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Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Cabme(m): 7:29pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
yang: Nna ndo. Its good u moved on. But why put a girl on a salary? U are one of the problems of naija. U nor get sister to train?anz ma o i tire |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Nobody: 7:32pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Magic Bishop:"Garbage"? You're kind of taking the entire stuff personal! Are you in anyway OP's GF brother/friend? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Nobody: 7:33pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Magic Bishop: |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Coolval22com: 7:33pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Hmmmm chai i really understand the op's plight. |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Nobody: 7:35pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Magic Bishop: i wanted to shake my head for the OP but then i read your posts...........................................................your case is more than mere shaking of head..........i give up on you hope god doesnt 13 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Nobody: 7:37pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Magic bishop the most caring man in the world. A question for you since you think it is money you can use and keep a woman. my question goes thus: As a well to do man( employed or business), you have all the money to take care of your girlfriend or wife as you say money is only what keeps a relationship for men and not kid. If you loose your job or your businesses begin to experience a downturn (God forbid), what will you do to sustain the money relationship or marriage? let me guess sha, you may just commit suicide because you cannot take care of your wife or girlfriend since relationship according to you must be one-sided and not mutual or better still you go and rob CBN to keep on sustaining the relationship. I am waiting for your answer the almighty loving and caring magic bishop. Magic Bishop: For God's sake why are you all hating on the chic? 5 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Airforce1(m): 7:38pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Sorry o lover boy... U nor get money u go dey put woman on a monthly salary of #5000.. Facebook love, u no find rich girl love and some "smellos" somewhere u wan die put. U wan form Big Boy and Mr nice guy join abii I bet u didn't even see her pant after everything u did for her.. LMaaoooo.. 21st century mugu. #Your waist, your waist, all I want is your waist* 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by chineloSA(f): 7:39pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
OP, Leave her to Aunty Karma like that. She will deal with her flat bottom. Continue being a good man like that, your past experience should not change who you are. So long as you were not using money to buy her love. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by ArabaONE: 7:39pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
dats gud .. ... better luck in ur next adventure |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Dominionng(m): 7:42pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
NOPET: I met this girl on facebook when i was doing my NYSC far away North,after i added her on my facebook we started chatting and finally fell in love,she came all the way from PH to visit me and i tried to make her happy, i took her out every evening and we spent at least #5000and after 2 weeks she went back to PH...we loved each other so much. After my service i decided to move from where i intended to stay(Abuja) and came to lagos cos she said she was relocating to lagos to stay with her sister and i have brothers staying in lagos also,in 2011 i came to lagos and i started searching for job and after few weeks she arrived lagos and where her sister was staying was close to where i was staying too so we meet once in a while... i could not treat her well again cos i was not having enough money and work was not forth coming. in 2012 i started teaching i a private secondary school and i was paid #20000 only so i saved some money and in 2012 November i lost my brother whom i was staying with it was so sad and tough for me...we went for the burial in Dec. and after i returned i decided to rent my house with the little money i was saving because i could not continue staying with my brother's wife and kids... iin january this year 2013 i got another job though it was a little better than the teaching job and all this while i give her the little i could and in march this year 2013 God bless me with anothe job with an improved salary so i try and give her the little i could,but with all my explanation she keeps saying i am stingy in september i told her i will be paying #5000 into Account every month and buy her all necessary materials she needs,i paid in her september allowance and i bought a pair of shoe and some wears for her and after 3 weeks she said i should pay 30k into her account that she has something to sort out but i pleaded with her to be patient as i dont have much for now... i called to explain things to her but she wont pick her calls and later her sister picked her call and pretended to be her and told me i should not call her again if i cant give her the 30k... and all effort to make her see reasons with me prove abortive.... now i have moved on with my life and i wish her d best too Dindirin! Do you knw ao ridiculous u sound? As a corp member, how much was ur 'alawi' that made u blew @least 5k on a lady on daily basis? You came to lagos coz of her, you were yet to neither get a REAL job nor create another stream of income and an avoidable liability sticked to you like a wet panties! And am sure during that time, you couldn't afford to put your folks on salary; complaining to them how difficult things are in Gidi. The witches and wizards @ your village were surely fanning themselves with your photo. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Nobody: 7:43pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Babzilla:i likex ur post mahn... u done told tht nigga'z a55 off... |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Gwekzy: 7:45pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
The truth is 'she was never ur girlfriend'... |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by stekyskydon(f): 7:45pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
i don laugh,try my BB inside water come dey dance azonto.. Anyway op ur galfrnd sent me to u, she said dat d normal 5k in pay into her account is no longer enuf for d daily services she gives u on d bed..she went for a training recently nd acquired new skills together wit d high demand of her services from others. So u either pay or u get ova it. Hahahahahaha babes don comot laugh ooo. I alwyz tell guyz dea is diff b/w a boyfrnd nd a mugu in a ladies mind 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by jkross(m): 7:47pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Jenams: @op, u mean say u dey constantly pay her salary every month? Which work she dey do for u? Ur mama don die? U nor get sista? Ur late broda wife and children unkor? U place dem on salary too? Kai! U r wicked!God go bless u well well...you just spoke my mind.. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Ijebaby(f): 7:47pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Na wah 4 wah! Gud guys meeting d wrong babes, and gud babes meeting d wrong guys. Na so world be but come to think of it, u place woman for salary, I sure sey ur siblings never even knw sey u don collect ur 1st salary. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by skiesoduah: 7:47pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
No disrespect sir but that's really dumbb of you. What is she? A tax collector? Girlfriend allowance lmbo that's just stupid. Your late brother's wife will need and appreciate that money more than that lazy dependant ashwo. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by MagicBishop: 7:47pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
