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I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 1:03pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
I have been married for a while but I seem to have lost interest in sex. I used to enjoy it before but for some reason, it no longer interest as me. Hubby is impatient as he does not understand and I am at a loss. Does anybody know what could be wrong with me? |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 1:17pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Why don't you have sex urge like before? Earlier before now, what used to make you want sex? If I can identify that which gives you sex urge in the past, maybe I can help you to get it back. Again, you said you used to enjoy sex before but for some reason, it no longer interests you, tell us this 'reason' |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 1:33pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
you are simply undergoing boredom... if an outsider touches you now, you will enjoy sex. but its wrong... take a holiday away from home, maybe visit your sister or mum, miss your husband a little, then come back and continue from where you stopped... also study via the internet various methods to enjoy sex with your husband. hope una no dey use timetable do the thing... ? |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 1:40pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Talk to him about your sexual needs.Tell him what turns you on.If he doesn't, shop on line for toys and use it in his presence.If he is like "WTF"..YOU. shud be like'Bleep you bitch!THIS is the best thing that has happen to me in recent times" |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by ammyluv2002(f): 1:41pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
My dear, u better find the formula again o. If he's Impatient talk to him about it, communication is the key. I'm not married but sha I know once the sex life of a couple is going down that means there's a problem , the marriage is as well going down so if you truly love your husband and want to keep your marriage, talk to him about it please and ask yourself questions too. Try to figure out why u lost interest in making love to your husband. |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by ammyluv2002(f): 1:42pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
My dear, u better find the formula again o. If he's Impatient talk to him about it, communication is the key. I'm not married but sha I know once the sex life of a couple is going down that means there's a problem , the marriage is as well going down so if you truly love your husband and want to keep your marriage, talk to him about it please and ask yourself questions too. Try to figure out why u lost interest in making love to your husband. I know it happens sometimes sha especially when the kids starts coming, family issues etc but you have to know that sex is also very important. 1 Like |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by modextus(m): 1:58pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
I'm scared Reason why I'm scared....you ladies scare the crap outta single good guys like me who aren't married yet. i jus dhe pity ya husband 9 Likes |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by ilaugh1: 2:05pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Get a boyfriend fast. |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 2:10pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
okpara ugo: you are simply undergoing boredom... if an outsider touches you now, you will enjoy sex. but its wrong... Even if am crazy,I wud go with this advice |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 3:38pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
lynpetra: Talk to him about your sexual needs.Tell him what turns you on.If he doesn't shop on line for toys and use it in his presence.If he is like "WTF"..YOU. shud be like'Bleep you bitch!THIS is the best thing that has happen to me in recent times" ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by sexymoma(f): 3:43pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
i_laugh: Get a boyfriend fast.Are you ok ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by swtme(f): 4:24pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
eme+ify: You might be going thru stress or depression,if u can just go thru ur daily routine n figure it out then try 2 calm urself down n add fun 2 ur life. Or maybe u don't find urself attractive,so buy some sexy undies n night wears that makes u luk attractive. If u r too dry down there then it might be an infection, maybe u should go and see ur Dr.....I op it helps n eventually bring peace 2 ur marriage ![]() |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by ITbomb(m): 4:44pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Try sex in other places other than your home or bed. Go on a outing with your husband, get somewhere out of sight and start smooching, Oh sorry, you said your husband is not understanding. Get a gadget. |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 4:50pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
lynpetra: I'm in love with this lady... |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 5:04pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
lynpetra: Talk to him about your sexual needs.Tell him what turns you on.If he doesn't, shop on line for toys and use it in his presence.If he is like "WTF"..YOU. shud be like'Bleep you bitch!THIS is the best thing that has happen to me in recent times" Do not take this as an insult: make efforts to read your posts and see if it needs improving. 1 Like |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 5:59pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
