iice:

I have no idea Depends on how well we get along, how much tight of a bond we create
It's the reverse in my case, my bro's girlfriend (my sister-in-law to be), we tell each other almost everything

I have no idea Undecided Depends on how well we get along, how much tight of a bond we create
It's the reverse in my case, my bro's girlfriend (my sister-in-law to be), we tell each other almost everything

tope2000:

That is nice but i still cannot do it
don't think i can trust her that much
because blood is thicker than water at the end of the day

Yeah i know, i don't know if i can form the bond i have with her with anyone.
I think it's because of the love i have for my bro and how happy i see he is with her (you'll have to see them to understand the bond they have) - that i understood the person she is, so it was easy for me to bond to her.
I don't operate by the blood is thicker than water thing Besides, there's nothing that my brothers will hear about me that would shock them We are all pretty close

RedHotChic:

How are you sure she's telling you everything? She may also cease to tell the day your brother will say I do.

I know . I know who she is - unlike me, she's almost an open book. I don't operate the way some people do - wandering about blind and clueless

I know Wink. I know who she is - unlike me, she's almost an open book. I don't operate the way some people do - wandering about blind and clueless

My Brothers Girlfriend Lips sealed

i don't think she wants our opinion sha

RedHotChic:

The relationship is always one sided anyway. She'll have a lot to lose if you decide to flip the coin on her one day.

Sorry dear but i am not the type to flip any coin. Even those who don't know me that well know atleast that about me She has nothing to loose and neither do i. We know where we stand, and we have anticipated the worse

i try to get along with my sister in laws, got 4 of them but i try to keep them at arms length.

Sorry dear but i am not the type to flip any coin. Even those who don't know me that well know atleast that about me Wink She has nothing to loose and neither do i. We know where we stand, and we have anticipated the worse

if my bro thinks shes ok, its left to him and MY MUM!!!

RedHotChic:

Am not saying that but what about you? will you extend that kind of trust on your own sister in law?

iice:

Sorry dear but i am not the type to flip any coin. Even those who don't know me that well know atleast that about me

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That aside, I don’t understand why some sisters feel the need to compete with their brothers’ wives. Jeebus! They are too busy minding how the wife served them water in a slightly dirty cup on a silver tray even though she knows they like the gold tray, they don’t realize their husband is sleeping with the young nubile thang down the street until he after he’s run off with her. Then they turn around and blame the wife…Oh she brought her ogun idi le to their family, before she came divorce was not even in their dictionary, her family on the other hand, had divorce 10 generations ago and th

iice:

Yeah i know, i don't know if i can form the bond i have with her with anyone.
I think it's because of the love i have for my bro and how happy i see he is with her (you'll have to see them to understand the bond they have) - that i understood the person she is, so it was easy for me to bond to her.
I don't operate by the blood is thicker than water thing Besides, there's nothing that my brothers will hear about me that would shock them We are all pretty close
I know . I know who she is - unlike me, she's almost an open book. I don't operate the way some people do - wandering about blind and clueless

Some sisters get all territorial about their brothers, you wonder if they think they are in the wild west fighting a turf war.

Sisikill:

Couldn't have said it better!

My mom is always telling us that the wife can sit on her head and she won't have a problem as long as she makes her son happy and that is what we should focus onhis happiness. What  some don't get is people respond to love with love (except they have mental issues and that's a whole other story) and hate with hate. Some sisters get all territorial about their brothers, you wonder if they think they are in the wild west fighting a turf war.

Please, It is not that serious.

No, can't trust her, she will blab to her brother.

How are you sure she's telling you everything? She may also cease to tell the day your brother will say I do.

TOH:

No.

RedHotChic:

people are bound to protect their own too. [b]I won't be sitting quiet if my brother is dating a snake that masked herself as a lady. [/b]Men do not have that sixth sense to discover a trap but we women do as long as the jealousy factor is taken out.

(Still don't understand why)

Okay, this a different issue, of course no sister should sit back and watch their brother fall into the hands of Jezebel. However, we are talking about the first surge of jealousy(Still don't understand why) Huh and pissing contests some women get into the moment their brother brings a girl home. They don't have any reason not to trust her but they've already started building walls. How do you think she'll react? Build her own walls of course and soon you have bricks colliding with bricks. I say let her give you a reason before you go Kung Fu Panda on her behind.

RedHotChic:

I think it's the jealously thing that is synonymous with women. Even the married sister in laws tend to build walls from the get go and wait for you to push down the walls either by force or cunningly. It's even worse when you are dating the only son, his mother, sisters ,female maternal cousins will be all over you like bee on honey. That's why most Naija chics these days don't fancy only sons whose mother is alive coupled with the usual gazillion sisters that will always wait for you with a spear.