Obinnau: Mine is keeping her HIV status from me. Not telling me the nature of her work.

I didn't want to like, because I'm sure when you found out, it must have been a great shock.

That is too big to keep from someone you are in a r/ship with.

I feel for you bro.

Distance

coolzeal: Distance

What has distance got to do with secret.......WAEC and JAMB go make money for some people head sha...

Obinnau: Mine is keeping her HIV status from me. Not telling me the nature of her work.

Omo you catch that thing?

Am yet to see that secret that would make me leave. I have unveiled a lot but it didn't change what i had for them.

Her ex reminding her of d way he bleeped her in a txt message

Ishilove:
So what is your status now?

What was the nature of her job?

initially when I posted this topic. the heading was "what secret kept by ur lover will make you to call it quits"? I just pasted the above as a pointer to what can break it. I have never been in a real relationship. and for the record am 100% negative.

Truckpusher: Omo you catch that thing?

^^^

vicoloni: Finding out that broken hymen wasn't as a result of the alleged fall but was actually busted by a goddamn nigger!

How will you know if she didn't tell you?...And if she eventually tell you by herself,why d anger?

lord_darshwood:

Is ur gf/wife HIV positive,just curious

^^^^

houstonia:


Does this mean you are up for grabs anytime soon. Dang!!!!

am up up for grabs. but am not gay o.

Obinnau: Mine is keeping her HIV status from me. Not telling me the nature of her work.

the title is confusing with your post, "destroyed " is past tense, ur post also follows same. "if" would av bn better ,seriously the first thing that came to my mind was that you're already a carrier.
why not "secrets that can destroy ....."
or "secrets that destroy ..."

ebamma: are u talking from experience?

He can't be talking from xperience, this thread owner should reply to this pls

The secret that can destroy my relationship is telling me I'm not the father of the 3 children she had for me after spending money on them

Obinnau: ^^^^

Is it true?

surhaj:
Is it true?

am not a carrier , am even a male virgin

am still scanning her sha.
although I trust her,I still have to verify

Dats the Trut about Relationships!

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alutacontinua:

I think the worst a man could have done is that he was once an assassin. Even at that, yes, i'll go crazy for some time but If he's sober enough and trusts me enough to open up, i'll later calm down and we'll go through it together, if we're married!

If we're still dating, there might be some kinda consideration!

When i found out dat my ex who is "supposed" to be a man of God drinks alchohol,has a babe and worst of all has a shrine he worships wenva he travels to his home town in d east.

Father i thank u for delivering me me from dat o. No b small somthing

buchibabe: When i found out dat my ex who is "supposed" to be a man of God drinks alchohol,has a babe and worst of all has a shrine he worships wenva he travels to his home town in d east.

Father i thank u for delivering me me from dat o. No b small somthing

Babe this your matter tie wrapper o

alutacontinua:

I think the worst a man could have done is that he was once an assassin. Even at that, yes, i'll go crazy for some time but If he's sober enough and trusts me enough to open up, i'll later calm down and we'll go through it together, if we're married!

If we're still dating, there might be some kinda consideration!

sayin is easier than doin wat if he dudbt tell u he wad a HIV positive till u got it, or something like he used ur children fr rituals of which u hav suffered for, or ur mom, people are wicked ooo.

Onyinyechimara: If he's closet gay.......end of discussion
Anything else, we ll manage

So if he is straight but cheats (like a lot), and he is a paedophile or worse, you won't mind no? so long as he is into girls.
C'mon!

alutacontinua: To say the truth, I really dunno.
What matters to me is his state of mind as at the time of the confession, not the gravity of what he has done!
In my dictionary, PAST is PAST, no matter how ugly it is! If he's sober enough to confess to me and ask for forgiveness, then, SO BE IT!
Even if there're consequences,i'm gonna remember I said "FOR BETTER, FOR WORSE"!

But if he's lyk unrepentant or something,

And what if he confessed that he is HIV positive and you have been having a non-protective intimacy with him.....will you forgive him and forget the past??

Obinnau: initially when I posted this topic. the heading was "what secret kept by ur lover will make you to call it quits"? I just pasted the above as a pointer to what can break it. I have never been in a real relationship. and for the record am 100% negative.

Guy,the heading should have been "SECRET THAT CAN DESTROY A RELATIONSHIP"

.......Cos your post(as your own secret) made it look like you have been having intimacy with your HIV positive girlfriend and as such you are a carrier too......lwkmd

veave: If you make me believe i'm the only woman but i get to find out i'm actually the assistant.

Hahaha... Nothing hurts more than being an assistant in a relationship.

hollandis: He was transgendered...... .dunno if should say he or she?

what exactly do you mean?

yorex2011: what if u found out ur partner's parents are serial killers

or your partner himself!

Lies. I lied to the point that even the Devil was greatly disturbed. Hopefully I will do better in another relationship.