Let’s face it, as there are things women hate about men, there are things men hate about women too. It is not often because of the man that the relationships failed. Women are fond of making this seem the case. The man is always painted the bad guy responsible for all the heart ache and heart break. But this is not often the case. More often than we women would want to admit, it is the woman’s fault things did not work out. Many women need to learn to admit this and know that it is also their responsibility to help make things work in their relationships. Many need to learn to put their act together. It is not really nice to be classed into any of the categories of women men love to avoid especially if you are looking to settle into a fulfilling relationship. Here are a few kinds of women men stay away from.

THE GOLD DIGGER

The gold digger is the lady that is more interested in your money than she is interested in you. She is the person who wouldn’t be with you if you didn’t have the ability to provide for her needs. She wants what you can offer her more than she wants your company. She appreciates only your financial resources. Such women always have needs that have to be urgently met and they will keep at you about it until they get what they want. They are always about their bills: house rent, clothes, medical bills etc. This sort lacks empathy and is often ignorant or unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings or needs of her partner in the relationship. She always expects and never gives. Such women are everywhere.

MISS RIGHT

This lovely lady may have a host of great qualities and admirable characteristics, but she has this strong need to always be right. She is always correct, has to always be right. She never accepts defeat not in an argument. This trait is so strong that it turns her relationship not only into a battle ground but a general disaster as well. That’s why she makes it into the six types of women to avoid. She has to be right about any and everything to the point that your slightest word had better be in agreement with her’s. She is cocky, argumentative quarrelsome and often and easily picks fights. She likes having the last word. This is enough to wear any man out. She generally wears that “I told you so” look everywhere and makes him feel dumb when he falters or makes mistakes. If you disagree or prove her wrong, she can’t let you go free without a nasty fight. Her pride and her arrogance stand in the way of her having a good relationship not only with her guy but with any one at that.

THE BOSSY WOMAN

A bossy man is accepted because society accepts the bossy assertive male. It even believes such men help get things done in the society but the bossy woman on the contrary is totally disliked by the society. This is because being bossy is regarded as abnormal character for women. Society is simply antagonistic to the bossy female. This is because in many societies the woman is still expected to be that submissive creature that stays at home and in the kitchen nurturing everyone. But the bossy woman in contrast is usually the strong willed, controlling, feminist, man hating, mean, over ambitious (career minded) over independent woman that makes the relationship feel more like a business partnership than a romantic relationship. Men are threatened by this self assured, maybe high earning even possibly argumentative female. Signs of this overbearing attitude in any woman no matter her other endowments will likely send any normal thinking male running.

MISS CLINGY

From all available statistics it is obvious men hate clingy women. Clinginess is not only annoying but can be exhausting in a relationship. The woman known as miss clingy is that overly possessive, obsessed, insecure female with endless self esteem issues. She so obsessed with the relationship she worries endlessly what would become of her if the relationship were to end and on account of this insecurity has too much drama which she foolishly involves him in endlessly. She has to be over at his place all the time and mixes herself in all his business uninvited and men find this very tedious. She bores them out of their minds. Most men are free spirited and don’t want to put up with this.

MISS CHATTER BOX.

This type of woman is very superficial and talkative. She is always with her numerous female friends and has too much time for gossip. She knows everyone and everyone’s business and everything going down. She is easily the loudest and merriest in a room and is free with everyone even people she barely knows. When she starts talking she prattles merrily on for the next ten minutes without stopping or noticing that he is not responding to her talk or if he is, he is responding in uninterested monosyllables. She shares her ideas and thought with anyone and does not seem to know or understand the need for privacy or secrecy. This wears him out. No man likes to be worn out this way. What is more it takes effort for him to be heard in the relationship. He feels he has to fight for his time to put in a word and when he does, she doesn’t even hear him because she is self involved.

THE FLIRT

Finally the flirt is another type of woman men hate. This is the kind of lady that can flirt with anyone in trousers. It is an awful trait. He cannot trust her with his best friend or his brother because she would flirt or sleep with anyone behind his back. No man has tolerance for this type of woman. There are tons of women like this these days. Without good morals. Even if a man (and I don’t know any) can find it within himself for love of a girl to tolerate this, you can be sure he won’t tolerate it for long. Some women flirt around with other men to stroke their egos because they feel they are so beautiful and irritable, others end up being called flirts because they are too friendly with the opposite sex and have almost no boundaries. Even if they don’t sleep with them, some women feel more comfortable surrounded by a lot of male friends. This usually sends off the wrong message to their man if they are in a committed relationship. Some are too insecure they have to be in multiple relationships to feel loved or needed, for others it is just their nature or personality. Whatever is the reason men are known to be territorial creatures no man wants the threat of another man in his territory. He would leave as soon as he is no longer sure his woman.

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