ![]() |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by hersweetness(f): 7:51am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Marthakings: Hehehe... I remember those days... Those days when you were still a virgin? |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by flolancracker: 7:52am On Aug 21, 2013 |
hersweetness:isn't that self-explanatory? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by dridowu: 7:54am On Aug 21, 2013 |
All is well |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by james1(m): 7:55am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Popowaa: Absolute nonsenseAre you saying you sailed thru without anything the Op wrote happening to you? |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Popowaa: 8:06am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Another useless question james1: |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Enegod(m): 8:07am On Aug 21, 2013 |
I like fvcking virgins ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Popowaa: 8:09am On Aug 21, 2013 |
The nonesense in it is u are the same person who will be secretly fasting and praying to break a virgin.mitchweeee flolancracker: where's †he nonsense in it? |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Popowaa: 8:11am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Enegod: I like fvcking virgins:oHw many fresh holes ve u entered? |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by philfearon(m): 8:19am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Totally true.... But then,someone must break a girl na,unless every gal wil kip her virgie til she gets married;which hardly happens these days! The only Exceptions to what the Op said are: {1}:rape cases {2}:married couples {3}:Willingness from the girl to break her virgie......... |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Dbestmax(m): 8:34am On Aug 21, 2013 |
What d hell....hey ur reazns ar al mesd up |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Enegod(m): 8:45am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Popowaa: :oHw many fresh holes ve u entered?will be back with de number... |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Luckygurl(f): 8:53am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Lol at living d job for high school boys. |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by CsmuneEy(f): 8:54am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by sweettease(f): 8:56am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Virgin this, virgin that, una no dey tire ![]() |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Popowaa: 9:21am On Aug 21, 2013 |
Enegod: will be back with de number... ![]() |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by AdeniyiA(m): 9:25am On Aug 21, 2013 |
I NEED a virgin |
Re: 5 Vital Reasons Why Not To Sleep With A Virgin. by Nomski0(f): 9:39am On Aug 21, 2013 |
sweet-tease:Help me ask them o. You all need to live those creatures alone. Their virginity dey your head ![]() @Op. Your reasons suck big time. If you cant handle the pressures of being with a woman for the first time in her life, then you dont deserve what she's giving you. Its boys who are inexperienced in bed, who only know how to have casual sêx that will find is difficult to take a woman's innocence. Men who are skilled in the act of pleasure and love making would know what the woman is giving them and know how to turn her into a s.lut in bed. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Where is Onila sef ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
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