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Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
I bRoke up with my ex for that reason Does it answer your question? It starts with a slap. Never more than a slap. Then it progresses. I don't even advise men to put up with violent women(who have considerable lesser strength) how much more a woman putting up with a violent man. Who can snuff out her life in a fit of rage. Say no to violence! pickabeau1: actually im interested in this debate |
Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by pickabeau1: 12:40pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
Thanks Two more question, what if you were married, what will be your reaction What will you advise your brother if his wife slapped him Thanks once again lorretta u: I bRoke up with my ex for that reason |
Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by RoyalRoy(m): 1:06pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
Nice questions Pickabeau |
Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
If my brothers wife slaps him, Haha. Anyway I'm not the husband,but she has to go home (my opinion) of course I won't force him to send her home But today it could be a hot slap and tomorrow she could empty a pot of hot water on him in anger. Say no to violence!. pickabeau1: Thanks |
Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
Oh and me? Hard as it may sound, if it has gotten to receiving hot slaps from my husband, it's the way out I'll be looking for. I won't wait until he's beating me blue and balck before I go. I'll try my best of course never to do what warrants that. So when it comes(if it comes) it will mean one thing No more love What will I be doing in a loveless marriage? pickabeau1: Thanks |
Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by pickabeau1: 9:28pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
lorretta u: If my brothers wife slaps him, Violence has no gender,,, I like the fact you accept that women can alsobe violent... a lot of females here dont seem to want to admit that lorretta u: Oh and me? Ok... I do not condone spousal abuse especially of the physical variety This I endorse Wat if it was just ONE SLAP...n u know he is not the violent type |
Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
pickabeau1:I know you want me to say that I'll give him a second chance. I do endorse the second chance theory when a person errs. But for situations like abuse violence and infidelty tend to get worse as one gives more chances. A second chance I can give hoping that it won't be the last chance at happiness that I'm giving up But after that second chance,I won't give anymore chances |
Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by pickabeau1: 7:50am On Nov 15, 2013 |
lorretta u: I know you want me to say that I'll give him a second chance. Now why would i wanna go and do that Its your call, your life too I just wanted to point out some inherent contradiction in some of the female poster's POVs which advocated loving in the case when the woman slapped the man once an dievorce when the man slapped the woman #Just sayin' |
Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by Nobody: 9:21am On Nov 15, 2013 |
Ok anyway, I get where they might be coming from. As most women aren't as strong as men,one might consider that getting slapped by a woman wouldn't be a very painful experience.hence may not count as abuse But personally, I can't slap a fellwo woman, how can I try it with a man? How much more my husband. I'm trying to paint a picture of what that scene could look like,and I can't imagine it. Makes me think that any lady who can without fear of repercussion slap her husband, had The home going waitiing for her Someone might say "what if he cheats on you?" Well I know a slap won't help issues at that moment and the lady might just be giving him excuses to beat her up. If he does something you can bear as a lady, something you can't live happily with, you know what to do Refer to topic! pickabeau1: |
Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by pickabeau1: 1:05pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Nice points... Violence has no gender lorretta u: Ok anyway, I get where they might be coming from. As most women aren't as strong as men,one might consider that getting slapped by a woman wouldn't be a very painful experience.hence may not count as abuse |
Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by idris4r83(m): 10:46pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Nadia_SA1: Sad sha!!nadia why did u deactivate ur former account? |
Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by samsard(m): 11:05pm On Dec 16, 2013 |
danbabe: If the laws in Nigeria are "re -drafted" to ensure that a woman who has been married for a minimum of 5 years, gets at least half of her husband's assets, in the event of a divorce, trust me more of half of the existing marriages we know will come to an end."at least half"? Well, thank goodness we are Nigerians and not the English or Americans. |
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