hmmmmm....
Guys sef!!

She's a girl na! take ur time and tease her lil by lil, create a romantic atmosphere on tha first night and keep tha sex tin outta ur mind!! but make tha right moves to make her want and dream bout it. I bet u, u'll be pounding her puny away on tha second night!!

But all dis sex hungry guys sef! wey dey wan fall my hand on first nights! all dem dey concerned about na to kpansh on first invite, ..mstchewww!!!

Oh boi you dull o infact you deserves some lashing

dionysius: guy wake up. No dulling next time. If she invites you over to 'SLEEP', no slack again, mount pressure till u score which i can tell u, is what she wants.

On point bro!

@Op. A girl can't invite u to her place without wanting anything. I think u kinda rushed. Next time don't rush!

Reading through these comments makes me wonder If sex is the only thing guys want In a relationship...see how they are telling d op he didn't do hs job well...SMH..

Op, i must say you lack self control and discipline...

Truth is she's just indecisive,she likes u as a friend already and might be bothered what happens after you have done the deed

segzi cres: @ab025 pls STFU! Its guys like you with zero confidence that make ladies believe they can play whatever games they like on men. The babe is just a confused hoe.

So, u tink it is wen a guy fvcks a gal in their first meetin in her house, that is wen d guy is confident...? U are very wrong!!!

Haven't u ever gone to a lady's place and be denied sex b4? Why are all of u insultin d op that he fuckd up, as if he didn't try his best..? Sex is not a do or die affair na, what is bad if he tries another day...

@segzi cres....are u tryin to say u ve fvckd every gal that came to ur house or that u went to their house? Dis guy went to a gal's house that is trippin for him, although she refuses to sex him d first day, is there any tin that has changed...? Who says she won't allow him tomorrow? @segzi cres.. It is guys like u that always force ladies to hav sex.

All of u tellin d op that he fuckd up, which of u can swear that a lady has neva stoppd/denied u sex b4, xpecially a lady that u xpected will giv u freely b4, whether in ur house or her house....

Even dbanj and 2face, some ladies don even deny them sex talkless of all of una here, even married men sef, atimes their wife no dey gree do for some week sef

Just because a lady is trippin for u doesn't mean she will sleep wit u, that's women for u, trippin is different frm sex, unlike we men that trippin and sex are related

A man's mumu-button is different frm a lady's mumu-button....the op shud work on d gal and dnt give up

vivichocs: Reading through these comments makes me wonder If sex is the only thing guys want In a relationship...see how they are telling d op he didn't do hs job well...SMH..

Op, i must say you lack self control and discipline...

But of what benefit is there for a woman to invite a man she met online to her bed for a night in? Where exactly is the sense here if not to have sex? Is it that some women don't think or mental intelligence is not a trait for most women?

Cynthia okosun is still fresh in our memory o.

Dunce everywhere!

Oh man, u kinda acted too fast, even james bond wuld hav taken things more calmy. Ok she invited u 2 sleep over, but i tink u shuld hav ask her why she wanted u to come sleep at her place (considerin datz d 1st tym u're visiting her). Maybe she felt d urge to talk and or be close 2 some1 she feels cmfortable with, (not necesarily in terms of sex. Girls often hav diz kind of urge wen they're troubled or confused abt smtin. U shuld hav listened more and acted less.

My question is what responsible girl who has a boyfriend would invite another guy into her room 4 a sleep over? Try it with a plain friend and u just might be lucky to get through the night more or less a guy uve been flirting with.that move was cheap. So I blame the guy not. And yes I concor shez DAFT

thareta: My question is what responsible girl who has a boyfriend would invite another guy into her room 4 a sleep over? Try it with a plain friend and u just might be lucky to get through the night more or less a guy uve been flirting with.that move was cheap. So I blame the guy not. And yes I concor shez DAFT

Exactly.

lol
She use u pass time my brother!