babyface333: Magic bishop the most caring man in the world. A question for you since you think it is money you can use and keep a man. my question goes thus: When you eventually marry your independent wife please do not give her money for her personal upkeep. Also make sure you half the rent equally between each other and if you happen to own a house of your own please ensure she pays rent and living space. If you are not willing to be a man in a relationship then dont get into one especially when you are not hoping on marrying her. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Timijo(m): 7:47pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
If you have told me before you started dating her, I would have known what to say. But all I can say now is that this your facebook lover has used you to achieve her aim. You are a certified mugu, watch your back next time. |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Nobody: 7:48pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Women calling this OP broke ass Nigga and all sorts of derogatory names, is money the most important thing to you? So the old Alhaji you sleeping with because he has money, he is also more likely to pass all sorts of infections to your young body because he has numerous women... Once a woman demands money from a man in the way the OP describes, she has lost her respect status as a woman. She is simply a LovePeddler.. She should go sleep with Lucifer in hell... 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Donjazzy12(m): 7:51pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
It is people like the OP that make me weep for some men! I dont know why most young men Nowadays refuse to grow up! The ladies especially in Nigeria are 1 million times smarter than some guys. Please we are in the 21st century stop behaving like a relic. In this century MALE & FEMALE are EQUAL! Don't go into the relationship as a boss spending your hard earned money on a girl! Most are lesbians and only gets satisfied by women while you send money to feed her and her lesbian partner they laugh at your ass. You must be a leaner. I used to be like you before a lady taught me the game.DON'T put all your eggs in one basket! Spread your bets! Do not give your heart to one woman except she is your wife. The ladies do it all the time. Most Nigerian girls have more that 50 boy friends and I am talking about the serious one oh! Let me teach you a few thinz 1, Get up from the floor move immediately and get several girl friends! Go now. 2, Bleep the brains out of as many as you can! Rotate them, see this one today see another one tomorrow. 3, No Stipends! 4, If na 1k you get give it and don't make promises, be in control! 5, I know right now you are thinking your heart will break because of this con girl. Nothing could be father from the truth! As my elder brother used to say: BETA TIN NO DE FINISH FOR MARKET. Our forefathers knew this game. Please stop falling our hands! Let me add that if you play the game well you will be more fulfilled. A girl friend bought me a car in 2008. she wanted marriage badly, of course I rejected the car but I continued enjoying my self until I got tired. Please don't be a mugu 8 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by freecocoa(f): 7:51pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
You brought it on yourself by giving into her every demand even when you couldn't afford it. You can go and rob a bank so you'll be able to give her the money and save her atm for her. 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Nobody: 7:52pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
lolz. nigga didn't answer my question. who says I wouldn't spend or carry out my responsibilities. Go back and read your post I quoted as the only almighty caring and loving man in the world and answer my question. Magic Bishop: |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by toprealman: 7:53pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
OP you are a good guy. Unfortunately, this is the fate of most good guys. Why in seun's name will you be paying her monthly stipend? Is she handicapped? Clearly, she took you for a maga and clearly you paid well. Move on and when she realises that your type is scarce and ask for a second chance, accept her, play her very well. Share her details among your friend and make sure she is treated like a slot. Use her as much as you can and DUMP her in the bin. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by MagicBishop: 7:55pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
babyface333: lolz. nigga didn't answer my question. who says I wouldn't spend or carry out my responsibilities. Go back and read your post I quoted as the only almighty caring and loving man in the world and answer my question. Then go and find your wife to marry and stop trying to get free kitten 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by indoorlove(m): 7:55pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
Women! U can't never understand their ways... Smh! |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Nobody: 7:55pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
This guy aint a maga but he is a real man, if he had more he would have given the lady too but the lady doesn't deserve him. These are things we do for love. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Nobody: 7:56pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
babyface333: lolz. nigga didn't answer my question. who says I wouldn't spend or carry out my responsibilities. Go back and read your post I quoted as the only almighty caring and loving man in the world and answer my question.u are wasting ur time, replyin tht reject bro.. |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by MagicBishop: 7:56pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
gboss4sure: This guy aint a maga but he is a real man, if he had more he would have given the lady too but the lady doesn't deserve him. These are things we do for love. Nah small pikin full this thread sha. dem won phuck free t0t0 b4 dem marry 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by thejugunus: 7:57pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
It is disheartening to know that most of us who commented on this issue are not objective. Truth is, the guy is selfish and self centred. Life and relationships, especially those sexually inclined, is about sacrifices. She has been dating the guy since 2011, never made any demands. Guy got first job, managed to rent a place to stay. Got second job, but still continued to see things in only his parochial perspective - I'm sending her 5k every month, buying her basic needs, she understands that things are not okay. Guy should have made the sacrifice of giving her the 30k, not because he has so much, but to assure the girl of her place in his heart, after all nobody really has time & money, but it is the importance that we attach to things that makes us spend our time & money for them. It is so dumb to reason that the girl is dependent on this stingy guy. Real men are not only responsible to certain degree, but must be dependable! Op you don't deserve the girl. Good that she was smart enough to jump you. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by MagicBishop: 7:57pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
deejay_harry1: u are wasting ur time, replyin tht reject bro.. jus as your ex gf dump u for won alhaji. suegbe sule 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Oyiboman69: 7:57pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
na nairaland member dis girl toil with so,dan bura ba shege,Danzumi, gib me my dagger! |
Re: My Girl Friend Of 3yrs Left Me Because Of #30000 by Bome01(m): 7:58pm On Nov 03, 2013 |
deejay_harry1: Jesu nwa david....You wan beat am sote Heaven n Hell go reject am? Abeg oh |
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