Standing5: She need some sense of security.

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iamswizz: So moderator dey gbagaun sef.. Na wa o.. See error for topic sha.

Sageez: Man I understand your point. I feel same way. I know am too young to be saying this buh I have to say it.
In my sec skul days, I use to have this gf, I loved her so much, I use to sneak outta class just to see her face. Though her parents were richer than mine, I attained a public skul, she attained a private skul. Her friends told her not to continue the relationship because I was from a very poor background. After much pressure from her friends, she called-off the relationship telling me that she cannot date someone who is not sure of furthering his education. I asked her a simple question, what if I further? All she said was ''till then''.
Funny enough we meet last week after about 3years. Walk up to her and asked her ''how is skul'' she told me she just gained admission, all I did was smile and I wished her the best. After our discussion, she asked me what I was doin, and I told her am in skul, she did believe it until I showed her my ID card, all she did was shout '' a private skull? Can you cope with the fees?''. She felt so ashamed. Bro, I advice you give dem time, cuz time cures all wounds. Wit time, u wil get to know d type of person he is. Get close to the guy n get to know the type of person he is. Everyone has his/her bad time, u dont know, he may be in his

n.b
I'm surprised at all the castigation. you people should walk in my shoe to know How it pinches.

Sageez: Man I understand your point. I feel same way. I know am too young to be saying this buh I have to say it.
In my sec skul days, I use to have this gf, I loved her so much, I use to sneak outta class just to see her face. Though her parents were richer than mine, I attained a public skul, she attained a private skul. Her friends told her not to continue the relationship because I was from a very poor background. After much pressure from her friends, she called-off the relationship telling me that she cannot date someone who is not sure of furthering his education. I asked her a simple question, what if I further? All she said was ''till then''.
Funny enough we meet last week after about 3years. Walk up to her and asked her ''how is skul'' she told me she just gained admission, all I did was smile and I wished her the best. After our discussion, she asked me what I was doin, and I told her am in skul, she did believe it until I showed her my ID card, all she did was shout '' a private skull? Can you cope with the fees?''. She felt so ashamed. Bro, I advice you give dem time, cuz time cures all wounds. Wit time, u wil get to know d type of person he is. Get close to the guy n get to know the type of person he is. Everyone has his/her bad time, u dont know, he may be in his

Dis Guy: Mumu you wan take your sister husband slary drink alomo abi, no go find work for yaself

dey look for insurance money

think about the perks though, you get to jump the queue to enter the bank

heavy g: You people are just descending on my head for Nothing. My sister is educated and she's always been tops in class Since when She was small. She's a decent, pretty girl.

Everybody talks like It's so easy to break even in naija. what type of graduate will even pick up security job sef
I just don't want her to suffer. And I shouldn't be castigated for that Because There's nobody's sister suffering in my house.

ChiSun27: OP na wa for you oooooo!!!! So security people now na cast out abi? Park well jare!!!! Do you know what the life of that security man will turn out to become tomorrow? Never doubt the ability and future success of a hustling man cause the rule of the game can change at any time.

Allow your sister be jare...provided she is happy and they are comfortable with theirselves cause marriage is all about having peace of mind.

Let me give you an instance: few years ago at Alaba International...I walked into one of the banks and I was ushered in by one of the bank security guys. For almost a year plus...this security guy was always at the gate/door post and most times inside the banking halls helping customers fill their tellers and other stuffs.

Some months later I went back to the bank to carry out some transactions but though I didn't notice that the guy was not there sha...then I proceeded inside the banking hall and unfortunately their gen was down. And we were told to wait if we can...or better still go to their new branch if we so wish. Out of annoyance as a result of the time wasted and double transport to be incurred I just left to the new branch which is not far from where this one was.

So on getting there...low and behold...the person I saw inside the new branch banking hall was that security guy I knew at the old branch. He recognised me as I greeted him and I was like: "what happened?" He just laughed and confided in me that God has eleviated him by making him a full staff of the bank as a marketing executive and few minutes after discussing with me...he left the bank premises with one other staff in an official car.

Just few months ago...I saw him within my office vicinity...comfortably seated at the back with another staff as they came around to access a client.

So my bro...nothing wey God no fit do. All this while I never knew he was a graduate. When the opportunity for recruitment came in the bank (one of the leading bank in Nig n Africa) he submitted his papers...wrote the exams and scaled through with the interviews. And look at him today.

A journey of a thousand mile...

Omo_Alata: you should mind your business and let your sister decide her own self. it is her heart not yours

Booty butt chic: Nawaooo! Several post and no like.....End times sha

Mystiqme:
You say we should put ourselves in your shoes...Have you tried putting yourself in the guys shoes?
A security man that gives book gifts ? Respect!