The person is fashion crazy and addicted...

How is addiction broken? By facing the demon head on, how? I don't know...

pickabeau1: 1000 shoes... Sounds unbelievable...
In this naija or Yankee?
How big is the closet

the shoes cant fit in the closets so they are on top of the closets (4closets that are 7ft long then the L shaped one thats like 3cllosets in one)
shoes are on top of the closets in shoe boxes under the different beds, on the floors of the bedrooms.

Its really bad cos only half of the number of closets can be opened cos its that full of clothes then there are the chest of drawers (4-5) then the piles of clothes on the chest of drawers.
Plus the piles in bags blocking pathways

Did I mention the loft?

Its not just clothes and shoes - buys suitcases, kitchen ware, duvets, towels, bedsheets etc many of which have not been used in the last 5-8yrs
hmmm

salsera:

Its not just clothes and shoes - buys suitcases, kitchen ware, duvets, towels, bedsheets etc many of which have not been used in the last 5-8yrs
hmmm

That house is a potential store. Organise a garage sales there...lol

bellong: The person is fashion crazy and addicted...

How is addiction broken? By facing the demon head on, how? I don't know...

Its an addiction
Big mistake is to follow her shopping

Shopping for her is like porn
She's on a high
and its her fix

Even when she says she'll return stuff she ends up buying more


LOL - sotay she dey buy d one wey no be her size (saying she will adjust it with her sewing machine)

I say make i share am here maybe somebody fit tell me say dem no success story

I swear if she fit change her pikin go believe say GOD dey truetrue
Me sef go bornagain again

E pass Selfridges store

If I line up d tings wey dey there Harrods go bow give me three floors display dem.

salsera:

I swear if she fit change her pikin go believe say GOD dey truetrue
Me sef go bornagain again

I found this online, I wouldn't know how it can help her. Maybe she needs to be encouraged to start giving out some of the stuff to charity as the first step.

“Shop” without any method of payment. If the in-store experience is what you crave, then simply go there without any method of payment. This method lets you spend your time there as you wish, but keeps you from putting anything else on the credit card.

Do a spring cleaning. Go through all the stuff you have and decide which things you actually need – or even want. Collect together all of the useful stuff in one place, then really look at it. For some, the sight of how many useless things they’ve wasted their money on often can shock them into a change.

Chop up your credit cards. Don’t allow yourself the option of charging any more – simply chop up your cards and delete those numbers from any online accounts that may use them. This way, the only method you have available to you to spend is your actual cash.

Avoid the stores altogether. Do anything at all besides going to the stores where you’re tempted to waste money. Whenever you even think about the possibility, just do something else.

Change your routine. If part of your daily or weekly routine is to go to a particular place where you’re tempted to spend, change the routine. This may involve finding a new commute or any number of things, but the key is to take temptations out of your daily routine.

As a friend, however, you can go an extra step to help someone overcome their shopping addiction. Here are five things I am willing to do to help her out to get past her addiction.

Introduce her to inexpensive activities. She can come along when we do free, fun stuff like spending time in the park, doing volunteer work, and so on. These things can be a ton of fun, and so I strive to show her the fun parts of doing things where you don’t have to come home with an empty wallet.

Show her how to shop frugally. I could also go on shopping trips with her, showing her how to shop frugally and find good deals on stuff. Instead of dropping $300 at a clothes store, spend some time looking at what’s available at less-expensive clothes outlets.

Help her rework her budget. Spending an afternoon with her going through her spending in detail and showing her some better ways to optimize her money. This works well if the person is also taking some steps to actually curb their spending, as she is.

Invite her over to eat. We make simple, frugal meals all the time at home, while she usually eats out. Thus, inviting her over to eat and getting her involved in the food preparation works really well. It takes ten minutes to make a big batch of spaghetti, requires two pans and a bit of silverware, and makes enough that you can eat it multiple nights – a perfect example of how to cut down on spending. As does the crockpot.

Offer lots of encouragement. This seems strange to some: encouraging a friend not to shop? The best way to do this is to keep tabs on what they’re doing and make it clear that not buying a bunch of stuff is in fact a great, positive thing. Have a party for them when they pay off a credit card, for instance.

bellong
serious matter
i actually stopped shopping with her
when i sleep in d guest room the 'load dey give me nightmares'

she does charity but its really slow cos she hoards as well so stuff from over 8yrs still dey

At least she stopped hoarding 'food' Hosanna!

she really needs some other activity to replace

for the most part that i know of she doesnt have card debts or borrows money she has what my mum will call 'ojukokoro'

Even to thief designer bag for here you go sweat sotay u go give up

salsera:

Even to thief designer bag for here you go sweat sotay u go give up

She needs Jesus.....

