If u're in lagos I suspect one of the main problems is the branch where ur wife works is far from where u live,like mainland to island,if she gets a transfer to a branch closer home the stress she'll face would be less and that will reflect in the family too, or she can begin to look 4 work else where,I dontt always advise business, not everyone can do well in business, if she's business or service oriented,you guys can save money towards it so she can leave her job and have more time for the family, @ least weeknds she shld try to spend time with her family and give u show, during the week when she's not tOo tired once or twice won't hurt either

@ Tolukem, thanks for ur 'prompt' piece of advice.
But..,



May I just say you were too tired (like ♍¥ wife sometimes ) to go through the thread?
Cos if you have, you'll notice dat;


1. We don't live in Lag.
2. The bank is Z-bank and
3. ♍¥ work on weekends and her half day on saturday, greatly restricts us.

I suggest you discuss it with your wife, both of you should come to a mutual understanding. Working is good but she should not forget her responsibility as a wife. Thanks

Twas a good read and the advice given was great.

Oga Maishot wish you and your family the best.

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