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Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Chartey(m): 12:24pm On Oct 31, 2013
"Dear Tales,
I am a very troubled man and I don’t
know if I
am doing the right thing by writing
you this letter.
I have been unfaithful and I am
paying the price
for it. I really don’t know where to
start. I met
this nice beautiful God-fearing lady
and we have
been dating for 2 years now and she
has changed
my life. I decided to pop the
question last year
with the intention of getting married
this
December. Would you believe we
have never had
sex until 2 weeks ago when we did
our
engagement? That is how special she
is to me
thus I was ready to wait.
Tales, to rewind my story, early this
year, I
bumped into my ex-girlfriend of two
years ago at
a corporate event outside town, it was
a 3-day
event and I bumped into her on the
second day.
We spoke at length during dinner
time and I told
her about my marriage because I
realized she
was coming on to me. The night
ended early for
the two of us because my fiancé
called and I was
glad she did. On the last day, we had
a closing
party and I got a little tipsy but not
drunk to not
know what I was doing. My Ex
continued flirting
and this I must shamefully admit, I
got very
turned on. She whispered into my
ears that she
had a wedding gift for me in her
room and I
foolishly followed her. And it
happened. After sex,
I disgracefully crawled out of her bed
and went to
my room. I was so ashamed I could
not even say
goodbye to anyone and I left at dawn
back to
Accra.
Fast forwarding to now, I have kept
this as a
secret and a regrettable mistake for
months but
they say the evil that men do lives
after them…
hhmm Naa, I decided to go do a full
body test
after I started feeling funny some
days ago only
to find out I was HIV positive. I
called my ex
because I suspected she gave me the
virus and
she told me that, that was the
wedding gift she
had for me. I am so broken Naa, I am
so sad,
and I feel like committing suicide. If
I broke my
fiance’s virginity and made love to
her two weeks
ago after our engagement, then Tales
this means
I could have infected her. I don’t
know what to
do, how do I tell her I might have
infected her?
How do I tell her I cheated on her
months ago
and got infected. Hhhmm Naa, I need
help what
should I do because at this moment,
I could drink
poison and avoid seeing the hurt in
my fiance’s
eyes."
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Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Chartey(m): 12:27pm On Oct 31, 2013
Mod please help me add another 'e' to the 'fiance'.
Please your contributions are needed. This really happened.
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by carzola(m): 12:41pm On Oct 31, 2013
I would go with d poison idea. Jst be on d safe side..

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Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by badmeat(m): 12:45pm On Oct 31, 2013
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Nobody: 12:50pm On Oct 31, 2013
wow, nice story. Oh! and congrats! undecided.
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by kelvin1191(m): 1:03pm On Oct 31, 2013
My brother, i will advise you to go for another test cos most of our lab technicians are quacks. I remembered in 2008 when i was given a lab result (VCT) @ federal medical centre makurdi saying i was HIV positive. I refuse to take drugs and wait for my concubines to die before i join them but till this year August none died. Infact 3 out of 5 got married which i knew they went for HIV test so i sumoned courage and went for another test and it came out negetive 5x. Just believe in God and be prayerful. Many stories abound where +ve change to -ve. God can do it only if u believe.

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Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Nobody: 1:11pm On Oct 31, 2013
kelvin1191: My brother, i will advise you to go for another test cos most of our lab technicians are quacks. I remembered in 2008 when i was given a lab result (VCT) @ federal medical centre makurdi saying i was HIV positive. I refuse to take drugs and wait for my concubines to die before i join them but till this year August none died. Infact 3 out of 5 got married which i knew they went for HIV test so i sumoned courage and went for another test and it came out negetive 5x. Just believe in God and be prayerful. Many stories abound where +ve change to -ve. God can do it only if u believe.
jesos!!! shocked

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Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Nobody: 1:13pm On Oct 31, 2013
Go for a another test first.You might not be positive!That ur ex na bastard o angry angryShe is wicked.

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Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Imike: 1:16pm On Oct 31, 2013
take ur fiancee 4 a test. ..
...hmmmm one nite stand

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Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by kelvin1191(m): 1:50pm On Oct 31, 2013
lynpetra: jesos!!! shocked


Yeah! When i went for the test this August, i told the lab technician straight that i wanted to know my viral load. He was surprised and asked if i had don the test before which i said yes. He shook his head in pity and went straight with the test. Lo and behold it was negetive. I asked him to repeat it and it was -ve. I went to two more private owned lab and after 1,2, months i repeated it and was -ve.
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Nobody: 3:47pm On Oct 31, 2013
*sprinkles holy water on thread*

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Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Fecodear(f): 4:02pm On Oct 31, 2013
That's why I don't agree with this all your ex must be your friend.
Finally, it get as this world come be oo. The fiancee never even enjoy intimacy., gave the guy her v-card Juz one night, she might have gotten the virus. And all these girls wey dey jump from one man to another never catch am, this world sef I fear oo.
Take heart

