The guidelines for a happy marriage or
relationship are as follows:
1) Don't try to change Us: Many women want to fix their men and control him. They want to turn their husbands or boyfriends to their own 'robots' forgetting that the men had lives
before dating them. A woman should not try to separate a man from his friends, she should not stop him from hanging out with the same people he was friends with before they got married. This is one of the reasons many married couples quarrel because the woman is trying to restrict the movements of her man.
2) There is no wife versus mother but wife
AND mother: Some women feel their husbands prefer their mothers to them and try to compete for the man's affections with her. This should not be the case because the way a man loves his mother is different from the love he has for the wife.
3) Money Loving B*tches-Some women think
marriage is a money making venture and try to suck their husbands dry. The same women are claiming independence and clamouring for gender equality. If you want to be treated
equally, bring your own share of money to the table. Take care of some bills and buy some things for yourself then we can talk.
4) Withholding Sex- Sex is supposed to be fun
and should be loving but it has been turned as a means of blackmail by wives and girlfriends. A woman who withholds sex or refuses to try new things in the bedroom is giving husband the license to cheat. Settle your differences with each other and leave sex out of the equation.
5) Take The First Step-Don't be shy to ask a guy out who knows he might just be waiting for you to take the first step.
Good luck as you continue your ultimate search.