UNIXLover: hello guys...ok I dated a lady from college till I graduated and we broke up in a very painful way when I found out she had an affair with her lecturer and classmate. Well, I thought we really loved each other . But during the break up, I met a wonderful lady. We started dating since last year and I am already shopping for the engagement ring .we planning for introduction for December. Now my problem is, I keep comparing my last lady with my current girl possibly because I still keep in touch with my ex.my ex call me from every now and then and even want to chat with me all times o the WhatsApp. Initially I had thought this doesn't mean anything. But recently, my current relationship has been suffering from this. My new lady is very emotional and my attitude has been affecting her .but the problem is, I don't know why I treat her the way I do.
I really want to get everything right but is like I am struggling at every attempt I make. ..


...you obviously still have the hots for your ex...why not try and make up with this ex and let your current girl be??

sexkillz: December is 4 months away. The problem is that you haven't yet let go of your ex. Permit me to say that you do not know your own worth if a lady who slept with 2 different individuals while in a serious relationship with you can still hold your emotions to ransom. Do you want your cheating ex back? If she returns to you, wouldn't she sleep with everyone around you, even your dog? Would your mind really be at rest with such a lady? As far as I am concerned, your ex now belongs to the past. If you refuse to ex-communicate her, it will cause a serious problem for you in future.

The lady you are with is complaining, but that is just the beginning, because, until you delete that snake from your life, every other girl you come across will have this same problem with you.

Don't you want your ministry to proceed to the permanent site? Why are you still having dealings with a lady who wants to ruin your life? You can't go back to her, you can't leave her and continue with another lady. What sort of nonsense is that? Why are you so discombobulated and indecisive? It's not the 3rd leg that makes you a man. Ask yourself what you want. If you really want to proceed with your life, sever ALL communications with the snake!

lynpetra: This exactly is the reason why I can't find "faithfulness"in my advanced British Dictionary!Some dudes just wanna help you tear that particular page off!

sexkillz: December is 4 months away. The problem is that you haven't yet let go of your ex. Permit me to say that you do not know your own worth if a lady who slept with 2 different individuals while in a serious relationship with you can still hold your emotions to ransom. Do you want your cheating ex back? If she returns to you, wouldn't she sleep with everyone around you, even your dog? Would your mind really be at rest with such a lady? As far as I am concerned, your ex now belongs to the past. If you refuse to ex-communicate her, it will cause a serious problem for you in future.

The lady you are with is complaining, but that is just the beginning, because, until you delete that snake from your life, every other girl you come across will have this same problem with you.

Don't you want your ministry to proceed to the permanent site? Why are you still having dealings with a lady who wants to ruin your life? You can't go back to her, you can't leave her and continue with another lady. What sort of nonsense is that? Why are you so discombobulated and indecisive? It's not the 3rd leg that makes you a man. Ask yourself what you want. If you really want to proceed with your life, sever ALL communications with the snake!

UNIXLover: hello guys...ok I dated a lady from college till I graduated and we broke up in a very painful way when I found out she had an affair with her lecturer and classmate. Well, I thought we really loved each other . But during the break up, I met a wonderful lady. We started dating since last year and I am already shopping for the engagement ring .we planning for introduction for December. Now my problem is, I keep comparing my last lady with my current girl possibly because I still keep in touch with my ex.my ex call me from every now and then and even want to chat with me all times o the WhatsApp. Initially I had thought this doesn't mean anything. But recently, my current relationship has been suffering from this. My new lady is very emotional and my attitude has been affecting her .but the problem is, I don't know why I treat her the way I do.
I really want to get everything right but is like I am struggling at every attempt I make. ..

mubowa: Atleast u know there is a problem. it is not uncommon for people to be hung up on their past or find it hard to move on. You have to give her a chance, what if she's comparing you with her ex? try to flush your ex out of ur system and embrace love

Richfella:

You really do like your ex. Take her back or stop communicating with her.

I know she slept with a few dudes - you can forgive her if you want. If she's YOUR cool girl, I'd suggest you take her back.

Dovahkiin: ure a douchebag , you don't deserve the girl you currently have

UNIXLover: bros,u dont need to insult me now..haba

Dovahkiin:
ure a douchebag , you don't deserve the girl you currently have