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What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Nobody: 4:00am On Oct 08, 2013 |
If you are one of those people who are scared of getting married, could you be truthful and tell us why? |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Mynd44: 5:04am On Oct 08, 2013 |
I have none. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Nobody: 6:12am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Fear of the unknown. Will it be happy? Will it be complicated? Will it fail? It's that next huge chapter in life, and you don't know what it looks like. You hear advice and stories from others who are there or been there, but they're not even that pertinent as every couple and marriage is different. Plus there are bills, possibly preparing for children, and all sorts of pressures to worry about. It makes you wonder if you could ever be ready. All you can do is put to use all that you've learned in life, and have faith in yourself and your partner... and make sure you marry for love. ![]() 23 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Danhumprey: 6:41am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Where is the goddamn OP ![]() ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by sweettease(f): 6:48am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Fear of marrying the wrong person and having an unhappy marriage. I'll be stuck till death do us part cos the way my mind has been programmed, divorce is not an option. All i really want is happiness. It's taking its toll on my relationship now, i run away if i feel ignored or that this person don't really care; i run, even if am head over 11 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Gabrielsylar(m): 8:44am On Oct 08, 2013 |
ogugua88: Fear of the unknown. Will it be happy? Will it be complicated? Will it fail? It's that next huge chapter in life, and you don't know what it looks like. You hear advice and stories from others who are there or been there, but they're not even that pertinent as every couple and marriage is different. Plus there are bills, possibly preparing for children, and all sorts of pressures to worry about. It makes you wonder if you could ever be ready.my advice for u especially u ogugua DONT THINK A MAN WHO TREATS OTHERS WRONG WILL TREAT U RIGHT 22 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by sweettease(f): 9:22am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Gabriel_sylar: my advice for u especially u ogugua DONT THINK A MAN WHO TREATS OTHERS WRONG WILL TREAT U RIGHTWetin na, e no dey tire una ![]() You guys have officially made them the kim and kanye of NL..... Keep hating 2 Likes
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Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by lertee(f): 9:30am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Fear of death that is losing a partner. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Nobody: 9:36am On Oct 08, 2013 |
The other partner! I don't know who she is and really its like a thorn in the flesh but Christ said I should lay it at his feet. #IHateLiesWithFullPassion Someone claiming not to see a missed call all because you dont want to call back... Technology dey lie? Really why are ladies born to lie? Its is a question that can never be answered till thy kingdom come... |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by didicold(f): 9:36am On Oct 08, 2013 |
D fear of bills ,my unborn kid's school fees, fear of widowhood,fear dat if he dies (God forbid), d marriage would be so scattered i won't even mourn, fear s dat i wont be a good mother and so on. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Nobody: 9:40am On Oct 08, 2013 |
lertee: Fear of death that is losing a partner. That is something that is so sure... Someone must die first! or together... it is inevitable but our prayer is that the Lord should grant us long life 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by pasqal09: 9:44am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Fear of marrying an unfaithful person, its one tin to cheat in a relationship, its another in to cheat in marriage. If I'm cheated on in marriage, I'm might commit murder. Also, fear of the enormous responsiblities of maintaining a family, bills, school fees.... And shit. I see what my uncle goes thru and its SCARY!!! 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Popowaa: 9:55am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Fear of the person changing after marriage.Fear of my husband dying first.Fear of my husband getting a pot belly.Many fears but with God in the vessle i knw i will smile at every storm. |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by chineloSA(f): 10:09am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Fear of : Loosing my freedom (hard to trust someone with my whole life, God!!!!!) Not being good enough ( wife and mother ) Being bored Being broke Being a begger to my hubby. ![]() ![]() ![]() AIDS and other STI In-laws ( crowding my space, my family doesnt ) Conflict Being a stepmom 4 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by k2039: 10:09am On Oct 08, 2013 |
My only fear is that I may cheat on my wife and have kids outside of wedlock. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Nobody: 10:10am On Oct 08, 2013 |
pasqal09: Fear of marrying an unfaithful person, its one tin to cheat in a relationship, its another in to cheat in marriage. If I'm cheated on in marriage, I'm might commit mother. Hmmm.... Real points noted! @The bolded, believe in urself |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by sexymoma(f): 10:10am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Giving Birth, Cooking for someone else, Everyday s3x. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Nobody: 10:11am On Oct 08, 2013 |
k2039: My only fear is that I may cheat on my wife and have kids outside of wedlock. First of all, bend down low.... Get to love the elastic things as that will remove the kids out of the equation... then, think of it as what God hates most... Its Adultery! 3 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by k2039: 10:12am On Oct 08, 2013 |
pasqal09: Fear of marrying an unfaithful person, its one tin to cheat in a relationship, its another in to cheat in marriage. If I'm cheated on in marriage, I'm might commit mother.Why not commit FATHER 10 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by chinnyonwu(m): 10:12am On Oct 08, 2013 |
For many men I feel its the fear of bonking the same punnay all their lives. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Nobody: 10:13am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Popowaa: Fear of the person changing after marriage.Fear of my husband dying first.Fear of my husband getting a pot belly.Many fears but with God in the vessle i knw i will smile at every storm. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() When you are in love, it is the pot belly tht will even make u fall in love the more ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by sucreblazing(m): 10:14am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Haaaaaaa, these things are too attractive |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by safarigirl(f): 10:14am On Oct 08, 2013 |
I don't fear marriage. I'm CONCERNED that I may never find someone who would love me enough to marry me. Hence I've programmed myself to the 'I-DON'T-GIVE-A-PHUCK' mode. Marriage is just a wish for me, not my last bus stop. I'm more interested in having kids, marriage or not. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by k2039: 10:15am On Oct 08, 2013 |
ledafaze:If they die together, na plane/car crash be that o. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Infomizer(m): 10:16am On Oct 08, 2013 |
If you are one of those people who are scared of getting married, could you be truthful and tell us why?Fear of my wife's transformation (physically, mentally, emotionally). 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by kstyle2(m): 10:16am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Mehn.....marriage is like been in charge of sanitation in a prison in haiti...itz nt easy 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by wellmax(m): 10:16am On Oct 08, 2013 |
Fear that she will continue to love me many years after marriage. 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Okijajuju1(m): 10:16am On Oct 08, 2013 |
chineloSA: Fear of : REALLY!!!!!!! SO your family no dey crowd space?! You think so abi?! Lol... Funny Stuff.. Back to reading other posts 1 Like |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by Nobody: 10:16am On Oct 08, 2013 |
k2039: If they die together, na plane/car crash be that o. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by t4dec(f): 10:16am On Oct 08, 2013 |
didicold: D fear of bills ,my unborn kid's school fees, fear of widowhood,fear dat if he dies (God forbid), d marriage would be so scattered i won't even mourn, fear s dat i wont be a good mother and so on. dat mins u dnt trust urself to be a gud wife nd ain ready to moda kids. I only fear deth sepratin us |
Re: What Are Your Fears About Marriage ? by jahbiz: 10:16am On Oct 08, 2013 |
The fear of marrying a pretender that claims she really loves me. 1 of my sisters is a victim na. |
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