No matter what you do,when you do it too much it looses its value and spice.so take a vacation away from your husband so that you two no go see una self finish 1 Like |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by thorpido(m): 6:27pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Have u just had a child?Childbirth seems to affect sex drive in some women. You need to rediscover yourself.Take time away from normal routine.Have a vacation and try new styles with your hubby. 1 Like |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by soulglo: 6:45pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Did you just have a baby? Did you start a new birth control? This is not as unusual as it seems. It could be purely hormonal. Every woman and even men will experience this in their life time. In the mean time your sex life should not die. You just cannot stop having sex with your husband. Talk with a professional and keep your husband informed so that it is problem you guys are solving together. Don't stress about it |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 7:27pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
You need to search yourself, what killed the vibe? And then find a way to make things work. Or better still, change your style in sex. Don't be reluctant to try new things. With the consent of your husband, ofcourse. |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 10:03pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
fluid26: None taken.Am sure yours need improving too. |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 10:06pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
uniqueval: What's there to love? ![]()
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Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 10:08pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Phema: ![]() |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by kendraloops: 10:14pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
thorpido: Have u just had a child?Childbirth seems to affect sex drive in some women.little wonder. am in d same situation with d op. I just don't care abt it anymore. had a baby recently n I was stitched down dere. stil feel pains most of d time as a result so any mention or interest in se.x by hubby gets me screaming. most times,I just go thru d motions cos d pains don't allow me even think of enjoyin anything. I don't like ow tins r,but I can't help it too. |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Archilouis(m): 10:15pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Take a vacation with him. Go somewhere new. Try to forget home worries. The more the worries/responsibilities in your life, the less likely you will get into sex-mode. |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 11:36pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
lynpetra: Would you rather have me 1. write an essay in not less than 450 words, 2. compose a poem in not less than 20 lines or 3. giv u a breathe taking kiss and leave you to figure the rest out... on why I'm so in love with you...? ![]() itz your call... what is your final answer... ![]() |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 11:48pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
OP, have you explored the possibility that the problem could be from you. Perhaps your fanny has lost some of its elasticity since you got married which may have consequently led to the inability of your hubby's not-too-endowed thingy to explore the intricate areas of your fanny which used to excite you back in the days... I guess there are artificial ways to regaining your lost elasticity... |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 11:56pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Every marriage experiences this but what differentiate one from d other is the level with which they were handled. Especially for a new mum who not only put to bed with an angry scar but have to be awake most nights for d baby. All these have adverse effect on d body. Some can be cranky, some will add weight esp if one is on drugs and most will be aversed to sex. What u can do will depend solely on ur environ and income. But first, hubby must know that this is a problem. He must be supportive. Patience is equally needed. With dat in mind, u can give sex a break. For married couple,sex is about quality and not quantity. U guys can woo each other again. Think on those things that made u lv him and accepted to wed him. Always hv a positive mindset about him. U 2 can buy lv movies and watch together. Indulge ur fantasy a bit. And most importantly,pray about it. Use v lubricants for lesser friction. With time,ur body will adjust again. Problems like this is one of the major reasons why marriage break. A non understanding man will overlook d frigidity and moves on with his life while d woman may feel nonchalant until its too late. Let's be each other's help mate. 1 Like |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 12:07am On Sep 12, 2013 |
uniqueval: Can I have it all? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 12:42am On Sep 12, 2013 |
seek Jesus |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by vivianc(f): 1:19am On Sep 12, 2013 |
Nna eh, ihe nke a dikwa vely vely lisky, especially when guy man don shack Whisky. I'm hardly qualified to advise, so ka m shiftu kene. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by Nobody: 1:36am On Sep 12, 2013 |
lynpetra: Sure!! let's get started from the last option... So what's your flavour...? I have on my menu ~ French Single lip'd Butterfly Spiderman (Upside down) et Lingering lips ![]() Once again, your call ![]() |
Re: I Am No Longer Interested In Sex With My Hubby by komek(m): 10:44am On Sep 12, 2013 |
@OP, I don't know what made u to lose interest in having sex with ur hubby, buh the truth is that Most men like me can be driven into the waiting hands of another woman who is ready to gv it to me anytime I want it. You have ur reasons why u suddenly lost interest, buh I will advice u to work on it. Men hate it when u deny them of that. Share ur experience with REASONABLE women who will lead u on the right track so that u can be able to save ur family the problem that may befall it later. |
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