JOB 23: 12; 32: 8

I HAVE ESTEEMED THE WORDS OF HIS MOUTH MORE THAN MY NECESSARY FOOD




1.One of your primary purposes is marriage. Man/Woman was made to complement each other. Gen. 2: 20-24. Eve was made for Adam and vis-à-vis. Gen. 2: 23.

2.Marry someone that can easily forgive you. Adam and Eve forgave each other. Gen. 4: 1.

3.Name your relationship; when the purpose of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable. Adam named Eve. He called her ‘Woman’, ‘My bone and flesh’. Gen. 2: 23.

4. The fact that your relationship is eventful doesn’t make it right. Remember Samson and Delilah. Judges 16.

5.Don’t marry or enter into a relationship with someone that isn’t hard/smart working. Ruth/Adam/Isaac was working when they met their spouse. Gen. 2: 1, Ruth, Gen. 17.


6.Be specific and direct. Ask God for your spouse consciously. Matthew. 7: 7.

7.Marriage is obedience to God’s word: pray specifically that God should empower you to obey this commandment. Gen. 2.

8.In-laws can also be the revelation to your spouse’s heart about marriage. Ruth and Naomi.
Book of Ruth.

9.Marriage is very physical. Your looks matters. It took Esther a year of physical purification to be made His Queen by Her King. As spiritual as Abraham was, his wife was to kill for. Esther. Gen. 12.

10.When your spouse/mate isn’t focused on you, they might have other people distracting their attention. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways. James 1: 8.

11. If you haven’t been a good child to your parents, you probably won’t make a good parent yourself, therefore, affecting your marriage. One of the Ten Commandments says honour your parents so it will be well with you. Deut.

12.God will preserve your spouse in a package in which only your virtue can unravel. How Rebecca met Isaac. Gen. 17.

13.Sex: If you can’t wait till after the wedding, it is not worth the marriage. Marriage is honourable when the bed is undefiled. You can only find this out after your wedding. . Heb. 13: 4.

14.In marriage two people are important, your spouse and God. The others are totally insignificant. Adam and Eve didn’t have friends or relatives
See Gen.2

15.People marry who domesticated them not necessarily the ones that excite them. David and Abigail. 1 Sam. 25: 30 - 42.

16.People only marry who speaks to the King in them. Rev. 1: 6.

17.You have to be sensitive. Eve was brought before Adam. He could have rejected her. It took God time to create Eve, if you reject, it might take some time to create another. Gen. 2.

18.Be focused, you can only marry one person. If your eyes are single, your life will be full of light. With focus comes clear sight. Matt. 6: 22.

19.Never marry someone that doesn’t fear God, because, a day might come when it will take only God to intervene in your marriage. Prophet Nathan, David, Abigail, e.t.c.

20.Before you say ‘I do’, that habit, can you tolerate it for life? He/she may not change. Think about this. King Saul never respected Prophets, thereby disrespecting God.

21. Life and death are in the power of the tongue. Be wise and speak what you want to see in your marriage/relationship.
Proverbs.18:21

22.Don’t be forward, that man/woman can be the best thing to happen to you martially.
Proverbs.6:16

23.Guys prefer marrying a lady that says ‘Good morning’ to the one that says ‘Hi’. People especially guys don’t compromise respect.

24.God created a feminine woman and a masculine man. Nobody wants to marry a Jezebel or her worrying husband of a King. We know how they ended.

25.Love is not just two people looking at each other. It also involves them looking at the same direction. 1 Corinth. 13.

26.The first he slapped/punched and even when he/she kills you, it is all going to be, ‘Sorry, it was the devil.’ Never entertain a violent relationship.
.Understand your generation and marry in such capacity.

Luke.16:8

27.Can you identify like Jabez when you prayed sincerely from your heart for a spouse and God didn’t answer? Never assume.
I chronicles.4:10

28.Don’t dress shabbily; no one wants to marry a naked wife. Isaiah 3; 4: 1.

29.Be transparent, people will tolerate shortcomings in relationships, but they all want to marry a near perfect spouse.
Proverbs.31

30.It is a very thin line that separates a girlfriend/boyfriend from becoming a wife/husband.

31.If he doesn’t give to you in the relationship, there is a big probability that he won’t when married. God so love that he gave. John 3: 16.

32.Better marry the person that loves you, not just the one you love. It is more difficult for a guy to love. That is why the bible admonishes men to love.

33.Be specific. Write down clearly what you want in a spouse. Matt. 7: 7.

34.The person you marry is God’s correction/filling for all the flaws/holes in your life. Just like Christ to the Church, is the spouse in marriage.

35.Family is important; know the family you are getting married into because their issues will be your issues for the rest of your life. Ruth and Naomi.

36.Do everything to win your spouse when you have the opportunity. Ruth was ruthlessly wise in regards to Boaz.

37.Before ‘I do’, there is a spiritual sacrifice you have to make concerning your guy. Every Christian has his/her garden of Gethsemane, but the praying ones will find their angels there.

38.Jesus is the one that turns water to wine in your wedding, not your spouse. Look up to him as the Author and Finisher of your marriage.
John.2

39.Love of money is the root of all evil. Don’t let money be the foundation of the relationship.
1 Timothy.6:10

40.Life and death are in the power of the tongue. Be wise and speak what you want to see in your marriage/relationship.
Proverbs.18:21

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