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I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by CH3COO(m): 12:49am On Jul 08, 2008
Nigerian parents, we know how agressive they can be when it comes to expecting their grandchildren.




So who do you think is under more pressure to fulfill this need? The husband or the wife?
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by ima1(f): 8:07am On Jul 08, 2008
wife of course, i've only been married for like 5 months n my parents are asking for grand kidz. i told them when i get pregnant i will let them know so they should stop bugging me.
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by Godalone(m): 8:15am On Jul 08, 2008
Wife.
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by yemivictor: 12:16pm On Jul 08, 2008
It depends!

If it has been medically proven that it's the husband that's @ fault, he'd be the one groaning silently under the pressure!! tongue

And that's even if the wife's kind enough to stick with him & keep her mouth shut!!! grin
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by iice(f): 2:54pm On Jul 08, 2008
Depending on the parents and circumstances - i'd say both undecided

Thank goodness my family is weird!! tongue
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by yemivictor: 3:24pm On Jul 08, 2008
iice:

Depending on the parents and circumstances - i'd say both undecided

Thank goodness my family is weird!! tongue

Elucidate . . .
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by iice(f): 5:04pm On Jul 08, 2008
Hehehehe wouldn't you like to know yemi tongue

Like when we hang out with friends, we'd be hearing 'momsi dey ask me when i go marry give am grandchild', 'Popsi dey disturb me ooo say when i go give am grandkids'
My parents? rofl, never heard them say that grin grin grin
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by yemivictor: 4:52pm On Jul 09, 2008
iice:

Hehehehe wouldn't you like to know yemi tongue

Like when we hang out with friends, we'd be hearing 'momsi dey ask me when i go marry give am grandchild', 'Popsi dey disturb me ooo say when i go give am grandkids'
My parents? rofl, never heard them say that grin grin grin

That doesn't make them weird!? undecided
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by yemivictor: 4:54pm On Jul 09, 2008
Perhaps you're still too young, on a second thought! tongue grin
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by iice(f): 5:00pm On Jul 09, 2008
me? Young? rofl grin grin Yeah i have been mistaken to be so wink
Oh that's not all my family is like ooo. But that's all i will be saying grin grin
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by ayomifull(f): 6:20pm On Jul 09, 2008
Generally in Nigeria its the woman
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by ifyalways(f): 8:23pm On Jul 09, 2008
Generally the wife but in some cases its both undecided
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by GoldFinch(m): 10:30pm On Jul 09, 2008
Wife.

Because if she does not bare the grandchild, her husband's family can kick her out of her matrimony home (In Nigeria).

Usually, no one blames the husband!
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by LadyT(f): 10:35pm On Jul 09, 2008
We need to change this madness!

Couples should have children when they are ready!

Im sorry people should enjoy married life before the kids come.

Any in-law or parent who puts pressure on me will indure serious baby sitting duties!
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by CH3COO(m): 10:37pm On Jul 09, 2008
Yeah right. Easier said than done. When your mother-in-law heckles the life out of you, then you'll know what's up. An impotent man would probably face the most pressure.
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by snipesc3(m): 11:58am On Jul 16, 2008
WELL IF U'LL ASK ME I THINK IT IS THE WIFE COS ALL THE QUESTIONS ENDS UP AT THE LOWEST IN THE SAY FAMILY CHAIN AND THAT HAPPENS TO BE NOT BY ACCIDENT THE WIFE COS IT IS EVEN WRITTEN THAT THE WIFE IS TO BE IN SUBJECTION, IT IS ALSO SO COS IT IS DIFFICULT TO TELL IF THE HUSBAND IS POTENT OR NOT, ALL EYES ARE ALWAYS ON THE LADY COS SHE IS THE CARRIER OF THE BABY, BUT I THINK IT IS WISE NOT TO LAY NO PRESSURE ON NO-BODY COS IT TAKES TWO TO TANGLE grin
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by Moyola(f): 2:56pm On Jul 17, 2008
it depends! undecided
Re: I Want A Grandchild. Who Faces The Most Pressure: Husband Or Wife. by FELORE(f): 7:41pm On Jul 17, 2008
da wife, angry, soo unfair!

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