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Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Acidosis(m): 9:49pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
..but Op, are you writting some projects or what? Seems you're trying to get people's opinion.. questionnaire thingz |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by mizzochocinco: 9:50pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Caracta: Caracta: Moreover, you have no RIGHT to his money. Stop making it sound like he is owing you. What are you selling biko? |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Moxie4lyf(m): 9:50pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
This OP is just shameless...it's not bad asking for favours when pressed but the way you sound, like u just got a job with him.... And the most annoying thing be say she dey try to prove her point... Ur p.u.n.a.n.i must be worth the price of an apartment rent then; so cheap #laffing in chinese |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by lemmings(m): 9:52pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco: Lol.. He gave, den she gave.. Not she asked, den he gave, and she gave.. You just answered ur question.. but i'll give u a clearer answer, i'll be sincere and truthful.. There's never a right time, dearie. 4months,10years into a relationship. NEVER. We get married, why would you need to rent another house? What's wrong with ours? Before marriage? Naah.. Ask him, he might just give you,but believe me, he'll look at you from a new perspective. A negative one. I really, sincerely advice you sugar, don't ask any guy that question. Try and avoid it infact. If you must, 'sweetcakes,my rent is due soon, and it's 350k. I've got 180k and i was wondering if you please help me out in anyway'... Na him conscience go judge am sef.. Atleast uv shown some respectablity with hustling that much. He'll understand. So sugarlips,please.. Don't ask. Okay? Sweetdreams tonight darl. 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by lertee(f): 9:53pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
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Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 9:54pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
freecocoa: Let's not misunderstand ourselves my love, I never for once said its okay to leech off one's bf, what I'm saying is that partners ask each other for help(monetary\otherwise)so people should quit acting like the OP committed a crime against humanity.To hell with presentation .Sweerie, dat mentality is WRONG! Come on!!! U don't have sex with ur bf and expect him to pay for it do you? U don't have sex with your bf for favours do u? I agree partners do ask each for help, but! When gals like the op start spreading their legs in return for money,dats ashewoism to the power of infinity. 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Caracta(f): 9:54pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco: No, i won't go down that road with you. I refuse to. I wonder why you even opened the thread because it seems you have it all figured out. You can only be advised, we can't force our opinions down your throat. Your life, your choice honey. All the best. By the way, you need to read the story of a certain "bed guy" here on NL. We are proud to have you as the "bed girl". What a perfect love story 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by CHIMSKY(m): 9:55pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco:Only 4 months down the road and you are already asking for rent money.Have you no shame?Dont you have any pride as a woman? It is people like you who commoditize womanhood.Tomorrow you will complain that he treats you like chattel. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by mizzochocinco: 9:56pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Caracta:you are still going to continue to claim that you are not here to judge? |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Caracta(f): 9:59pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco: Lol...you don't even know the story yet. Wait o...is it what i am thinking? Anyway, i say again, "You have no RIGHT whatsoever to his money". If he wants to give you, fine. No qualms. Now, that is my judgement! Happy now? 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 10:00pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Sometimes when I go out to bars alone to maybe eat and have a drink and probably eat, then I see "men" dishing out money and ordering this and that for their gfs just to make them happy. To me it's just dumb because most Naija girls are just not worth it. The average Nigerian girls attitude is a dependent one. You will hear some girls say they cook, they sex, they clean. How many Nigerian girls do that. How many of them even know how to cook. It's always one eatery or the other. Lazy things. With all your make up long nails and brazillian hair a man will always recognize a hoe when he sees one and you my friend the Op have a hoe mentality. No point arguing cos the hoe mentality is not easy to change. And that is perhaps why there is no real love in Nigeria. Love to most Nigerian girls means paying their rent and buying them the latest phone. I was once taken for a ride once. The girl kept demanding and I kept doing. Then she asked for rent and then i thot, Why should I be paying ur rent? And from that day that was how the relationship gradually went downhill. Everybody should better go and work because money is not easy to make. Lazy asses. You'll seldom hear white girls asking for such. No free lunch abeg |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by freecocoa(f): 10:01pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Idowuogbo:I agree with you that sex for favors is a wrong mentality, all I'm saying is that y'all make it seem like what the OP is asking for is unheard of, her only wrong here is thinking he owes her that cos she sleeps with him. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Imike: 10:02pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
go get a life. PARASITE |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 10:03pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Nimakor:Na too much billings na! Today na lipstick allowance tomorrow na strapless bra and Botox spree. Smh |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 10:05pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
