pls guys and girls forgive my gramatical errors,. it all started some weeks ago i mate dis gal in an eatery (foodaffairs to be precise) and we talk a bit cos she was siting infront of me in the same table wit no guy beside her and me i just rush from my place of work to go av lunch alone so i got her number and left her cos i had someting to do back at d office (fastforward to 2days). I got to know dat she just return from skul (caritas university) and she was actually coming to do her I.T in one of the radio stations in town so after all the apointment with 3dift stations she was finally offered d chance to do in one of d radio stations around and since she was new in town we mate allmost everyday and meanwhile i told her dat i was working in a private hospital which was a lie and i ask her out two days later cos i didnt wana b trap in d fren zone liksome people would say but she didnt say yes or no cos we were eating everyday togeda and i was also droping her off in her house most times so i tink dat was more like the main reason she wanted to hang on wit me and one week later she travel home and i guess it didnt went well at home cos as soon as she got back to town she imediately called me dat she had no money and i went to see her dat evening as usuall and we went to airtel office i pay for my subscribtion and i went and repair my iphone dat d screen hed a problem and i ended up spending 8k for dat pluss d 6k dat i bought 4G so i spent more dan i intended dat evening and i was left wit just 3k and we went to eat and i spent xtra 2k and was left wit just 1k and i gave her 5h and took 5h and den i drop her off in her house and left so i called her dat evening to know wen next she would love to see me again and she said dat i should decide it so i told her ok dat would b next week meanwhile dis was just monday and she said ok so i travel to meet my dad in fct to give him month end report cos it was almostmmonth end and dis gal cal me 2days later dat she doesnt av any money on her dat she cant go to her work place so i told her dat i was at phc dat i travel for some urgent isue dat i would b back d next week dat i told her previously dat i would see her so she was kinda sad and didnt go to work d next day sos the second day which was friday i had to return to uyo earlier dan xpected and i used one of my mums car to go see her at her house since she wasnt going to work dat day too and meanwhile i have been lieing to her dat i was working in a hospital to see if she was if she would just love me so dis time i decided to tell her d truth of were i work and i also took her to my office and she realize dat i was heading my dads companies in AKS and later dat evening i drop her off but i had also taken her to 2oder offices of our company b4 droping her and also giving her 5k for her t.p next week, so later dat evening she text me and wen i saw her message i tot it was gona b something like (hey fred tanxz for today god bless you) but i saw (goodevening dear i just wana tel u ddat i love u so much and i want us to date now) me i was asking myself :shud i be happy now or shoud i just ignore: so we went along since dat friday and just yestaday she called me dat she wana buy a fone techno for 35k and she only have to 10k so she ask me to give her 25k.. so my problem is dat is she coming just d money or is it just a coencidence dat she wana buy fone now?................... kind advice plsss frenz!!!......

Are you a learner? I'm a lady and I can authouritatively tell you that d lady is after the material things she can get from you.

LOL! That girl is sharp.
@Op, I doubt if you can smell a golddigger even if she sits on your nose.
Asking you to get her a phone is just the first stage of the various demands she will place on you.
With most of the comments I see here, I thought guys have finally opened their eyes.

nyash and dump her asap

Lol she's not into you. She just found an atm

slimfredo: so later dat evening she text me and wen i saw her message i tot it was gona b something like (hey fred tanxz for today god bless you) but i saw (goodevening dear i just wana tel u ddat i love u so much and i want us to date now) yestaday she called me dat she wana buy a fone techno for 35k and she only have to 10k so she ask me to give her 25k.. so my problem is dat is she coming just d money or is it just a coencidence dat she wana buy fone now.................. kind advice plsss frenz!!!......

Haba!! Op,pull your shoes,dust them and pick race cos that lady will suck you dry like kpekere(plantian chips)..
Ewoooh,some girls sef ehn... *shakes head*
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All izz well!

she has gotten job opportunity, tnx to you for given her password to drain you to nothing!!!!!!!!! so guy run for your dear life if you love yourself

She saw u with different cars,u took her to ur father's company,OP wat do u expect.

am really greatfull for all dat u guys av said so far tankz u all

All I know is that this lady does nt love you,she is only concern about what she wil benefit from the relationship.

