Gabriel_sylar: The ONLY key is to marry the right person

Errhm,abeg how do u know the right person?
Abi e dey show for face?

You can never claim to have known each other well,even if u spent 10yrs courting b4 marriage. Atfter marriage,u will start seeing the manifestation of the real person u married as in strength,weakneses,opportunities and threats.
My 50kobo!

Remember that God joined you together in marriage

yes o

k2039: how do you know the right person?.

GOOD QUESTION

Gabriel_sylar: The ONLY key is to marry the right person

it's not enough since the person is not an angel.u still need all these

I cry as i read dis... I had a little misundastanding with my 4months pregnant wife earlier dis afternoon. I felt so bad dat she walked out on me as i was pouring my dissatisfaction out to her... With great annoyance i called her mum and reported it to her, she tried her best to calm me down, she adviced me to ignor her daughter's unreasoning nature, and promised to talk to her. I love dis lady with my life, she carrying our 1st child in her womb, but somtimes she turns on her bad side, and she won't turn it off no mata hw i try to resolve d issue... Right now am listoning to Waje in her song titled I WISH. i realy wish dat i dont her a heart.

joel lala: 8. Agree that divorce is not the answer:

What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder." Matthew 19:6. "Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery." Matthew 19:9. "The woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth." Romans 7:2.

Answer: The Bible is clear. The ties of marriage are meant to be indissoluble and indestructible. Divorce is permissible only in the case of adultery. But even then it is not demanded, only permitted. Forgiveness is always better than divorce, even in the case of a moral fall. Marriage is for life. God so ordained it when He performed the first wedding in Eden. Thoughts of divorce as a solution will destroy any marriage. This is one reason Jesus ruled it out. Divorce is always destructive and almost never a solution to the problem. Instead, it creates much greater problems, so it should never be considered. Torn, frustrated, unhappy, twisted lives almost inevitably follow divorce, and even success in life itself is often thwarted. God instituted marriage to guard people's purity and happiness, to provide for their social needs, and to elevate their physical, mental, and moral nature. Its vows are among the most solemn and binding obligations that human beings can assume. To lightly set them aside results in removing one's self from God's favor and blessing.

To emphasize a point on this.
Fornication and adultery are two different things.

Fornication is outside marriage, while adultery is inside marriage.

A man can decide not to marry a woman even 1 second to the wedding if discovered she fornicated, the same goes to the Lady also! That is if he/she fornicates before wedding, then the wedding can be called off.

But, once in the marriage, come ANYTHING, both will need to manage the issues despite any ODD.

That is where christians are getting it all wrong, thereby resulting to broken homes!

FOR BETTER FOR WORSE....that why one has to be careful during the era of pre-marriage and under-marriage......NO EXCUSE!

The only time u can say "I no dey do again" is before wedding o!

slimmy05: Nice piece, thanks for sharing. God bless.

Thank you and Amen sir..

funkyjms:

Where dyu qeh this poo from? Oh...the church riqht? "The Church permits..."
Are you followinq "The Church" (human knowledge) or the Bible? Readinq ma Bible from "pálí to pálí" I didn't see any verse that supports divorce! (Flip thru 1 Corinthians 7 vs 8 - 17) *sinqinq in Ebenezer Obey's voice* "What God has join together, let no man put asunder"

On the issue of "remarraiqe," the only condition my bible pointed to me is death. (Flip thru 1 Corinthians 7 vs 8 - 17)

Please, don't bother to reply 'cos I often shy away from biblical arquements.

Jex take this or leave it.

To further buttress your point Jesus said ' Whoever divorces his/her spouse to marry another commits adultery and whoever marries a divorcee is equally guilty of adultery' (Mark 10 vs 11-12)

Gabriel_sylar: The ONLY key is to marry the right person

i disagree wit dis, there is no right or wrong parner in marriage, becos d deem right partner turn wrong as d years pass by most times..
If God is not in dat union, then it wil always turn wrong..

good write up

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Lovely points

nice one OP
I especially like the one of the divorce and fogiveness

metamorphus11: nice one OP
I especially like the one of the divorce and fogiveness

To God be all the glory ma.

metamorphus11: nice one OP
I especially like the one of the divorce and fogiveness

To God be all the glory ma..am glad you benefitted from it.

Thanks OP great piece! I love it

wazlee: I cry as i read dis... I had a little misundastanding with my 4months pregnant wife earlier dis afternoon. I felt so bad dat she walked out on me as i was pouring my dissatisfaction out to her... With great annoyance i called her mum and reported it to her, she tried her best to calm me down, she adviced me to ignor her daughter's unreasoning nature, and promised to talk to her. I love dis lady with my life, she carrying our 1st child in her womb, but somtimes she turns on her bad side, and she won't turn it off no mata hw i try to resolve d issue... Right now am listoning to Waje in her song titled I WISH. i realy wish dat i dont her a heart.

Dont worry sir..everything will be alright just be patient with her especially as she is pregnant..Women are easily pissed off during this stage..sorry this is coming a bit late.

No couple came together to be separated after some time, but devil will always want to scatter everything, especially if there is love there. However, if the couple are committed to their marriage, they will build a strong shield which will be hard for Satan to break.
They will do this by reminding themselves how they are committed to making their marriage last.

aikmurphy: No couple came together to be separated after some time, but devil will always want to scatter everything, especially if there is love there. However, if the couple are committed to their marriage, they will build a strong shield which will be hard for Satan to break.
They will do this by reminding themselves how they are committed to making their marriage last.

wonderful.