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Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Kanwulia: 4:16am On Nov 26, 2013 |
To me, MARRIAGE IS AN INVESTMENT FOR MY OLD AGE! Will NEVER-NEVER-NEVER try it in the NEXT LIFE OR WORLD. Borrrrrrrring SHYTE! |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 2:20pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Sagamite:you know when i explain it to you, you will stiil be there arguing unecessarily. its more of like pouring water upon stones |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 9:19pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: you know when i explain it to you, you will stiil be there arguing unecessarily. its more of like pouring water upon stones No, you can't explain it. I am very sure you do not have the intellectual capacity to explain it. It is really that simple. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by lynk106: 1:05am On Nov 27, 2013 |
^ I'm actually not surprised. Now everything is clear It's not my fault you didn't grow up in a stable family to see love shared between your parents or to experience and learn what love is. You really need to stop projecting your insecurities onto others. Granted, you have never and will never experience a lasting monogamous relationship. Sagamite: I've checked your profile.You think all those naked pics and p[size=1pt].[/size]orn you were posting all over the forum will fly in naija?. Even if you lived in naija, you just might be shot dead in d street yourself for being a big PERVERT. Look who is talking about deviancy. keep projecting your insecurities. Bullying: A bully may project his/her own feelings of vulnerability onto the target(s) of the bullying activity. Despite the fact that a bully's typically denigrating activities are aimed at the bully's targets, the true source of such negativity is ultimately almost always found in the bully's own sense of personal insecurity and/ or vulnerability.[21] Such aggressive projections of displaced negative emotions can occur anywhere from the micro-level of interpersonal relationships, all the way up through to the macro-level of international politics, or even international armed conflict.[16] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection 1 Like |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 9:38pm On Nov 27, 2013 |
Sagamite:Mr. intellectual capacity, you that have a different explanation about love and marriage, why don't you tell us, by the way make it REALLY SIMPLE. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 1:29am On Nov 30, 2013 |
lynk106: ^ You are a person! I did not grow up in a family where perversion is interpreted as "love". The experience of love that I learnt was between normal people: a man and woman. Not sickos like you were brought up by! A sicko fagg is talking about projecting "insecurities". |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 1:29am On Nov 30, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: Mr. intellectual capacity, you that have a different explanation about love and marriage, why don't you tell us, by the way make it REALLY SIMPLE. No, you have some brain and explain the assertion you pulled from your arsse. You were the one that made a statement, not me. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Toyinletstalk(f): 5:27am On Nov 30, 2013 |
Marriage should be an expression of love. Two hearts that really beat as one. It is meant for lovers. And i mean those who equally share the love they have for each other. It is only true love that can stand the test that marriages throw at it. If you are in it for the wrong reasons, it will show in the long run. Marriage test our ability to be patient and tolerate each other. Only Love is patient, only love tolerates, only love is humble, only love is true. Every other reason to marry (wealth, education and so on) is simply not real and not true. Some might ask if there is anything like true love. Yes. there is. It is usually not recognized immediately especially when you are young, but the more you grow older, the more understanding you get. That person that stood out in all of your relationships, that one that you broke your 'resolve' for, the one who meant everything to you at that time, that 'naive' kind of love is the real love, because it was or 'is' based on just the person, not what he/she can get from his/her pocket, or the educational background, or religious background. You could freely express yourself then and nothing in the entire world mattered, just the both of you. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 8:35pm On Nov 30, 2013 |
