If a pastor tell u that few years after ur marriage, ur husband will have a second wife, will u tell ur fiance (future husband) ? Or just keep it to yourself?

cancerlib: If a pastor tell u that few years after ur marriage, ur husband will have a second wife, will u tell ur fiance (future husband) ? Or just keep it to yourself?

Do you naively believe everything you're told - hook, line and sinker?

If your pastor tells you, a few years after you've tied the knot that your wife will take on a younger, better looking lover with the strength of a horse, will you tell your fiancée / future wife? Or just keep it to yourself?

Them in that case the fiance is not my future husband.

Then I would say the person is lucky to have been warned aforetime IF and only IF the prophecy is indeed true. It would be wise to quit that relationship. However, you shouldnt make your decision to quit based solely on what your pastor told you. You have to get the conviction yourself 'cos it is your life and not your pastor's life.You can go to God yourself for Him to speak to you and He may even show you deeper things that Your pastor didnt see. Make your decision based on your own personal conviction to avoid future regrets

4tunebest: Then I would say the person is lucky to have been warned aforetime IF and only IF the prophecy is indeed true. It would be wise to quit that relationship. However, you shouldnt make your decision to quit based solely on what your pastor told you. You have to get the conviction yourself 'cos it is your life and not your pastor's life.You can go to God yourself for Him to speak to you and He may even show you deeper things that Your pastor didnt see. Make your decision based on your own personal conviction to avoid future regrets

The question here is not believing or not what d pastor said. The question is should she tell d fiance about ds or keep it to herself.

cancerlib:
The question here is not believing or not what d pastor said. The question is should she tell d fiance about ds or keep it to herself.

Are we assuming that she isn't quitting the relationship?

4tunebest:

Are we assuming that she isn't quitting the relationship?

We are not assuming anything yet....if a prophet tell u something negative about ur better half, will u tell him or just keep it to urself

Ok. My decision to tell him or not would depend on if I chose to continue with the relationship or quit. It seems 'am getting on some nerves here. Peace out

4tunebest: Ok. My decision to tell him or not would depend on if I chose to continue with the relationship or quit. It seems 'am getting on some nerves here. Peace out

Oh no! Not at all sis, I just don't want this thread to be look at religiously.
It was a colleague of mine that confided in me on friday that her pastor said such of her fiance. She have little or no faith in prophecies so she had no reason to believe this either.
Her court wedding is scheduled to hold next week so talk of quitting on d basis of prophecy is out of it.
She only wants to know if telling her fiance about ds prophecy will keep him in check if truly he's got such mind or push him out that afterall ur pastor said so.
Tnx

Telling him would not keep him in check neither would it change him in any way. Even if it does, for how long? A true prophecy would come to pass no matter how tough both parties fight it to prevent it from happening. Fate happens... That is if the prophecy is truly from God and not a figment of the pastor's imagination. Yorubas call it Akosile...

In other words, whether the prophecy is true or false, telling him doesnt change anything. She should decide which one suits her best, either to tell him or not, the result is thesame

Fake pastor every where. I will tell him to mind his business

Chillisauce: Fake pastor every where. I will tell him to mind his business

Cause by joblessness in the country.

Unless u hv doubt about ur intended and didn't sought for the face of God b4 proposing.
Just like what a man of God told pastor paul enenche when he proposed to his now wife,becky.
Pastor said she(becky) wasn't meant for him, their marriage should be going to 18yrs now.

As a christian, did u seek d face of God?

cancerlib: If a pastor tell u that few years after ur marriage, ur husband will have a second wife, will u tell ur fiance (future husband) ? Or just keep it to yourself?

do u believe in prophecies!

baralatie:
do u believe in prophecies!

Yea, depending on d person prophesying

Of course, i would tell him and we wld both laff over it!

Some of these prophecies can be funny. I will give you a real life example. A couple were getting married and wife's mother insisted on them going to see a popular prophet. The couple very reluctantly agreed and on getting there, the prophet prophesied that after three months, another lady would claim she is pregnant for the husband and he must refuse the pregnancy.

My good friend who was the guy in this case was shocked as he knew there was a zero percent chance of that happening. The only person that got pregnant was his wife. Of course they laughed about it. Very silly prophecy indeed. I dont even listen to those guys.

4tunebest: Telling him would not keep him in check neither would it change him in any way. Even if it does, for how long? A true prophecy would come to pass no matter how tough both parties fight it to prevent it from happening. Fate happens... That is if the prophecy is truly from God and not a figment of the pastor's imagination. Yorubas call it Akosile...

In other words, whether the prophecy is true or false, telling him doesnt change anything. She should decide which one suits her best, either to tell him or not, the result is thesame

Sis, the bolded is a false understanding of prophecy. Even if it is from God, not all prophecies get to be fulfilled depending on circumstances and conditions attached.
Some prophecies are meant to be averted, example is that of Jonah to the people of Nineveh. Infact, all evil prophecy can be averted if one truly turns to God and do what is required.

He is not a wicked God to intentional bring evil one's way. The gift of prophecy is to establish one's faith and nurture in the faith and not for destruction.

^^^
Nodding in agreement to was said above this. Sometimes, those prophecies are like warning to prepared ahead of what is to come. Many wont even come through to fulfillment at all if both parties stand their ground. First thing is to check for the conviction of both parties to the future and relationship. Besides, be your on prophet; #1 consultant to your real you in all matters of life. Besides, that is not prophecy, though we call it to be. Prophecies are non-negative utterances pronounced supernaturally without fore-knowledge or post knowledge of the speaker (sorry for digression).
On whether she should tell, I do not see any reason why she should do so. It will reek of immaturity. If they say A will happen and it is against your conviction(s), then transpose that A into what you are conviced of.