So you have this girl you think you have fallen and she doesn’t know you exist? There is nothing to worry about it is natural. It happens that way often. Sometimes we get to like someone so much we can’t wait for them to know us and like us back. We literally want to dive in and just take them by storm and get them to notice us by force. Sometimes if we happen to have their numbers we get to texting and calling them until we run the risk of getting blocked and achieving exactly the opposite of what we hoped to achieve. At other times we are all over the place, flaunting ourselves and we get so ridiculous we become tagged the clown. That is really not the way to go about things. Luckily there are more matured ways to go about getting noticed without running the risk of being called childish or primitive. Here are some steps you could take. Hopefully you would get both her attention and affection

You’ve got to do some home work first. You’ve got to know what you want. It pays to know what you really want before you start anything with anybody. It could possibly be that that you really like her and would want to be just friends with her not lovers. It is not everyone you really like that is suitable to go into a relationship with. Some people are great as just good friends.

Making major changes just to impress a girl is dumb because you can’t keep it up in the long run. It is not even necessary because she will get to know who you really are later anyway so just make it minor. Taking care of your appearance if you have never been that kind of person is a good idea. Everyone likes a good dresser, especially if they are confident about themselves and carry themselves well.

Try to establish a basic friendship without bugging her. This can be done slowly. You can start finding great opportunities to be near her and starting conversation with her without making demands or asking her out. You know, times Just talking to her. Being friends first will make things more favorable and pave the way for when you finally ask her out. It gives her the opportunity to get to know you as a person and perhaps like you. If she decides she does not want to be in a relationship with you later on, you could at least remain good friends. Whatever you do don’t get on her nerves. Just try to talk to her briefly whenever you see her.

You can begin to Show her a few obvious signs you like her when you know she is now comfortable with you being around her. You can be friendly with her friends too. Being friendly and nice to a few of her friends will help your reputation. They are bound to talk about you and compare notes. Girls do that a lot. It will pay off if they all had favorable comments to make about you. If her friends like you and don’t think you are a dangerous guy she is bound to like you too.

Now comes the time to make the romantic move. Don’t go into this yet if you are not yet sure she really fully likes you or you would only be making a fool of yourself. She would laugh at you with her friends. If you are sure she is comfortable with you and she probably likes you and her friends think you are cute, find out the things she likes and surprise her with it. You could also find out her birthday and give her a surprise, or give her an unexpected gift, take her out for a meal or a show. Girls love things like that your profile will grow but whatever you do don’t ask her out on the same day or she would think that is the only reason for your romantic gesture. Don’t make crude jokes or crude sexual comments when you are together, be smooth girls consider that matured. Whenever you are with her just be in your best behavior or you will turn her off or scare her away completely and you can’t afford that. Also don’t forget to compliment her often girls love compliments. She will really think you are a cool nice guy. Don’t appear to be trying too hard to though.

It is time to ask her out only when you are positive she is 100% attracted to you. She would accept you only if she really likes you and considers you a possible mate. If she does not want or like you, your asking her out would probably ruin everything and all your chances of dating her or even being friends with her. So get her to like you first. Good luck.
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