Hello fellow nairalanders,

I have a friend who is from the middle belt but she is getting married to an urhobo man from delta state and as you all know our norms and cultures are totally different.

pls she needs your supportive and candid advice on how to go about it, ranging from the courtship,traditional marriage and all she needs to put up with the urhobo tradition.

thanks

all i can say here is ,

you're not marrying the tribe , you're marrying this man/woman you love and nothing else matters
the day we nigerians begin to see ourselves as one equal human being regardless of race , tribe , religion
the faster we'll get to catch up with the rest of the world.