Cumreal: Okay so this girl invited me over to come and visit her for the day and sleepover at her place. We have been chatting for a few months before then and she has been sending me signals like she likes me, flirting etc also told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend (maybe that's why she was chatting to me). So when i go and visit her the flirting increased and we are on her bed together chilling then i make a move and try to kiss her, and then she begins drama and she tells me she cant do it because she has a boyfriend bla bla and that she is not that type of girl. WTF? My question is why the heck would she invite me over when she knows she has a boyfriend? Also why would she not tell me beforehand that she has a boyfriend. I had the impression she was single based on what she told me. After i left her place back to my place she starts texting me that she misses me!. Is she daft.


I haven't even replied her messages since then.

Yep! Congrats! You just met a typical Nigerian girl.

That is some of them's perception of "wooing" and they would say they want a "romantic guy".

I had this EXACT discussion with El Razur some few weeks ago. It is really part of the "courtship lifecycle with Naija girls" that I have been procrastinating to open a thread on.

She probably expected you to start struggling with her before she finally gives in, so she can claim she was chaste and also use it as emotional weapon later in the relationship (that "I really did not want to do, but you pressured me. Why do you want to leave me?".

I have even joked about it before:

https://www.nairaland.com/316937/what-nairaland-female-members-pictures/93#5323856

I don't engage in such, that is why I find Naija girls a bore and unromantic. They will follow you and play along, coming to you house and with you to bed alone and then when it comes to taking it all off, na WWF Royal Rumble.

I have told several before "Look, I am not a rapist and I am not a wrestler. All these your struggle I am not interested in and is killing my interest" and then I just sleep off. No be by force!

Sagamite:

Yep! Congrats! You just met a typical Nigerian girl.

That is some of them's perception of "wooing" and they would say they want a "romantic guy".

I had this EXACT discussion with El Razur some few weeks ago. It is really part of the "courtship lifecycle with Naija girls" that I have been procrastinating to open a thread on.

She probably expected you to start struggling with her before she finally gives in, so she can claim she was chaste and also use it as emotional weapon later in the relationship (that "I really did not want to do, but you pressured me. Why do you want to leave me?".

I have even joked about it before:

https://www.nairaland.com/316937/what-nairaland-female-members-pictures/93#5323856

I don't engage in such, that is why I find Naija girls a bore and unromantic. They will follow you and play along, coming to you house and with you to bed alone and then when it comes to taking it all off, na WWF Royal Rumble.

I have told several before "Look, I am not a rapist and I am not a wrestler. All these your struggle I am not interest in and is killing my interest" and then I just sleep off. No be by force!

Where do I even start from in correcting this? Product of a failed education system.

rman: LMFAO

How old are you? I can tell both of you are still very young.

Anyway, she is just being a girl and most girls think giving in on the first attempt makes them cheap. All the talk about having a boyfriend is a lie. She really likes you and want to be bold enough to come get her.

Now go back and finish the job. And please stop when she asks you to stop.

And he has sed it all. Now go back n complete ur job.

se make I laugh ni?

TAKE WHATS YOURS NIGGA

Maybe you treated her like a LovePeddler or you behaved like high libido sex monger...stop the sex thinking every time you are with a girl.

Sagamite: .

sagamite.
long time dear!

i have a present for you.

enjoy!
http://youtu.be/zJB2-vZYSCs

*Kails*:


sagamite.
long time dear!

i have a present for you.

enjoy!
http://youtu.be/zJB2-vZYSCs

WTF is this?

I could not hear a bleeping thing this foool was saying.

Is he alright upstairs?

Anyway, for you:

Jesus Christ is coming soon, REPENT NOW! Illegitimate sex is about 5 mins pleasure and a lifetime agony. If you love her go ahead and do the right thing. Many guys nowadays think sleeping with bunch of girls is a kind of feat. Its a cycle bro, a cycle of self-destruction. My kobo

u should not have made moves on her when u visited her and u guys where maybe supposed to meet at a public place and not private movies , dinner etc. She does like u but she does not want u to see her as cheap as jumpin to bed would be something else

Sagamite:

WTF is this?

I could not hear a bleeping thing this foool was saying.

Is he alright upstairs?

Anyway, for you:

lmao. I sure hope so! He's probably drinking too much of that sirrup crap.
Anyway, I'm fine dear. it's been a while!
I missed ya.

*Kails*:




lmao. I sure hope so! He's probably drinking too much of that sirrup crap.
Anyway, I'm fine dear. it's been a while!
I missed ya.