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Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Dannyxy(m): 4:06pm On Oct 31, 2013
Ejor oh, i no do again, i remain a virgin
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Nobody: 4:08pm On Oct 31, 2013
Dannyxy: Ejor oh, i no do again, i remain a virgin
Your joking!!
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by kelvin1191(m): 4:12pm On Oct 31, 2013
@Op, did u quarrel with ur ex before u guys quit? Pls explain.
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Dannyxy(m): 4:13pm On Oct 31, 2013
lynpetra: Your joking!!
i look like basketsmouth? grin
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Dannyxy(m): 4:14pm On Oct 31, 2013
Ma sweery, dn't fear, make we go continue, i dey play.
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Roseey0(f): 5:55pm On Oct 31, 2013
If he is truely sure it was a one nite encounter,he might not be positive.
If all test comes out positive,he should swallow his pride and confess,HIV positive doesn't mean u are dead.
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by mysticgal(f): 6:03pm On Oct 31, 2013
carzola: I would go with d poison idea. Jst be on d safe side..

omgshockedshockedshockedshockedshockedshocked wickedembarassed

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Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Nobody: 6:53pm On Oct 31, 2013
Dis badt. I tire
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Nobody: 7:09pm On Oct 31, 2013
It's advisable that you go for another test before you do something s.t.u.pid.

I was tested to be Rhesus negative (RH -ve) in 2011, (it's not a disease ooo), often 90-95% of human beings are Rhesus +ve. Why would my case be different, it would have been more scary if I was a girl because I wouldn't be able to bear more than a child (due to agglutination).

Haven't gone back for another testing (I hate needles) but am very sure I am not Rhesus Negative.
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by tpapi: 8:56pm On Oct 31, 2013
Pple always underestimate d power n significance of a condom
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by pimplucious: 9:48pm On Oct 31, 2013
Cicopilox abi what's the name of that drug they say causes HIV cell to commit suicide. Abeg go buy enuff make u lick am come bk n tell us if e work
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by ManTiger(m): 12:04am On Nov 01, 2013
Who is going to produce this movie and when will it be released?
I surely must buy it.
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Ruq: 5:49pm On Nov 01, 2013
ManTiger: Who is going to produce this movie and when will it be released?
I surely must buy it.

I think they should make it a season film. As in I been dey eat the bread at first until I saw 'Hmmm' about twice in the story.
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Chartey(m): 12:45am On Nov 02, 2013
It's a pity people always joke with serious issues. The guy really needs good advice. And who knows whether there's even another person with a similar problem who cab benefit from practical solutions people give. For everybody who has given advice, thank you. Let the suggestions keep coming pls.
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by flexshop(m): 2:05am On Nov 02, 2013
Phder: It's advisable that you go for another test before you do something s.t.u.pid.

I was tested to be Rhesus negative (RH -ve) in 2011, (it's not a disease ooo), often 90-95% of human beings are Rhesus +ve. Why would my case be different, it would have been more scary if I was a girl because I wouldn't be able to bear more than a child (due to agglutination).

Haven't gone back for another testing (I hate needles) but am very sure I am not Rhesus Negative.
oga, dis is not true .please update your knowledge before you leave a girl wey you suppose marry becos of this.ever heard of anti-D immunoglobulin(human), after the birth of the rhesus positive infant by a negative mother, its given to prevent antibody formation that leads to the erythroblastosis fetalis you were talking about

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Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Nobody: 6:20am On Nov 02, 2013
kelvin1191: My brother, i will advise you to go for another test cos most of our lab technicians are quacks. I remembered in 2008 when i was given a lab result (VCT) @ federal medical centre makurdi saying i was HIV positive. I refuse to take drugs and wait for my concubines to die before i join them but till this year August none died. Infact 3 out of 5 got married which i knew they went for HIV test so i sumoned courage and went for another test and it came out negetive 5x. Just believe in God and be prayerful. Many stories abound where +ve change to -ve. God can do it only if u believe.

Bros!!!! U re lying ibeg!!! No dey taalk dis nonsense my dey hear! B4 I pprovoke come find u 4 ur housee.... I dddon't believe ur tales
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by Nobody: 6:24am On Nov 02, 2013
flexshop:
oga, dis is not true .please update your knowledge before you leave a girl wey you suppose marry becos of this.ever heard of anti-D immunoglobulin(human), after the birth of the rhesus positive infant by a negative mother, its given to prevent antibody formation that leads to the erythroblastosis fetalis you were talking about

To make it clearer, since he is Rh -ve, he has no worry at aall, he can marry anybody he wants, Rh -ve is only a problem for females, not male... (N by d way, with d advent of rhogam, it is no longer a worry)
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by sakaguchi(m): 6:44am On Nov 02, 2013
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Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by kelvin1191(m): 7:02am On Nov 02, 2013
Raymondenyi:

Bros!!!! U re lying ibeg!!! No dey taalk dis nonsense my dey hear! B4 I pprovoke come find u 4 ur housee.... I dddon't believe ur tales



Guy, what shall it profit me to lie online? Is it to attract ur sympathy or what? If u need me to show u evidence make u upload ur email since i still get d results @ hand. D only problem is that i tore my name from d one with +ve since i kept it a secret from my family and it would be easy to deny without a name.
Re: Help, I Think I Gave My Fiance HIV! by iamteaser: 8:23am On Nov 02, 2013
You just ruined the poor girl's life because of your promiscuity. I think the best thing to do is to drink that poison just as you suggested.

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