In my day 2 day life i fell like crying 4 ppl especially women, then i decided 2 ask myself which is more heart breaking in dis 2 tins. Firstly dat a woman hasnt gotten married even at her old age and den she wil be passing 2tru pains seeing her mates happily married nd some even with der children. I knw if a particular woman is in dat particular condition she wuld be heart broke. And also wen a woman gets married and says years in dat marriage without any issue, and nw my question is if anyone shud find his or herself in dis situation which 1 of dem is more heart breaking. Comment please.

None is heartbreaking. The only thing that may cause dismay is ones attitude to a particular situation. Never let a circumsatnce define who you are. A woman that is nt married may choose to be happy for others knowing that she is also a mother to many like wise a childless woman.

None. Unmarried lady can be a single mom while a childless woman can adopt if they wish

Two of them r heartbreaking but a case of a married woman w'out a child is more heartbreaking.

Many odds r against her.This is naija, adopten is hardly encouraged.
2ndly, its no longer her personal matter but family matter. Including extended.
An unmarried lady with a good carrier have something to fall back to. The only thing is she is not married. She can equally give birth or adopt if she want to.
We need to c the agony a married woman pass tru bc of no kid. Why do baby factories boom?,churches and pls take a look at ttc thread, bc u r not in their shoes, u will never know and especially if d problem is from the woman. Pls let's not go there.

The fact is that they choose NOT to be happy! Datz all!

@op. This ur comparism nah wao o.@op. This ur comparism nah wao o.@op. This ur comparism nah wao o.

I hv seen a woman dat didnt married on time let me say dat she later got married at age of 40 and uptill nw been 8years nw she has nt given birth i wonder hw she wil be feelin all dis years

I wouldn't allow myself to be unhappy just because I have no husband even though it would be very nice to be happily married but such is life, sometimes we don't get what we want. I would be unhappy though if I couldn't have children, I can't imagine my life without children. If I was barren, I would adopt! I love children!