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Marriage Is About Being Lucky by redeve17: 8:18am On Jul 18, 2008 |
do you guys believe that marriage is all about being lucky. some people date each other for years and end up getting married to different partners |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by AnthonyKil(m): 8:29am On Jul 18, 2008 |
I think marriage is unlucky cause its the beginning of suffering. |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by segzicres(m): 9:30am On Jul 18, 2008 |
i agree with anthony on this. it's an eternal cage u have to share with just one person. |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by ogeluv: 9:56am On Jul 18, 2008 |
i agree with anthony on this. it's an eternal cage u have to share with just one person. stop been sentimental and be realistic there is nothing like been married to the right person is like heaven on earth so it depends on luck all u nid to do is pray and it will work for you.as for me marriage is the best thing in life. |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by redeve17: 10:16am On Jul 18, 2008 |
anthony n next poster,how can u talk like that maybe urs is really bad,better divorce |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by beauteous(f): 10:26am On Jul 18, 2008 |
AnthonyKil:Correct yhur mentality about marriage |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by Nobody: 10:33am On Jul 18, 2008 |
AnthonyKil:negative thinking won't get you anywhere, good luck |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by princessk1: 11:39am On Jul 18, 2008 |
well marriage was the best thing that happened to me and yes i do believe i am totally lucky, my husband is great. |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by BangBang2(m): 11:46am On Jul 18, 2008 |
Nothing like luck in marriage, more like destiny to me! It is over-hyped, over-exaggerated and most marriages are just a sham (becoz) U see the good-side outside whilst the ugly side is shielded! Not everyone has "successful marriage bundles" included in thier baggage when they were created |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by redeve17: 11:54am On Jul 18, 2008 |
bangbang,r u saying some people have not been destined to marry i totally disagree wiv u |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by LadyJ1: 12:15pm On Jul 18, 2008 |
BangBang!: i agree wt d destiny part but marriage is not all about luck plssssssss,its all about destiny,i don't use that word luck because people fall out of luck
people r destined to marry,u got him wrong,the thing is like i said people fal out of luck ,but your destiny remains wt u,and if ur destiny connects u to the right person,then its called destiny and not luck |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by Hazeleyed(f): 12:38pm On Jul 18, 2008 |
princess k: please answer frankly, how long have u been married to this great husband of urs ![]() ![]() ![]() @topic, marriage is like a well wrapped parcel, what ever u see after unwrapping ur parcel,u take it in good faith. Lady J: @bangbang, does the above highlighted statement really make sense to u? |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by BangBang2(m): 2:50pm On Jul 18, 2008 |
Lady J: exactly my point, marriage is not luck at all but your destiny is pivotal to getting married in life, if it is not destined, then it cant happen!! redeve17: that is fine, u can disagree with me, it is your opinion but i stand by my words, some people are not destined to get married!!! same as giving birth on earth, why do some people remain barren? explain to me, is it not destiny and God that controls everything?! |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by jkpretty(f): 2:54pm On Jul 18, 2008 |
U are only lucky when u marry the right person. |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by rubi(f): 2:58pm On Jul 18, 2008 |
redeve17: I believe the reason is that a man/woman can give you his/her body during relationship and not their heart |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jul 18, 2008 |
jkpretty:most definitely |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by rubi(f): 3:04pm On Jul 18, 2008 |
jkpretty: That is true but both must make up their mind that it will work |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by kojeiwa(m): 3:20pm On Jul 18, 2008 |
I think finding the right partner to marry could be luck. Most of the time we are lucky to find the right person for us. So, Marriage could be about been lucky. |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by Nobody: 3:30pm On Jul 18, 2008 |
Broses and Sistahs, let us not deceive ourselves. In my own opinion, the number one problem of problems in marriage is the failure to carry out due diligence before marriage. Many (if not most) of the problems that surface in marriages would have been seen during the courtship days if due diligence was carried out. Unfortunately sex and money blinds our eyes to these facts that and we ignore them. Secondly, marriage involves investment. You can not cherish what you did not nourish. Invest (non-monetarily) in your woman/man. Spend time to teach them or share with them values/principles that you believe in. But guess what, you can not give what you do not have. What are your values and principles? You don't even need to have a woman/man in your life before you start preparing for or investing in your marriage. Read and do your own research about the things that make the difference between a happy and sad marriage, not only research about whether ladies fart or not. As an example, someone posted this article (https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-150986.0.html ) on the 15th of july. It has received only 265 views and only 6 replies as at today (18th of July). If it was some junk, time wasting articles/questions about "how to sex from behind" or "how to sleep with married women", the statistics for the views and replies would have been different. Finally, check yourself and see if 1) you are making any efforts towards having a blissful marital life and 2) your current actions are aligning you to, or taking you away from, having a blissful marital life now or in the future? |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
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Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by talk2medo(m): 8:58pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
@ chaircover You are Lucky ![]() |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by lonelypal(m): 9:21pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
chaircover: U ve said it all, those weighty statements answers it all, ur (testimony) or posts gives me hope of gettin married someday ![]() |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by Gamine(f): 10:59pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
You better marry the person you know! Luck has nothin to do with it. Luck is for lazy ass people |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by doyin13(m): 11:04pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Miss Gaminatu. . . . I guess you ain't heard then. . . . . Berra to be lucky than Good. |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by Gamine(f): 11:07pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
"Luck" only comes to those who know what they want! |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by doyin13(m): 11:24pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Gamine: SHUWO. . , . Na who no like better thing |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by eldee(m): 11:30pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Gamine:Err . . . that's FALLACY Your argument is flawed Everyone that buys a lottery ticket want to win £32mil, how many pple actually do? |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by Gamine(f): 11:37pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
How can you compare Lottery to marriage. That is just a gamble and theres no luck involved. So in marriage, you just marry the next female you see and expect things to work?? Please! e no dey parra like that! |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by HCH3COO: 11:38pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
eldee:darn! you beat me to it. |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by Gamine(f): 11:45pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Nansense. He beat you to being Stupid, gosh! ![]() ![]() |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by Nobody: 11:52pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Marriage is being lucky ke? What do you call divorce? Luck gone bad?? ![]() |
Re: Marriage Is About Being Lucky by eldee(m): 11:57pm On Jul 20, 2008 |
Gamine:Come, I said your argument was and is still wrong "Luck" only comes to those who know what they want!'' There's a reason it's called LUCK It means you got better than you expected/deserved/planned for. I never said I supported the poster's point of view, did I? Gamine:Seriously, there's no need to be insultive If you didn't drop that fallacious statement, u'll be sounding a whole lot more sensible than you are now |
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