freecocoa: I agree with you that sex for favors is a wrong mentality, all I'm saying is that y'all make it seem like what the OP is asking for is unheard of, her only wrong here is thinking he owes her that cos she sleeps with him.Honey,in my country, we call them ashantes, ashawos or oshonites. No b name calling na hailing. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by mizzochocinco: 10:05pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Caracta:im glad like you said, you can only advise and you cannot shove it down my throat. Now that you have advised and i did not put your advice into consideration, can you stop shoving it down my throat? |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by UjSizzle(f): 10:06pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Geez abeg free the babe jare. If boify has the money to give her, she's free to ask. Since when is asking a crime? I personally don't think it's anyone's 'right' to make such demands in a relationship, but if she needs that rent and he can source the funds for her, then please let her. Don't bury the poor girl alive I'm pretty sure half the people here have placed worse demands on their boyfriends/girlfriends. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by freecocoa(f): 10:07pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
And all of you saying he owes her nothing must be joking because he owes her many things, like care, love etc, just like she owes him too. Abeg how do you show someone you claim to care about care? Take it or leave it, one way or another, you spend money to keep your relationship alive, even if its just on calls, I honestly see nothing wrong asking a partner to help with rent if he can afford it and you can't at the moment. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 10:07pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Arsenate: SMh. and the girl is really serious. really thought it was a joke It's so funny when trying to insult somebody,you end up insulting yourself. Epic. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Acidosis(m): 10:08pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Madam OP! You again! On the 26th day of November, 2012. Her 1st Topic on Nairaland. Men talk about morals when a woman asks them for money but they never do when it comes to sex www.nairaland.com/1114786/dont-understand |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by UjSizzle(f): 10:10pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Acidosis: ..but Op, are you writting some projects or what?I tell ya. The girl's so calm even with insults flying around |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Truckpusher(m): 10:10pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco:If he can afford it go ahead girl.........most of them biitches shouting blue murder here will do worse but in NL everybody is always a saint. After all it's the order of the day unless them biitches talking poo here are aliens. The next thing they'll do to attack this my post is to say that one attracts his type,but the ugly truth is that about 85% of Nigerian girls are into light prostitution and they try to make it look harmless by calling themselves 'RUNS GIRLS' . And finally for all them loud mouthed biitches yelling hell, go look at that mirror in your house and ask yourself if you've ever slept with more than one guy in your life ,then i can assure you that you may likely end up sleeping around ,it's just a matter of time.So, you've got no right to say bull. And if you quote me ,may AMADIOHA and OGUN bend and seal that your toto for life 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 10:11pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
freecocoa: And all of you saying he owes her nothing must be joking because he owes her many things, like care, love etc, just like she owes him too.Hei! Cocoa is dis u? So care equals paying rent? Care equals paying for sex? Care equals paying bills cus gf feels it's ur responsibility? Nne, u dey feck up!!!! 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Truckpusher(m): 10:12pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
lorretta u:Crap |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by pimplucious: 10:12pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco: Is this for real or some joke? Is this actually an average Nigerian girl mentality? This is the lowest of low! God forbid |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Noted Now please kindly tell us what naija dudes aren't doing right too. In that way,your judgment will be balanced. Or aren't there things naija guys need to improve on for thE relationships to work? 12 inches!: |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Truckpusher(m): 10:14pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
freecocoa: And all of you saying he owes her nothing must be joking because he owes her many things, like care, love etc, just like she owes him too.Go sweetheart,let em biitches burn and dive your beautiful neck. you just spoke what they all do habatically ,but in their usual arrogant manner ,they'll all claim to be SAINT VIRGIN. 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Acidosis(m): 10:16pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Abeg jorh... you're too old & matured for all these petty insults... I know you're not poor... who knows¿ na ladies like you dey get 3 parcel of gold apparel somewhere for wardrobe.. C'mon sist, I don't want to post your age here... but you're beyond this boyfriend/girlfriend, rent thingy.. I really do not mean any insult, but I want you to think about it pls |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Caracta(f): 10:18pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco: Sure |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by bukatyne(f): 10:21pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Sunbellar: You left OP who wants to sell s.ex for house rent to ask moi? Biko help a maid in distress! |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Caracta(f): 10:23pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
freecocoa: And all of you saying he owes her nothing must be joking because he owes her many things, like care, love etc, just like she owes him too. I'm not holding brief for them but it's all about presentation. We all know how girls behave...in hostels, common room, everywhere. The only issue i have with the whole thing is the way she presented it. I don't give a festive monkeys about her final decision, i can only advise her to see things from a different angle. Like i mentioned earlier, some people have even done worse things. Four months? Oh...yeah. We all belong to different schools of thought. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Caracta(f): 10:25pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
12 inches!: Haba bros! We can cook o. Don't even go near that side at all. Na oyinbo girl go cook correct African meal for you abi? Abeg, don't go near that side o |
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