Sagamite:you must be a demented patient that needs psychiatric treatment, since you said you don't like my assertion why don't you make your own COWARD....by the way this one that you wrote arsse, are you sure you are not GAY. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 11:12pm On Nov 30, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: you must be a demented patient that needs psychiatric treatment, since you said you don't like my assertion why don't you make your own COWARD....by the way this one that you wrote arsse, are you sure you are not GAY. You are a person! You are a what? Say it! Fu......... Cretinous product of a failed education system, you think it is me, your GOD, your Alpha and Omega that you can strawman? person, your moronic arsse cannot defend your stuupid utterance and you want to divert away from it? And I am the "Coward"? If I were you, I would be so pissed about the education system that developed my brain, I would wear a suicide vest and go back to my school and blow it all up. Cretin, so they taught you in your failed school that when someone makes an assertion that you question, you have to give them the answer? person, if you want your arsse bastardised PM lynk106 and I am sure there would be someone in his household or circle to help screw your arsse. I am sure your whole gay idiocy is another moronic attempt to divert from the fact that you are too moronic to defend the statement you made. Cretin, next time shut up, instead of talking just so everyone sees that you joined the discussion. Fooools are not suppose to have an opinion. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 11:18am On Dec 01, 2013 |
Sagamite:you must be mad, COWARD, that don't know how to argue a point, you must be a GAY that your father usually screw his arseee thats why your insult always circle around arsee and person, it is also your box brain that has failed the educational sector, i see you as set of STUPID people in class that argues unnecessarily about facts, By the way i still stand by my utterance, why don't you make your own utterance IDIOT, and if you don't have why won't you shut up ASS-HOLE. fools like you suppose to stay put in pschia hospital so they can ascertain what is wrong with your box brain. STUPID FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLL. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 11:44am On Dec 01, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: you must be mad, COWARD, that don't know how to argue a point, you must be a GAY that your father usually screw his arseee thats why your insult always circle around arsee and person, it is also your box brain that has failed the educational sector, i see you as set of STUPID people in class that argues unnecessarily about facts, By the way i still stand by my utterance, why don't you make your own utterance IDIOT, and if you don't have why won't you shut up ASS-HOLE. fools like you suppose to stay put in pschia hospital so they can ascertain what is wrong with your box brain. STUPID FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLL. You are a person! You make a statement you are too dumb to defend and I am the coward? Your daft arse stand my an utterance you cannot defend? That is what you were taught in school? Cretinous product of a failed education system, keep describing your dad to the world. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 11:53am On Dec 01, 2013 |
Sagamite:hey box brain last time i checked, i described your father that usually screw your arsee, hey madooohh, box brain like you needs to think well before arguing, GAY ASS HOLE |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 11:59am On Dec 01, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: hey box brain last time i checked, i described your father that usually screw your arsee, hey madooohh, box brain like you needs to think well before arguing, GAY ASS HOLE person, I am sure you can only know what your father did to your arsse and it is only your experience you can describe. I would have said you should go to a Naija Psychiatric Ward for some treatment, but those kind of places in Nigeria are useless. You were fcked by your father and that has made you fcked up. lynk106 can give you more if that is now your taste. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 12:09pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
Sagamite:see who is talking an akaryocyte like you, mad man ashawo, on a serious note, go to psychia hospotal to know whats wrong with your hallucinatory brain. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 12:12pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: see who is talking an akaryocyte like you, mad man ashawo, on a serious note, go to psychia hospotal to know whats wrong with your hallucinatory brain. You are a person! If you know you passed in school and you are not as dumb as your teachers, stop diverting and explains the logic of your dumb statement. person, dem no teach you for school not to make statements you cannot defend? Okrika education no good o! |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 12:17pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
Sagamite:you can defend your own abi? why don't you make it and see whether you can defend it COWARD OF THE COUNTY, STUPID IDOIOT |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 12:20pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: you can defend your own abi? why don't you make it and see whether you can defend it COWARD OF THE COUNTY, STUPID IDOIOT person, you were taught in your Okrika schools that love is a choice? And you cannot defend it? https://www.nairaland.com/1518957/what-does-marriage-mean/2#19713278 You cannot defend your certificate? Ah! Nigeria has destroyed your life o. Answer the questions, professional person! |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 12:24pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
