l studied Engn course.l was in Naija for more than 7month of sitting down without any employment. This year l got an international employmeny with an international company. My fiancee was so happy but latter she dosnt like 100% cos is not a place she can come an join me.Cos is hot zone area in Middle east, also not peace area (Talliban problem) but l decided to work for while pending other oppotunity will come. Recently l started gotting openings in naija that are still okay.So l decide that l will quit the job nexy 1month, come home and get this employment,then latter planning on settling down.

Am l on the right lane? Is my decision good enogh? l dont wanna be all alone intelligent, so l decide to put it accross to nairaland.

sounds like you already made up ur mind on wat to do, in any case if you happn to lose ur job in Nija will she stick to you, Rem we r in the century of FOR BETTER FOR STAY FOR WORSE FOR GO, so do not make hasty decisions and look before u leap.

to me you are doing both
you are in love and at the same time doing the right thing