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I Am Having A 'friends With Benefit' Wahala! Please Advice Me / Your Latest Friends Boyfriend Turnsout To Be Your Husband:what Would You Do? / My Boyfriend Makes Me Cry (2) (3) (4)
Re: . by Tolexander: 10:32pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Abu Mikey:i be gentle guy o! |
Re: . by AbuMikey(m): 10:36pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Tolexander: i be gentle guy o! ![]() ![]() ![]() I beg to disagree ![]() |
Re: . by Vivly(f): 10:44pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
Khalessi: Vivly dear am confused is it that guy that opened a thread with your nameJust saw this now. No. I've posted it. |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:16pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
You'd better warn the guy to shove his advances up his slutty little arse* else his girlfy will hear about it, which means RED CARD as the case may be. |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:32pm On Oct 08, 2013 |
bottom line is- bf cant be trustd,u need to get ur bff out of such relation. Tell if you have to,but if there are other means of getting the msg across,try them first. |
Re: . by Danhumprey: 12:26am On Oct 09, 2013 |
Please,somebody should give the OP a damn good romantic kiss! She deserve it! Atleast,to cure her misery! ![]() ![]() |
Re: . by Nobody: 4:21am On Oct 09, 2013 |
Funny!!! OP I don cee ur pixtur u try small; so wat we can do! U call me in!!! I'll staand as a surrrogate BF 4 you! Den u can tell dat jobless man, dat u have a very mmuch capable BF, so he 'll flee ![]() |
Re: . by Vivly(f): 6:54am On Oct 09, 2013 |
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Re: . by Mzprecy(f): 9:10am On Oct 09, 2013 |
Vivly: Do you tell her or keep her in the dark hoping she never finds out. Even after you've given the guy a resounding NO.Definitely she wud get vry hurt if u tel her bt u av to. D guy z obviousli a cheat, duh he came 2 u! Knowin fully well dat u'r his girl's bestie. Is dat d kind of guy u wnt 4 ur bff? If u were in her shoes, wud u wnt 2 knw?? Jes tel her. Let her knw u'r telln her because u care n dnt wana c her get hurt. |
Re: . by ITbomb(m): 9:39am On Oct 09, 2013 |
Only a foolish girl will allow a guy who is with her friend to even listen to him toasting him twice without doing something drastic. If you fall for him, what is the guarantee that he wont do to you what he did to your friend. Alas , most girls are foolish anyway. |
Re: . by AbuMikey(m): 9:44am On Oct 09, 2013 |
ITbomb: Only a foolish girl will allow a guy who is with her friend to even listen to him toasting him twice without doing something drastic. Its the truth tho ![]() |
Re: . by Vivly(f): 10:00am On Oct 09, 2013 |
ITbomb: Only a foolish girl will allow a guy who is with her friend to even listen to him toasting him twice without doing something drastic.Do you even understand me? I've told him no and he's cool with it. I just don't know if i should tell my friend about it? |
Re: . by ITbomb(m): 10:06am On Oct 09, 2013 |
Vivly: Do you even understand me? I've told him no and he's cool with it. I just don't know if i should tell my friend about it?Ok then, if you had said no and he understood it as 'NO' not 'Put more effort'. Then let it pass But if he comes back in anyway to try something different, you need to expose him |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:36am On Oct 09, 2013 |
U don't waste time on things lik this.tell ur friend straight up.and shez not gona hate u.jealous? YES; hate? Hello NO.if she knwz, better 4 her better 4 you. Resounding "N0" is not gona help anibody abeg 1 Like |
Re: . by UjSizzle(f): 10:46am On Oct 09, 2013 |
Vivly: Do you tell her or keep her in the dark hoping she never finds out. Even after you've given the guy a resounding NO.I tell him no, and still don't tell her about it. Last time I was in a spot like this, I told our other friends and one of them told her. The problem with girls is most of them don't like to hear that their bf is a cheating bastard, so you automatically become the enemy. This said gf no longer speaks to me sadly ![]() |
Re: . by Omolola1(f): 10:56am On Oct 09, 2013 |
I wouldn't tell her about it, we girls tend to over-react at times. I'd reject him and keep my distance |
Re: . by Nobody: 11:55am On Oct 09, 2013 |
dont tell her please......no matter how innocent you are she would still have this notion at the back of her mind that you gave him the green light to act.....you know how i have checked your profile pic and look tight, dont wanna read your story in sunday sun with an acid messed up skin so this is what you should do...use your actions...let them speak louder than your voice, avoid this randy dude like the plague, never be seen alone with him, give them there space when they are together, dont shout at the dude and dont befriend him either....be FORMALLY friendly with him and lastly when he talks to you deflect the interest by talking about an imaginary dude you are dating, tall, comfortable, has a job and car, and how you love him and all that shiiiii, call 180 and pretend you are talking to him......... he is bound to lose interest .....except he has he-goat genes in him... i nominate my twin brother goodluck |
Re: . by Plesa1(f): 12:27pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Personally I think the guy has a problem if he does it with you then surely he will do it with someone outside. The fact that he lacks respect is the main issue.. Go ahead and tell you best friend even if she get angry now she will thank you later when he is caught with his filthy hands in the cookie jar... |
Re: . by adadioranmah(f): 12:31pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
I was in a similar situation and I told my best friend. I recorded his phone conversations and sent to my friend. I even called the guy in my friend's presence. But guess what? He told her lies and she believed him over me... He later dumped her sha. Bottom line, it is a make it or break it situation. |
Re: . by kendraloops: 12:48pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
Lol! Brings back some memories. Years back, was supposed to meet up with my best friend at her boyfi's place (he was a resident doctor at LASUTH den) and we'd all go out from there. I got there before her n called to inform her so she'll hurry up. She told me to give her some mins. Decided to chill watching a movie n d next thing I knew, bros came close n started touching n even trying to nibble my ear n stuff. Warned him seriously n left after calling my friend several times n she kept saying 'I'm coming, pls wait'. My friend's quite crazy n carefree so I decided to tell her n guess what she said,'you shud av gone ahead, I wud av undastood. Prolly u were in d mood or sometin, I wouldn't av bin mad at u'. Bottom line, depends on d kinda friend u av. Some mite understand yl some mite feel u lured him. Tread carefully. |
Re: . by Nobody: 12:56pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
P@lesa: you mean..the honey pot? |
Re: . by Vivly(f): 12:59pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
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Re: . by Plesa1(f): 1:38pm On Oct 09, 2013 |
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Re: . by LawChick: 3:17pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
ITbomb: ITbomb pls your attention is needed here .... https://www.nairaland.com/1472196/ex-nema-spokesman-sacked-over-okonjo-iweala/1#18718041 |
Re: . by Dibangoking(m): 8:32pm On Oct 30, 2013 |
Vivly: .Awuwan Abadie nw? |
Re: . by Vivly(f): 9:09pm On Oct 30, 2013 |
Dibangoking: Awuwan Abadie nw?Idioke |
Re: . by kilmix: 8:52pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Vivly kinda follow back. |
Re: . by tranxo(m): 12:23pm On Nov 04, 2014 |
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