I’m not a relationship expert but if there’s one thing I know, when a guy or man you’re seeing refuses to label what you both share, whether it’s a committed one or friends with benefits and somehow you come up with the discussion on where “we have something” relationship is headed and he tells you, “babe let’s just see how it goes”.

My dear friends, I advise you to run faster than a cheetah from men like that, except you’re not looking for anything serious. If you’re looking for anything serious then you should read this article.

I’ve been a victim of “let’s see how it goes”, not once but twice, apparently I remixed the once beaten twice shy lesson.

I was having the time of my life with Stanley (not real name), or so I thought. I assumed we were dating but it turns out I was in a relationship with myself.

That’s another thing you shouldn’t do, never assume, define your relationship form the beginning. Don’t be like me that was busy updating my bbm status to “boo of life”, “my baby is the best”.

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