Popowaa: What is stopping u from calling him or whatsapping him?Most guys like women who knw what they want.U've waited all this years,he makes the move and u are pushing him away becos u want him to be calling first?He's getting tired and feels u dont care abt him since he is alwz the one calling and whatsapping.Guys like girls who give them hard time but it stresses them if it's get too much and they walk away without looking back.Matured people dont behave that way so just pick the damn phone and call.All the best.

chokl8candie:
Now here is the problem. Ive never called him,he ws always the one calling and i barely whatsapped him unless he's whatsapped me lyk 3 or 4 times already cuz ive made up dis policy that i'll never be the 1st to buzz on whatsapp. All of a sudden he stopped calling and the frequency of his whatsapp msgs reduced. So it got me wondering if i'd turned him off

Reason why i barely holla at him is cuz from past experiences ive realised most guys including my exes are attracted to girls who give them little attention n are always playing hard to get. so i thot i cud get the guy interested in me alot more by doing that but its not working cuz he doesnt evn whatsapp me

Popowaa: What is stopping u from calling him or whatsapping him?Most guys like women who knw what they want.U've waited all this years,he makes the move and u are pushing him away becos u want him to be calling first?He's getting tired and feels u dont care abt him since he is alwz the one calling and whatsapping.Guys like girls who give them hard time but it stresses them if it's get too much and they walk away without looking back.Matured people dont behave that way so just pick the damn phone and call.All the best.

Popowaa: What is stopping u from calling him or whatsapping him?Most guys like women who knw what they want.U've waited all this years,he makes the move and u are pushing him away becos u want him to be calling first?He's getting tired and feels u dont care abt him since he is alwz the one calling and whatsapping.Guys like girls who give them hard time but it stresses them if it's get too much and they walk away without looking back.Matured people dont behave that way so just pick the damn phone and call.All the best.

Funnicator: ^Chai I hardly see girls give their female friends good advice. I mean in real life.

emorse:
You know the problem already. Solve it.

Nothing in the world is as wrong as this. Truth is, a lot of guys like girls who give them attention. Infact, they crave 4 it. As long as d babe doesn't appear loose.. Play along with the "close" friendship and resist the urge to start any relationship talk with him. Don't ask about his girlfriend, etc etc. When he starts it, pretend not to be interested(don't do this 4 2 long). He sure will chase you even if you hide inside you uncle's shoes. Just my humble opinion.

Funnicator: ^Chai I hardly see girls give their female friends good advice. I mean in real life.

emorse:
You know the problem already. Solve it.

Nothing in the world is as wrong as this. Truth is, a lot of guys like girls who give them attention. Infact, they crave 4 it. As long as d babe doesn't appear loose.. Play along with the "close" friendship and resist the urge to start any relationship talk with him. Don't ask about his girlfriend, etc etc. When he starts it, pretend not to be interested(don't do this 4 2 long). He sure will chase you even if you hide inside you uncle's shoes. Just my humble opinion.

chokl8candie:

Ucheosefoh: stop thinking like teenagers u are a graduate for goodness sake. Attention should be mutual not one direction as a graduate the last thing on his mind is chasing a hard to get gal when he suppose to be busy making money. As for ur question I do that a lot when a gal I am interested in refuse to show attention I will move on cus nothing is more frustrating than somebody u like not showing any interest. @op no guy will luv and be faithful to u cus u play hard to get, some guys that go any length to get u may be cus of the bet placed on ur head not that he love u. Show him u are interested but dnt over do it like Popowa says pick the damn phone

Funnicator: ^Chai I hardly see girls give their female friends good advice. I mean in real life.

chokl8candie:
The 1st point u made about guys liking girls who give them attention.
Trust me i noe what i mean when i say guys like girls who pay them no mind. Maybe ur an exception but most guys find it a turn off when a girl gives them just as much attention as they do. I still hv guys who's msgs n calls i ignore still bothering me, n u'd think they wud hv had a bit of pride by now and just delete my num. Aniwaes i get u. I shd try to be a friend, not a girlfriend.

Ucheosefoh: @op no guy will luv and be faithful to u cus u play hard to get, some guys that go any length to get u may be cus of the bet placed on ur head not that he love u.

firetrap:
if u don't show interest in me I'll loose interest in you so fast usain bolt will be amazed

chokl8candie:
hmmm thnx hun .....will try and send him a msg tonight. But im just caught in a dilema cuz i told one of my closest friends about the situation n she told me to let the guy go cz if he's not tryin too hard to get my affection then he's not really into me and honestly im so used to guys tryin hard to get my attention even when i dont put in any effort. This guy is an exception cz i reali lyk him so will take ur advice n whatsapp him

chokl8candie:
now im starting to change my mind about this playing hard to get attitude. From how uve put it im feeling horrible cuz i listened to my frnds advice ..... Im gnna get in touch wiv him asap

Ucheosefoh: Keep in touch with him who knows it may to marriage since u both are graduates

gunners160: case closed.i hv argueed over dis same issue times w/o number wit my bst frnd 4were she no gree. she thinks dat any guy dat go on his kneels cry like a baby 4 a lady is d only sincere love.funny enough she is nt d only 1 wit dis silly thinkin most ladies r like dat.(if i am tough 2 get e wuld value mi more)dey do 4get dat nw d r lot of choices if missD says no miss F would say ys.guys hs lots of things 2 thing abt haba nt only love!! love! love!i hope some ladies wuld start changin dhr sch of thought over dis issue.most guys who go upto dat extent still beggin nd cryin over a ladi 4more dan 3 4 months etc dey r doin dat 4 dhr own gain either 2 boast dhr class or 4 a bet only few do dat 4 love

Nonso23: :

Emmadani: And the op said she is a graduate and stil acting like a toy.I'v now come to d conclusion that a graduate might still b a baby.