(1). If you believe that you must always have the
last
say
in an argument,you are not ready for marriage.

(2). If you don't like anyone invading your
space,you
are
not ready.

(3). If you're a lady,and you don't cook or don't like
to,your marriage is not likely to be easy or funny
one.

(4). If you always say things exactly how they come
to
your mind not caring who is hurt,your marriage is
likely to crash.

(5). If you believe you are who you are and no one
can
change that,you're not ready.

(6). If you think about others when you've fully
sorted
yourself out,you're not ready.

(7). If you are so good about holding a grudge and
you
will only let go when you feel like,stay unmarried
please.

(. If you're a man and you are not engaged in
ventures or a process in time that can financially
take
care of your immediate family and
beyond,you need to give yourself a few more years
to
be
ready.

(9). If as a man,you're easily swayed and
pressurized to
do things against your wish,you are not ready for
marriage.

(10). If you believe that women at best should be
good
in bed and kitchen affairs only,you will end up
having a
bitter and subdued wife;stay away.

(11). If your mind can't conceive the thought of
having
a
more successful wife,even if it is temporary,then
you
have little growing up to do.

(12). If you have no confidence in your capability
and
your future,you have no business taking someone
else
with you.

(13). If as a man,you don't have a mentor or leader
you
follow,listen or defer to,you're not going to be able
to
lead your family.

(14). If you can't have wedding ceremony within a
budget you can personally afford,give yourself
more
time. Who says you can't have 20 guests or less at
your
wedding? Cut your coat according to your cloth
and
take responsibility. As a man, you can define how
small
or large you want your wedding ceremony to be
and be
able to handle it.

(15). If you have anger problem such that you can
destroy things when you are angry, get a therapist
to
help you in managing it. Otherwise engage God's
help
for the change you seek. With anger issues,you're a
disaster waiting to explode.

Marriage is an investment and a covenant, what
you put into it is what
comes out of it!
Ask God for a true Direction

I'm guilty of Number 2 and 5 especially number 2 - I just love my space, I don't like somebody bothering me! I love fresh air around me!

But is number 13 compulsory? I don't have a mentor! I am my mentor!

sexkillz: Interesting.

Your first ever complement since I started publishing articles on NAIRALAND..... Thank you!

Guilty of 2,4,5,11 and 13

homesteady: I'm guilty of Number 2 and 5 especially number 2 - I just love my space, I don't like somebody bothering me! I love fresh air around me!

But is number 13 compulsory? I don't have a mentor! I am my mentor!

As a man, if you don't have a mentor or leader, it is bad!
My mentor is King Solomon of the Bible, My Master and Father is GOD!!

In obedience to rule no 13, i want to point it out that this guy has disobeyed rule no 14. I promise, this thread was up in family section of recent.

By the way, i kinda missed ur lists.

alutacontinua: In obedience to rule no 13, i want to point it out that this guy has disobeyed rule no 14. I promise, this thread was up in family section of recent.

By the way, i kinda missed ur lists.

Thanks Aluta...... I deeply appreciate

Ijele-igbo:


Thanks Aluta...... I deeply appreciate

You're welcome

Ijele no vex we don c this article b4,i have tire ooooooooooo

cdamsel: Ijele no vex we don c this article b4,i have tire ooooooooooo

Even if you've seen it, others haven't seen yet!
BE YOUR BROTHER'S KEEPER

This is serious, if I tell u say e easy not to dey guilty of any of this na SETUP

Eobiabo: This is serious, if I tell u say e easy not to dey guilty of any of this na SETUP

My brother, its not by power, might or our abilities....... Its by the grace of God Almighty

Ok... I'm definitely not ready!


Btw, this is nice...

Eobiabo: This is serious, if I tell u say e easy not to dey guilty of any of this na SETUP

Bros,if me is tell you me is understand what you are typed,wallahi it is a SETUP

[size=14pt]your mentor must be someone that you relate to, someone who can advise you when in need not a figure or character......it has to be someone who knows you personally, whose lifestyle you would love to emulate [/size]

addictiv: [size=14pt]your mentor must be someone that you relate to, someone who can advise you when in need not a figure or character......it has to be someone who knows you personally, whose lifestyle you would love to emulate [/size]

Then King Solomon's my role model......

Ijele-igbo:


Then King Solomon's my role model......

[size=14pt]k...hope you hit the 700 bench mark [/size]

ok

Have you wondered why the best marriage counselors get divorced themselves?

addictiv:
[size=14pt]k...hope you hit the 700 bench mark [/size]

Before I die, I'll hit more than 700

I'm taking 8, 9, 10 and 12 and throwing the rest out of the window. Thanks...!

Ijele-igbo:


Your first ever complement since I started publishing articles on NAIRALAND..... Thank you!

Lol. Ijele-igbo you and this your passion for lists. '15 ways to know . . ', '5 Ways to get . . .', '10 Ways to be . . .' etc You should start your own listverse

Uyi Iredia:

Lol. Ijele-igbo you and this your passion for lists. '15 ways to know . . ', '5 Ways to get . . .', '10 Ways to be . . .' etc You should start your own listverse

You really gonna help me with that