“I dedicate this to all my friends, fans, those who are just falling in love and all the love birds out there. TAKE YOUR TIME TO READ IT ALL”

Sometimes it's very hard to tell one’s intentions towards you. Someone can come into life, they start talking to you day and night. They make you believe and get used to them. They make you believe that they are different from the rest you have ever had. You start finding ways of making things happen. You totally get taken up by that person’s care and love. You start to lean on them and you find your life can't do without that person. You believe in everything they tell you. You get down on your knees and thank God for sending you that HERO. You now ignore other people that are into you. You comfort that person. You be there for him/her. You trust them but then one day they wake up and they start hurting you without thinking twice. They torture your feelings. They break your heart into pieces without thinking of what you have gone through with them.

Seriously sometimes I wish there was a way one could identify the REAL SERIOUS PERSON. I wish that person could come with a LABEL on him or her. I wish there were fixed dates for one to know when he/she will be but hurt, chucked and cheated on but no way to tell. Seriously some people are just tourists to our LIVES and HEARTS. They are never to stay forever. They come with a packed mission and when it's done then they show you their true colours or they open up the hurting truth. Some people just enjoy hurting the other but why?

Why making someone love you yet you won't stay forever? Why make some give you his/her heart when you are to break it? Why make someone care about you yet you well know you will disappoint him/her? Why using someone for your own benefit? Why making someone cry yet you won't be there to rub his or her tears? Why telling someone that I LOVE YOU yet you don’t mean it or yet you’re in love with someone else? Why doing those dirty things behind someone you claim that you love and care about? Why not being contented with what you have? Why flirting with other people yet you already have someone you love? Why some people don't fear to acquire viral diseases? Why wasting someone's time and energy yet you are to leave him or her? WHY WHY

My friends be CAREFUL, be careful with your lives, be careful with your delicate bodies, be careful with your delicate hearts, be extra careful with people who tell you that they "love you." Many don't mean it. It's just a common word to them. It's just a word they tell to anyone who is interested in them; it's just like a local song to many people. Stop wasting your TIME, ENERGY, FEELINGS & MONEY to people who aren't willing to waste theirs on you. When someone tells you that they love you take your time to tell them that you "love them too". Stop accepting people to blind you with that word. Take your time to decide as you are testing ones patience and seriousness. Never rush....

Some people just enjoy
hurting the other but why?
Why making someone love
you yet you won't stay forever? Why make some
give you his/her heart when
you are to break it? Why
make someone care about
you yet you well know you
will disappoint him/her? Why using someone for your
own benefit? Why making
someone cry yet you won't
be there to rub his or her
tears? Why telling someone
that I LOVE YOU yet you don’t mean it or yet you’re in
love with someone else?
Why doing those dirty things
behind someone you claim
that you love and care about?
Why not being contented with what you have? Why
flirting with other people yet
you already have someone
you love? Why some people
don't fear to acquire viral
diseases? Why wasting someone's time and energy
yet you are to leave him or
her? WHY WHY

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Song
If you ask me, na who i go ask?
The matter wey you see so
E tey wey he start
No be me go talk am
E heavy of my mouth
If you ask me
The matter for ground
Na who i go ask
Song by
-Omawumi

On a serious note OP, you have not yet proferred solution to the ish.
What you gave towards the end are general tips and it can be easily faked.

Don't allow yourself to be deceived by that adjective called LOVE. Open your eyes wide, it was then that they said love is blind these days love has done surgery to enable it see far. In short 1000km from you, but in everything ask God to take over.

Reading in tears! Seems you no me very well, you just use this medium to console me, tnx so much @ops, I appr8. God bless you for me. I luv and trusted her like my mother, she betrayed me, you just healed a broken heart with this.

^
You are a male?
Or....

True talk. So.....touching

I guess its a gamble we all have to take. Most people take relationships seriously while others see it as a game.