I am currently working and recently i met this girl who is still a student and i got to like her a lot we have been dating for three weeks now and within this period she has been to my house twice and the rest of the time we meet is at joints and fast foods but my issue is that 2 weeks into the relationship she started complaining that i am a stingy person and has been acting funny since then even seeing me again is wahala. I do send her airtime regularly even though she hardly calls or reply my text messages and whenever we meet i make sure i pay her cab fair tru and fro i have taken her out occasionally and i have even taken her to the supermarket once to pick her toiletries. I am not one to shy away from my responsibilities but i felt i should really get to know her well and judge her commitment to the relationship before i start spending big bucks on her. Am i wrong in thinking such? I need sincere responses please especially from the ladies because i am beginning to feel that she really doesn’t like me maybe she just sees me as a meal ticket.

Bros,solar don reach your side??

There's nothing wrong with what you are doing, doesn't it tell you that she's just out to milk you dry?...just keep doing what you're doing, if she doesn't like it, show her the door!
Its not like you shouldn't spend but its way too early for that

beckyomas: There's nothing wrong with what you are doing, doesn't it tell you that she's just out to milk you dry?...just keep doing what you're doing, if she doesn't like it, show her the door!
Its not like you shouldn't spend but its way too early for that

Dear you've spoken my mind. Please can I pm you?

Maga+Mugun....which kain gf be dat

Boi, u b Mugun!! C'mon get rid of dat hungry chick. U send am credit and she had d guts to call u stingy? Walai, I fit consult fadeyi make he help me withdraw d airtime comot from d vampire phone.Nonsense!

Don't bother, if you cannot spend your time on her also

(my own issue right now with 'him'). Spending your time should hold far more value to her over monetary exchanges...

just three weeks? and you're already spending cash up and down. Bro, from your post, it seems you two do a lot of outing than sitting down to do some heart to heart talk.

I'll suggest you reduce the way you spend or the outing stuffs and see her reaction. With that, you'll know whether she's out for the money or not.

Nigerian girls no go kill person!!!

Enegod: Nigerian girls no go kill person!!!

Most of the gals this days are after money. Though there are still good women buh very difficult to find. My brother please be very wise. Know what you want and go for it. Marriage is a life time experience. If your plan in the future is to be with a wife that is alway demanding, then I would advise you go for her. But if it's not then quit her and go for what you desire. Don't play the good man role while the badt guy is out their rocking your mani wit her.

ifyonu5: I am currently working and recently i met this girl who is still a student and i got to like her a lot we have been dating for three weeks now and within this period she has been to my house twice and the rest of the time we meet is at joints and fast foods but my issue is that 2 weeks into the relationship she started complaining that i am a stingy person and has been acting funny since then even seeing me again is wahala. I do send her airtime regularly even though she hardly calls or reply my text messages and whenever we meet i make sure i pay her cab fair tru and fro i have taken her out occasionally and i have even taken her to the supermarket once to pick her toiletries. I am not one to shy away from my responsibilities but i felt i should really get to know her well and judge her commitment to the relationship before i start spending big bucks on her. Am i wrong in thinking such? I need sincere responses please especially from the ladies because i am beginning to feel that she really doesn’t like me maybe she just sees me as a meal ticket.

...only when she giv u kiss!

She called you stingy? In those two weeks what has she bought for you? Its obvious you are just a meal ticket. Tell her she is stingy too. Afterall you both are in a relationship and nobody says it should be only one party giving gifts while the other receives. Mtcheeeew!

You noticed she sees you as a meal ticket. And you are still thinking of what to do? Ndo ooo!!!

ifyonu5: I am currently working and recently i met this girl who is still a student and i got to like her a lot we have been dating for three weeks now and within this period she has been to my house twice and the rest of the time we meet is at joints and fast foods but my issue is that 2 weeks into the relationship she started complaining that i am a stingy person and has been acting funny since then even seeing me again is wahala. I do send her airtime regularly even though she hardly calls or reply my text messages and whenever we meet i make sure i pay her cab fair tru and fro i have taken her out occasionally and i have even taken her to the supermarket once to pick her toiletries. I am not one to shy away from my responsibilities but i felt i should really get to know her well and judge her commitment to the relationship before i start spending big bucks on her. Am i wrong in thinking such? I need sincere responses please especially from the ladies because i am beginning to feel that she really doesn’t like me maybe she just sees me as a meal ticket.

@the embolden, you're doing these stuffs for her and yet 2weeks into the relationship, she's complaining that you're stingy?. As if she didn't buy her own toiletries before she met you?. And you're thinking of spending HUGE BUCKS on her?. I can you've got a lot to spend. Dude, wake up and stop being a maga!!. Next thing, she will open a thread on NL asking when she will demand house rent from you. Smh.

ifyonu5: I am currently working and recently i met this girl who is still a student and i got to like her a lot we have been dating for three weeks now and within this period she has been to my house twice and the rest of the time we meet is at joints and fast foods but my issue is that 2 weeks into the relationship she started complaining that i am a stingy person and has been acting funny since then even seeing me again is wahala. I do send her airtime regularly even though she hardly calls or reply my text messages and whenever we meet i make sure i pay her cab fair tru and fro i have taken her out occasionally and i have even taken her to the supermarket once to pick her toiletries. I am not one to shy away from my responsibilities but i felt i should really get to know her well and judge her commitment to the relationship before i start spending big bucks on her. Am i wrong in thinking such? I need sincere responses please especially from the ladies because i am beginning to feel that she really doesn’t like me maybe she just sees me as a meal ticket.

Bro,you know what's up!

-Mr Cork-:


...only when she giv u kiss!

Dump Her

Ma guy NA her maga u be,.no dey waste ur time wit her,.I knw say u giv am pression u be dangote younger broda,.many fyn gals dey around,.

Danhumprey: Bro,you know what's up!

U Neva start ,u don dey pay 4 cab,dey go super mart,.dey send airtym ,dey go fast food only u?.wit d way ur going,I pity 4 u?.NA u sef dey turn ya self 2 her atm

1 month before marriage.

When she breaks up with you, you'll then come back and post a repetitive thread that Nigerian girls only like money. There nothing wrong in giving your girlfriend gifts or taking her out but if you start taking up all her responsibilities you are just asking for it.

THANKS FOR ALL YOUR COMMENTS

Girls would change for better if all guys are like me. Why would you start spending on a girl frm the onset of a relationship #iJoshy

Strauskhan1: Girls would change for better if all guys are like me. Why would you start spending on a girl frm the onset of a relationship #iJoshy

Nothing wrong in spending on girls, bro. Not bad at all. But for that same girl calling me "stingy" after spending and even buying her airtime?

Buru ubanka shege! She go purge all the money by force.

Flygerian.:

Nothing wrong in spending on girls, bro. Not bad at all. But for that same girl calling me "stingy" after spending and even buying her airtime?

Buru ubanka shege! She go purge all the money by force.