Sagamite:you must be having optic hallucination, is it not you idiot that asked me about love? hey pig why don't you answer the original question, SWINE LIKE YOU |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 12:28pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: you must be having optic hallucination, is it not you idiot that asked me about love? person, answer the damn questions! https://www.nairaland.com/1518957/what-does-marriage-mean/2#19713278 Defend your Okrika certificate? Ah! Nigeria has destroyed your life o. Loving a woman is like loving God? Pure person! Did you daddy also tell you that fcking you up the arsse was like the love God had for you? |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 12:38pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
Sagamite:no fucking your mother was like the love God had for you, you are telling us where you got your uni certificate, that means your okrika school is so small that people have not heard of it. MAN ASHAWO.... |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 12:46pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: no fucking your mother was like the love God had for you, you are telling us where you got your uni certificate, that means your okrika school is so small that people have not heard of it. MAN ASHAWO.... person, so you papa fcked you and you fcked your mama? Na wah o. Answer the questions, cretin. https://www.nairaland.com/1518957/what-does-marriage-mean/2#19713278 You were confident before to be giving moronic answers and lost your liver when you saw that I was going to kick your head in? |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 12:55pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
Sagamite:can a dwarf like you kick some one in the head? you must be very very very STUPID, love-vendor like you that bleeps his mother and calling other people person to cover ur self, ASHAWO BUNKER FISH. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 1:02pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: can a dwarf like you kick some one in the head? you must be very very very STUPID, love-vendor like you that bleeps his mother and calling other people person to cover ur self, ASHAWO BUNKER FISH. You are a person and you are proving it. You are too dumb to defend your statements. You will say all kinds of moronic rubbish instead of using your energy to defend your "Okrika intellectual" statements. https://www.nairaland.com/1518957/what-does-marriage-mean/2#19713278 |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 1:07pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
Sagamite:its you and your siblings that are person, you that graduated from okrika and is ITK, why don't you explain the topic BIG FAT COWARD |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 1:09pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: its you and your siblings that are person, you that graduated from okrika and is ITK, why don't you explain the topic BIG FAT COWARD person, answer the questions, dumb shyt! https://www.nairaland.com/1518957/what-does-marriage-mean/2#19713278 |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by THUNDER4real(m): 1:11pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
Sagamite:ITK, DUMB ASS answer the question https://www.nairaland.com/1518957/what-does-marriage-mean/2#19713278[/quote] GOAT OF THE COUNTY |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 1:20pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
THUNDER4real: ITK, DUMB ASS answer the question Professional person, it seems you are so dumb that you can never be ashamed to be seen as dumb, so no biggie. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Nobody: 2:05pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
Erm... I have a question. What if after 15years and five kids one comes to the 'true' realisation that they only lusted after their spouse and have now found 'true love' what then? Afterall, marriage is about love and such... |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Nobody: 2:07pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
Also, if love is a choice, is it possible to choose to love more than one person at a time? Or is it a rule/principle of love/marriage to be only capable of loving one person per time? |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Sagamite(m): 6:46pm On Dec 01, 2013 |
fresh_dude: Also, if love is a choice, is it possible to choose to love more than one person at a time? Or is it a rule/principle of love/marriage to be only capable of loving one person per time? The person would not be able to answer those questions. |
Re: What Does Marriage Mean To You? by Toyinletstalk(f): 2:24am On Dec 02, 2013 |
fresh_dude: Erm... I have a question. What if after 15years and five kids one comes to the 'true' realisation that they only lusted after their spouse and have now found 'true love' what then?Sadly, marraige is not the "opt-in and opt-out" thingy. It is important that we all marry who we truely love. In the advent that you acknowledge that you are inlove with someone else, respect your marriage and put that feeling under serious control. It is better to call in the help of God. Because, real and true love has this pull and push effect where you want to be with the one you love at all cost. Truthfully, your marriage and immediate family comes first, the union is already blessed by God. At that time seeing your present spouse as a reflection of the one you love outside will help immensely with how you feel for him or her (especially, since we all are ONE). You can't help it. The heart loves who it loves. But you can control it. It takes serious discipline. |
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