If you are one of those people who are scared of getting married, could you be truthful and tell us why?

I have none.

Fear of the unknown. Will it be happy? Will it be complicated? Will it fail? It's that next huge chapter in life, and you don't know what it looks like. You hear advice and stories from others who are there or been there, but they're not even that pertinent as every couple and marriage is different. Plus there are bills, possibly preparing for children, and all sorts of pressures to worry about. It makes you wonder if you could ever be ready.

All you can do is put to use all that you've learned in life, and have faith in yourself and your partner... and make sure you marry for love.

Where is the goddamn OP So much for the De-activation button! See how it's being mis-used!

Fear of marrying the wrong person and having an unhappy marriage. I'll be stuck till death do us part cos the way my mind has been programmed, divorce is not an option. All i really want is happiness.
It's taking its toll on my relationship now, i run away if i feel ignored or that this person don't really care; i run, even if am head over mountainshills in love with him.

ogugua88: Fear of the unknown. Will it be happy? Will it be complicated? Will it fail? It's that next huge chapter in life, and you don't know what it looks like. You hear advice and stories from others who are there or been there, but they're not even that pertinent as every couple and marriage is different. Plus there are bills, possibly preparing for children, and all sorts of pressures to worry about. It makes you wonder if you could ever be ready.

All you can do is put to use all that you've learned in life, and have faith in yourself and your partner... and make sure you marry for love.

my advice for u especially u ogugua DONT THINK A MAN WHO TREATS OTHERS WRONG WILL TREAT U RIGHT

Gabriel_sylar: my advice for u especially u ogugua DONT THINK A MAN WHO TREATS OTHERS WRONG WILL TREAT U RIGHT

Wetin na, e no dey tire una
You guys have officially made them the kim and kanye of NL..... Keep hating

Fear of death that is losing a partner.

The other partner!

I don't know who she is and really its like a thorn in the flesh but Christ said I should lay it at his feet.

#IHateLiesWithFullPassion
Someone claiming not to see a missed call all because you dont want to call back... Technology dey lie?
Really why are ladies born to lie? Its is a question that can never be answered till thy kingdom come...

D fear of bills ,my unborn kid's school fees, fear of widowhood,fear dat if he dies (God forbid), d marriage would be so scattered i won't even mourn, fear s dat i wont be a good mother and so on.

lertee: Fear of death that is losing a partner.

That is something that is so sure... Someone must die first! or together... it is inevitable but our prayer is that the Lord should grant us long life

Fear of marrying an unfaithful person, its one tin to cheat in a relationship, its another in to cheat in marriage. If I'm cheated on in marriage, I'm might commit murder.
Also, fear of the enormous responsiblities of maintaining a family, bills, school fees.... And shit. I see what my uncle goes thru and its SCARY!!!

Fear of the person changing after marriage.Fear of my husband dying first.Fear of my husband getting a pot belly.Many fears but with God in the vessle i knw i will smile at every storm.

Fear of :
Loosing my freedom (hard to trust someone with my whole life, God!!!!!)
Not being good enough ( wife and mother )
Being bored
Being broke
Being a begger to my hubby.
AIDS and other STI
In-laws ( crowding my space, my family doesnt )
Conflict
Being a stepmom

My only fear is that I may cheat on my wife and have kids outside of wedlock.

pasqal09: Fear of marrying an unfaithful person, its one tin to cheat in a relationship, its another in to cheat in marriage. If I'm cheated on in marriage, I'm might commit mother.
Also, fear of the enormous responsiblities of maintaining a family, bills, school feesa.... And shit. I see what my uncle goes thru and its SCARY!!!

Hmmm.... Real points noted! @The bolded, believe in urself

Giving Birth, Cooking for someone else, Everyday s3x.

k2039: My only fear is that I may cheat on my wife and have kids outside of wedlock.

First of all, bend down low....

Get to love the elastic things as that will remove the kids out of the equation... then, think of it as what God hates most... Its Adultery!

pasqal09: Fear of marrying an unfaithful person, its one tin to cheat in a relationship, its another in to cheat in marriage. If I'm cheated on in marriage, I'm might commit mother.
Also, fear of the enormous responsiblities of maintaining a family, bills, school feesa.... And shit. I see what my uncle goes thru and its SCARY!!!

Why not commit FATHER

For many men I feel its the fear of bonking the same punnay all their lives.

Popowaa: Fear of the person changing after marriage.Fear of my husband dying first.Fear of my husband getting a pot belly.Many fears but with God in the vessle i knw i will smile at every storm.

When you are in love, it is the pot belly tht will even make u fall in love the more

Haaaaaaa, these things are too attractive

I don't fear marriage. I'm CONCERNED that I may never find someone who would love me enough to marry me. Hence I've programmed myself to the 'I-DON'T-GIVE-A-PHUCK' mode. Marriage is just a wish for me, not my last bus stop. I'm more interested in having kids, marriage or not.

ledafaze:

That is something that is so sure... Someone must die first! or together... it is inevitable but our prayer is that the Lord should grant us long life

If they die together, na plane/car crash be that o.

If you are one of those people who are scared of getting married, could you be truthful and tell us why?

Fear of my wife's transformation (physically, mentally, emotionally).

Mehn.....marriage is like been in charge of sanitation in a prison in haiti...itz nt easy

Fear that she will continue to love me many years after marriage.

chineloSA: Fear of :
Loosing my freedom (hard to trust someone with my whole life, God!!!!!)
Not being good enough ( wife and mother )
Being bored
Being broke
Being a begger to my hubby.
AIDS and other STI
In-laws ( crowding my space, my family doesnt )
Conflict
Being a stepmom

REALLY!!!!!!!


SO your family no dey crowd space?! You think so abi?! Lol...


Funny Stuff..

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k2039: If they die together, na plane/car crash be that o.

didicold: D fear of bills ,my unborn kid's school fees, fear of widowhood,fear dat if he dies (God forbid), d marriage would be so scattered i won't even mourn, fear s dat i wont be a good mother and so on.

dat mins u dnt trust urself to be a gud wife nd ain ready to moda kids. I only fear deth sepratin us

The fear of marrying a pretender that claims she really loves me. 1 of my sisters is a victim na.