I can guarantee you that he would claim it is the white man that is holding him down from achieving in life.

Missed you too, cutie.

Monicasque: u should not have made moves on her when u visited her and u guys where maybe supposed to meet at a public place and not private movies , dinner etc. She does like u but she does not want u to see her as cheap as jumpin to bed would be something else

What utter rubbish!

Get your notebook and pen out and learn some courtship manners.

- Never invite a guy you are flirting with to your house to sleepover if you have no interest in sex.

- If for some unbelievable reasons, you feel the need to invite such a guy to sleep over, then broach the sex issue head on by telling him in advance during the invite that there would be no sex because ....... and let him acknowledge he understands.

Then you will not have a situation like this where you look like a reetarded and jejune schmuck because you want to prove you are chaste.

The lesson is how mature, cultured and sane girls would manage issues in a respectable way.

Yield: Delete her number and forget about her.

simple

sкчscrαρεr™:
i still can`t decipher the reason why qirls act that way, there was this qirl i was tryinq to chyke, she calls me all sorts of pet names, but when i start my love talk, she`ll start preachinq to me like i`m a devil. i`m not a call kindof quy 'cause i`m always online likewise the people i`m chattinq with, so whenever we talk online, she always talks about missinq me and wantinq to hear my voice, but when i eventually call her and said all the best love lines i have in my head she qoes like "hmmmm ok" wtf¡ damn¡ that babe is so borinq. honestly, i don`t know what she wants, this is a qirl i`ve known riqht from secondary school. she is twenty years of age now but still acts like a kid. when online, she send me all kind of love smileys ranqinq from heart, rose, kisses and who knows what next it will be. above all these, i dare not raise a s`exual conversation with her, not even a kiss convo. a day i qot so irritated so i decided to insult her, i purposely wanted to hurt her feelinqs so she can feel an iota of all i`ve been through just because of her. i tried to qet rid of her claiminq i have a qirlfriend but she doesn`t seem deterred by that. she is a churchy qirl and obsessed about hell fire. she does not want to have a boyfriend but almost everyday she keep baptizinq my phone with love messages and also yesterday she called me. i really don`t know what she want from me, i no wan do aqain o¡

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Ahhh hahahahaa #falls from ma bed still laffing# oga u must to do o!

sкчscrαρεr™:
i still can`t decipher the reason why qirls act that way, there was this qirl i was tryinq to chyke, she calls me all sorts of pet names, but when i start my love talk, she`ll start preachinq to me like i`m a devil. i`m not a call kindof quy 'cause i`m always online likewise the people i`m chattinq with, so whenever we talk online, she always talks about missinq me and wantinq to hear my voice, but when i eventually call her and said all the best love lines i have in my head she qoes like "hmmmm ok" wtf¡ damn¡ that babe is so borinq. honestly, i don`t know what she wants, this is a qirl i`ve known riqht from secondary school. she is twenty years of age now but still acts like a kid. when online, she send me all kind of love smileys ranqinq from heart, rose, kisses and who knows what next it will be. above all these, i dare not raise a s`exual conversation with her, not even a kiss convo. a day i qot so irritated so i decided to insult her, i purposely wanted to hurt her feelinqs so she can feel an iota of all i`ve been through just because of her. i tried to qet rid of her claiminq i have a qirlfriend but she doesn`t seem deterred by that. she is a churchy qirl and obsessed about hell fire. she does not want to have a boyfriend but almost everyday she keep baptizinq my phone with love messages and also yesterday she called me. i really don`t know what she want from me, i no wan do aqain o¡

[size=15pt]damn¡ qirls are crazy|[/size]

It is because most Nigeria girls are poor in making conversations and this one seems to be mixed with religious brainwash.

Sagamite:

It is because most Nigeria girls are poor in making conversations and this one seems to be mixed with religious brainwash.

'Like seriously', your incessant trash talking of Nigerian girls only says a lot about your environment and how your life has to be to get mixed up with those sort of Nigerian girls.

Where did you get your statistics from?? Let me guess, your gutter life experience??
And if you say otherwise, maybe you should check yourself. These girls might just find you extremely boring