You have a fiancee and she lives with a man^*.

How do you feel and what do you do?

^* Maybe in a different country

I definitely won't take that crap. Nowadays, especially in the western world, it's quite normal for people of opposite sex to share a flat etc, but I definitely won't be happy if my fiancee who is another country is living with some man. Anything could happen!

@CrisChidi

there are two things:
1) Your fiancee
2) Living with another man(whereva on planet earth)

May God deliver us o,

there can be only one solution: its either she is not your fiancee or you are just wishing she was. In fact, if its happening to you, sorry, you have a problem.

Note: before she was promoted to the "fiancee" level, a lot of water has passed underneath the bridge and you have finally decided on her, and her on you, so what is "the other man" still doing in the picture? and what is "living with" still doing in the whole story?

or you mean, "living with" her father, uncle, or some man-relative?
or is there something im not getting here?

wait first, who is she living with?

The only thing you should be concerned about is the relationship between them. Are they just sharing a flat, shacking up or live-in-lovers?? if you can answer that question then you have somthing to base your worries on.

Do you think it kinda possible for both of you to stay in the same without have feelings ??

smartsoft:

Do you think it kind of possible for both of you to stay in the same without have feelings ??

@smart soft

are you still referring to the fiancee and the guy she is living with? if you are i think it is very possible for them to live in the same house and have no sexual feelings for one another. my best friend is a guy and we used to live together in college and he's not gay (just incase anyone is wondering)

@ chrischidi
Concurring with with desiree i would say if they are just friends you have nothing to fear, so long as you trust ur babe

When does her lease expire? Maybe it is time to get her to move somewhere else?

curiousNja:

When does her lease expire? Maybe it is time to get her to move somewhere else?

for real girl, that could be something else to consider, if he's really not kool with her staying with that male friend.

Tufiakwa, I no go let that kind thing happen to me.

:-x :-x :-x :-x :-x :-x

desiree:

The only thing you should be concerned about is the relationship between them. Are they just sharing a flat, shacking up or live-in-lovers?? if you can answer that question then you have somthing to base your worries on.

true, girl you have what it took me years to develop

It's not a thing that i would allow 2 happen cause i don't trust anyone.

my fiancee would be living with me, not no man.

Your fiancee lives with a man

then you are DOOMED!!