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10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Gregdcutie(m): 7:47am On Sep 04, 2013 |
1.Sex is a powerful force that can destroy ifnot used properly. Like atomic power, sexis the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you. 2.Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in premarital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their life. 3.The majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside of the bonds of marriage. The development of a fulfilling sex life needs the security and peace of the marriage bond. Premarital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear ofpregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome) factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex, most especially for women. 4.Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don't lose something so precious in a thoughtless way. 5.Those who engage in premarital sex run ahigh risk of contracting one of the many venereal diseases rampant today, as well as losing their fertility. Not just AIDS, butother common disfiguring diseases like herpes have no cure. 6.Some venereal diseases have no symptoms and many couples discover many years later that they became infertile because of these diseases. Infertility experts estimate that 80% of today's infertility is due to venereal diseases contracted before they married. 7.The best and only method that guarantees 100% against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases is to wait for marriage to have sex and maintain fidelity in your marriage. 8.Premarital sex breaks the 10 Commandments given by God. The 10 Commandments are given to man by Godto make man happy. They are not outdated and they are not restrictive. If we follow these laws, we can create happyand prosperous lives. If we don't follow them, we will pay a heavy price in divorce,disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness. Modern men make a big mistake when they think that they can break these eternal laws and not suffer consequences. 9.Premarital sex runs the risk of conceivingillegitimate children. Numerous scientific studies show that the children of single mothers suffer psychologically and are less successful socially and academically than children from intact families. Above all, children need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care. 10.If you date and you don't have sex, you can forget about that relationship whenyou stop dating. But if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong, often unpleasant memories for your whole life. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relations is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you are married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you. True love waits. If a boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. They will not want you to suffer fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy and the psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all - the love nest of marriage. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Nobody: 7:54am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Bros body no be wood oooo ![]() |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by ATMC(f): 7:55am On Sep 04, 2013 |
no. 10 is soo true... |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by ATMC(f): 7:56am On Sep 04, 2013 |
marious: Bros body no be wood oooosharrap! |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Nobody: 7:57am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Dear OP, You woke up this early morning to post this |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Gregdcutie(m): 8:06am On Sep 04, 2013 |
marious: Bros body no be wood ooooMe don talk my own o. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Gregdcutie(m): 8:07am On Sep 04, 2013 |
n.oxide:was inspired to |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Gregdcutie(m): 8:08am On Sep 04, 2013 |
ATMC: no. 10 is soo true...I hope many we'll come to know that truth |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by spookem(m): 8:13am On Sep 04, 2013 |
*yawns* |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by livingstoneony(m): 8:31am On Sep 04, 2013 |
bullocks ![]() |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Nobody: 8:38am On Sep 04, 2013 |
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Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by litetias(m): 8:47am On Sep 04, 2013 |
No. 2 is so true for me cos I had sex for the first time at age 8 and it stunted my development psychologically if I say so myself. |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by ayogabriel: 8:49am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Ok, I can smooch, kiss, do orals but no sex bah? #yepppie tanx OP |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by iamSi(m): 9:10am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Oluwa, Dariji Awon Omo re tori wipe won ko mo ohun ti won so... Lord Forgive thou children cos they don't know what they are talking about... |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Gregdcutie(m): 9:11am On Sep 04, 2013 |
ayogabriel: Ok, I can smooch, kiss, do orals but no sex bah? #yepppie tanx OPNa u talk that one...But on a serious note am sure u know the right thing |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Fynestboi: 10:25am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Nd this goes to those christian that still go about having Sex without been legally/biblicaly join 2geda. God said u re sexing Him, in what way? Since the day you accept CHRIST AS YOUR LORD AND PERSONAL SAVIOUR, ur body bcomes GODS TEMPLE since then.. So once u engage in sexual immorality u re dng that with GOD in you, so irritating..... Sex is meant for married couple.... A consummate created bY GOD nt for single youths.... |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Gregdcutie(m): 10:35am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Fynestboi: Nd this goes to those christian that still go about having Sex without been legally/biblicaly join 2geda.nyc, hoping that most youths can come to this realisation...and come to it quickly too |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Gregdcutie(m): 10:49am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Deep |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Layolaw(f): 11:35am On Sep 04, 2013 |
if this could be strictly follow, l think the society wil be better place to live in |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by Fynestboi: 11:56am On Sep 04, 2013 |
Layolaw: if this could be strictly follow, l think the society wil be better place to live indats d word |
Re: 10 Reasons Why Sex Should Wait Till Marriage by ChristKid1: 12:08pm On Sep 04, 2013 |
What if the man is impotent or the woman has damaged something when she was single. Then one of the partner is gonna wait miserably forever. I seriously recommend a test drive. Go in blindly at your own peril. https://www.nairaland.com/1334835/what-other-means-use |
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