Well said by all, its all about the mints she will get frm u. When u are in search of true love withhold financially at the early stage and dnt change cars and spend money flambouyantly and dnt talk about what u've got materially it would help u secure the love of a girl who truly loves u for who u are nt what you've got.

golddigger!!! run dol

E get as d story b o , but u made a mistake, u wouldn't have told her d truth yet, u would have waited a while longer or till she agrees before u show her ur dad's company ur managing. anyways, d girl doesn't seem sincere 2 me

One word for you dude....... RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. Or else you come back here in 2weeks screaming blue murder..... :

Did someone actually read that

Smh.Its ur father's company i pity.When d company start running on a loss and almost falling,dnt b surprise by dis tym if she sees u on the road,she will act as if she never knew you from anywhr...!Smh.When u should av fuckkked d hell out of d gal's punnani and drop her,but instead u are formin mr nice guy.Na ur papa company i pity.

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bettyaliu: Well said by all, its all about the mints she will get frm u. When u are in search of true love withhold financially at the early stage and dnt change cars and spend money flambouyantly and dnt talk about what u've got materially it would help u secure the love of a girl who truly loves u for who u are nt what you've got.

actually dear i didnt tell her about myself cos i wanted a relationship but sice she didnt say yes or no for upto a week and somedays, i had to forget about d posibility of us being in any relationship again but i was suprise wen she text me dat day she came to my office, i only told her dat i was working in a hospital as a part time worker to see if she will just love me or not

spookem: nyash and dump her asap

well a fren of mine who js married said dat to me yestaday but i didnt consider it cos he is married and dats wat he do to beautiful gals cos he cant marry dem again now but i tink i will consider dis action too..... its well noted sir

I bin laughing in French since, chai, some girls don't know the art of subtlety atall. Op, what more do you need to see she's after your money? U're lucky the chick isn't a pro digger or you for sell ur papa biness and still dey wonder if she be gold digger or not.

No she's not a gold digger, she's just an oil digger in Uyo. Daz all. Are u a learner?

@OP
Just one question for you bro, Can you honestly read what you typed?

slimfredo: am really greatfull for all dat u guys av said so far tankz u all

op sorry i have to beef you after ur initial apology on poor construction of english

your spellings are nothing to write home about and you are heading your father's company
SMH

what qualification have you because it is not only your money did the girl see but your level of mentality and reasoning so check urself and improve ur cogitative capacity

jay bee: @OP
Just one question for you bro, Can you honestly read what you typed?

Haba!!! last i checked, he started with "pls guys and girls, forgive my grammatical errors"

you guys shud free the young man jare after all no one is perfect and if you think you are perfect,please take the lead and be sure to remain perfect for the rest of your life!!!!!!!!!! mitcheeeeewwwwww

DEGREE2466:

op sorry i have to beef you after ur initial apology on poor construction of english

your spellings are nothing to write home about and you are heading your father's company
SMH

what qualification have you because it is not only your money did the girl see but your level of mentality and reasoning so check urself and improve ur cogitative capacity

dude am a medical physiologist and av been working in teaching hospital b4 i resign to work for my dad am sure u dont know how it feels lik to be typing for a long time while also attending to other issues around so if its grammer dont start it i graduated from carleton university am not sure i was using my native dialet in skul for the duration of four years that i spent dere bro!!!... but tankz all the same...

slim don't mind them jare,heat up your swagg cos you av got one!!!!!!!!! i support you wella

^^^lol

If you can't run, pls fly.

U shld av replied the text with "he nogo better for ur papa

DEGREE2466:

op sorry i have to beef you after ur initial apology on poor construction of english

your spellings are nothing to write home about and you are heading your father's company
SMH

what qualification have you because it is not only your money did the girl see but your level of mentality and reasoning so check urself and improve ur cogitative capacity

I guess no one is perfect