It does not matter your painful experience in life and relationships.What matters is that you are still alive today.People may have hurt and abused you.You might have been devalued by your spouse,neglected or even forsaken.The truth is that,God loves you.Life is all about love.Love is the energy that sustains the universe.Even though many have abused that universal love and turned it to lustful and sensual things,the truth still remains that life is about love.1Jn.1:16 says GOD IS LOVE.John 1:4 says,IN HIM WAS LIFE.Jn10:10c says THAT THEY MIGHT HAVE LIFE AND LIFE ABUNDANTLY.God is love and life is love.The abundance of love does not come from man but from Him.You just need to accept this truth that YOU ARE LOVE PERSONIFIED ON EARTH.My God!Did you get that!You are constituted of love.That is the universal energy controlling all things.You just need to encourage yourself in this revelation.When you become conscious of this divine love,it wouldn't be difficult again to relate with people especially those who claim to love you but despise you.You love them base on WHO YOU ARE AND NOT WHO THEY ARE OR WHAT THEY HAVE DONE.When your true love is not reciprocated,you feel anger but pity for such people who don't appreciate your awesome values..Instead of living in bitterness,you relax your mind because YOU ARE LOVE PERSONIFIED.If you can take it a step futher by becoming more intimate with God,you will begin to overlook whatever any mortal does to you,even though that person is your spouse.As long as physical abuse is not involved,you easily tolerate their weaknesses as something they need to overcome with time.But when it gets to a critical situation when such love is threatening your spiritual/physical survival,you simply distant yourself from such.In all,never you live in regrets because somenone abused your love or maltreated you.It's a free world.Instead of wasting your energy in unforgiveness,bitterness,sorrow,heaviness,anger,regrets etc,simply chart a new course for your life and allow the Holy Ghost to guide/guard you to a totally new level of adventure and experience in His perfect plan for your life.Past mistakes shouldn't mar you forever.Life is too short to waste it in the wilderness of futility called relationship that lacks divine backing.In conclusion,God loves you.YOU ARE LOVE PERSONIFIED.Live in the consciousness of that universal love and stop allowing anyone to give you unnecessary mirage headache.Say aloud with me I AM LOVE PERSONIFIED ON EARTH.I CHOOSE TO LOVE GOD FOR GOD AND ME FOR ME.NO ONE WILL TAKE AWAY FROM ME THE JOY OF THIS LOVE.I OPEN UP MY HEART TO THIS UNIVEVERSAL LOVE.I WILL BEGIN TO FLOW IN HIS CONSCIOUSNESS DAILY.I REFUSE TO LIVE IN PAINS,BITTERNESS,REGRETS,UNFORGIVENESS AND HURTS.I FORGIVE ALL THOSE WHO HAVE HURT ME IN THE PAST.I RELEASE THEM FROM MY HEART AND EMOTIONS.AS FROM TODAY,HOLY SPIRIT EXPRESS THIS DIVINE LOVE IN ME FORCEFULLY.Whao!Can you feel that awesome presence of that love?You are totally free in the name of Jesus.