Serious addiction


I dedicate to her this track by kanye when he was still singing good music



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ba-6niOoR_U

"Addiction"

[Chorus]
[Kanye (Female Voice)]

Why everything that's supposed to bad make me feel so good?
Everything they told me not to is exactly what I would
Man I tried to stop man I tried the best I could
But (You make me smile)

What's your addiction? Is it money? Is it girls? Is it weed?
I've been afflicted by not one, not two, but all three
She's got the same thing, about me, but more, about us
She's coming over, so I guess, that means, I'm on drugs
Just let me peek now, I mean damn, I'm so curious
She's got a lover, so the lies, and the lust, is a rush
Time's of the essence, I need, you to be, spontaneous
Roll up the doge, henny and c-c-c-cola, then I'm co coming over
Cuz its ne-never over

[Chorus]
[Kanye (Female Voice)]

Why everything that's supposed to bad make me feel so good
Everything they told me not to is exactly what I would
Man I tried to stop man I tried the best I could
But (You make me smile)

I see the emotion in your eyes, that you, try not to show
We get the closest when you high, or you drunk, or you blow
So I pour the potion, so we could both get high, as we could go
Then I'll get the lotion, and do something to me, when your thighs is exposed
There's no turning back now, I mean I don't mean to impose
Not now but right now, I need you to UnCloth, and then pose
I'm into that now, catch a vibe, when the doors, get closed
Roll up the doge, henny and c-c-c-cola, and I keep co coming over
Cuz its ne-never over

[Chorus]
[Female Voice (Female Voice)]

Why everything that's supposed to bad make me feel so good
Everything they told me not to is exactly what I would
Man I tried to stop man I tried the best I could
But... (You Make Me Smile)

(You make me smile with my heart)

[INSTRUMENTAL]

[Chorus]
[Kanye (Female Voice)]

Why everything that's supposed to bad make me feel so good
Everything they told me not to is exactly what I would
Man I tried to stop man I tried the best I could
But... (You make me smile, With my heart)

I just wanted to ask you
Just wanted to um
Let how would I put this uhh
Let's say all your friends
Remember the one
You said if you ever she would be the one
Ok, Ok, Ok (You make me smile with my heart)
I was thinking, hypothetically
I mean don't take this seriously
Don't take me: I mean just
Uhh not credibly
I'm feeling incredibly
I mean let it be
Just let it be
I mean you, her and me (You make me smile with my heart)
I mean you, her and me
Maybe, Baby, Baby
You know I was just kidding
Unless you gon' do it

(You make me smile...)

Now seriously...


They say only one thing will kill a person
If that is wat makes her happy n its not financially ruinous or she is stealing or depriving herself or her family of necessities... Maybe she should be left alone

She's an adult

salsera:
Even to thief designer bag for here you go sweat sotay u go give up

I don't think u re doing it right,if na me ll thief without asking, then she go tire to buy cos no b she dey use them all,ADDICTION OVER
U can thank me later,bt seriously oohh,now u mentioned it,i think I ve a friend like that even though his never reach 1000 pairs bt he just buy stuffs that he end up not using,i don preach tire,i pray he changes this new year he said he would

I think the thing is the have the money to buy those things so they don't see the need not to buy them,in all honestly it's their money sha,bt there a lot of better ways to spend the money,thats what I dey try teach this friend of mine,maybe u should try it also

pickabeau1: Now seriously...


They say only one thing will kill a person
If that is wat makes her happy n its not financially ruinous or she is stealing or depriving herself or her family of necessities... Maybe she should be left alone

She's an adult

Gbam!

Let my fellow shoe-head b o!

Afterall, na she get her money!!!!

Let d chick b abeg!

*in ypepe's voice*

Left her alone!!!!!!!

ID Marcos!

pickabeau1: ID Marcos!

You don see Kulyie pic?

Ewuro707:

You don see Kulyie pic?

y una no dey ever carry me come the party?pls na show me

Royal Roy pls check it out.

cdamsel: y una no dey ever carry me come the party?pls na show me

Well it's for my brothers.

Ewuro707: Royal Roy pls check it out.

Yeske.


Lollllz.


Sewa na babe .

Omo daa o se fi shaya

Ewuro707:

You don see Kulyie pic?

Yepa e Jami si

pickabeau1:

Yepa e Jami si

You kidding right? Okay :

https://www.nairaland.com/1582452/thread-twins-share-pics

Ewuro707:

Well it's for my brothers.

now that hurt me feelings

cdamsel: now that hurt me feelings

I'm so sorry sweetie, the link to the party dey up there

Ewuro707: Omo daa o se fi shaya

Hehehehe


You get shares for her bride price?

Ewuro707:

I'm so sorry sweetie, the link to the party dey up there

me way don c even before you post link? I no b learner for NL na
Just sad I no follow for siblings? Cos I no b yoruba? Is it fair?

Hello house!

Now I Know Why Kulyie Will Not Settle For Just Any Guy


That Babe Fine Die

ypepe: Hello house!

How Are You Doing?

Ewuro707:

You kidding right? Okay :

https://www.nairaland.com/1582452/thread-twins-share-pics

Seen...she's a pretty one

pickabeau1: Now seriously...
They say only one thing will kill a person
If that is wat makes her happy n its not financially ruinous or she is stealing or depriving herself or her family of necessities... Maybe she should be left alone
She's an adult

Na so we dey think too
but anytime you come over see the 'storehouse' hmm.

pickabeau
kanye did that song, interesting

idowu
u too like shoes? OYO

salsera:

Na so we dey think too
but anytime you come over see the 'storehouse' hmm.

pickabeau
kanye did that song, interesting

idowu
u too like shoes? OYO

His first 4 albums were the iish
These new songs

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