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Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Iaz93: 10:24pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Roda94: Speaking as a born-again Christian I think it is wrong. That being said you can pack food and give it to him occasionally.Dear, so if you cook food for your boyfriend in his house, you'd go to hell? Lol. Damn!! The way that leads to heaven is really narrow! |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Harahmeedey(f): 10:25pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
It's nt wrong neither is it right buh i can only cuk 4 im wen e visits me........#dats all |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by ayos82: 10:26pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Caracta: This topic again? INVITATION ! INVITATION ! INVITATION ! Please come and cook for me this Xmass 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by DonaldGenes(m): 10:26pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Les: Lemme comment.... There is this thread about how to please a woman, about 50 ways of how to treat a woman , the whole, I repeat whole ladies agreed to it. Now one way to please a man, most are barking no, they won't. Who says 99% of women are not very selfish and biased by nature. God punish any day my gf will refuse cooking for me. |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by GentleMimi: 10:27pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Mujah1deen: YOU don't cook ,another girl will be happy and glad to take your place and cook for him. Anyway I'm against dating,courtship etc .a girl has nothing to in a male house if she's not his wife or relative .periodLike seriously?? You are against courtship? So how do u get to know the person properly? |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by ireneidiva(f): 10:31pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
No energy to even cook for myself talkless of a guy. Mtchew |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by iamdsam: 10:32pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Cooking for a boyfriend by a girl shouldn't be a frequent thing. The girl may do so if she wills but she shouldn't be forced by the guy. Talking about cooking one more time, as a guy I don't think cooking should be an activity for only the female but both parties the girl and the guy can cook together or only the male might cook sometimes even though he might not be able to cook can be assisted by the girl. We're in the 21 century. Many future marriages would do away with the marriage culture of our parents. 2 Likes |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Iaz93: 10:33pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
GentleMimi:That user doesn't know the meaning of "courtship". |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Iaz93: 10:34pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
ireneidiva: No energy to even cook for myself talkless of a guy. Mtchew |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by komek(m): 10:35pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Most of these girls that come here to say ' I can't cook for him o, is he my hubby?' I can cook for him just one in a year, ' I will nver cook for a man who has not paid my pride' why shud I cook for him na, abeg make he eat out' etc , na them dey beg to cook for men . One came disturbing to cook for me for a very long time cos she knows I hate it when a woman cooks for me not because iam a better cook, buh becos iam always scared of what dey may add in the cooking that will make me get imprisoned for life. |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Gracyel(f): 10:37pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
GentleMimi:İ wonder o |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Roda94(f): 10:37pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Iaz93: Dear, so if you cook food for your boyfriend in his house, you'd go to hell? No but prevention is better than cure.When you think about it cooking is quite intimate especially if the two of you are in the kitchen... And indeed it is only the narrow road that leads to Heaven, a road I am all too happy to take at all cost! 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Gracyel(f): 10:38pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Enegod: so, i should be the one cooking for her...huhBefore nko.....İs there any big deal in dat?? |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Zakamori: 10:39pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
B4 she became my girlfriend, she dey among the very many female friends who cook for me; na now she no go come fit do am? But nor b by force o, I get plenty female friends wey no see cooking for me as big issue; she nor dey like am sha, so she dey do am wella. *for kitchen things, my name na laziness* 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by GentleMimi: 10:40pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
I think there is nothing wrong with a lady cooking for her guy once in a while.If my guy comes to my place,i'll definitely cook for him.But slaving in a guy's house is a no no.If u want to test culinary skills,go to her house and taste her meal.If she comes to ur house,do not make it seem like its her ''job''.Some babes even go as far as cleaning the house....shoooo! But cooking consistently seems too much ,IMHO! 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by NobleG1(m): 10:41pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Whenever my woman cooks my favorite, I tell her to go wait for me in bed. |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by GentleMimi: 10:42pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Iaz93: That user doesn't know the meaning of "courtship". 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by iamdsam: 10:42pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Kadata:*two hands on top of my head* Na wah o! We really cook pass most of them o! |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Gracyel(f): 10:44pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
lil max: he his not your husband so you will also see money once in a blue-moonİ knew someone will come up with d 'money' issue...Av seen nd heard of various cases wher girls also giv their boyfrnds money. So wats d big deal in money. İf a bf wants to use mere money to tie me down to be his slave, let him go nd swallow his money. How much are u guys even giving girls, that u always make a big deal out of it!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Iaz93: 10:45pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Roda94:What of when you visit him with the packaged food? You two would still be alone So? |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by zeb04(f): 10:46pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
You com to my house I cook nd dats all. those who make it a duty 2 cook are the desperate ones. Babes dnt let dis dudes decieve u. Weda u cook or no cook,if u lik give him snake in the monkey shadow style of sex,if he won't marry you,he won't. Respect urself nd pack ur bags nd go home wit al d guys on nairaland sayin this,I must count my self lucky to have met levelheaded nd educated guys. . |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by vainfairy: 10:48pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
alutacontinua: I am not a fan of it! In ur dreamzzz!! How many dudes wld stand for dat? & ow often do u expect him to cum ova to ur place? Abegi!! Most women luv to show off their culinary skillzz...(guess ur an exception)?? Ow else is he supposed 2knw if u r a great cook or not FOI,u go gree ur brother make him marry sisi wey no sabi cook We don talk am b4..... Ödè lö like!!! |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by PreciousBro: 10:50pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
GentleMimi: I think there is nothing wrong with a lady cooking for her guy once in a while.If my guy comes to my place,i'll definitely cook for him.But slaving in a guy's house is a no no.If u want to test culinary skills,go to her house and taste her meal.If she comes to ur house,do not make it seem like its her ''job''.Some babes even go as far as cleaning the house....shoooo! But cooking consistently seems too much ,IMHO! That's where I have a problem with you, why and how does domestic chores which by common sense you should already be used to ,be a problem you'd even relate with Slavery.. ? You sound confused! 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by ICHIEMAN: 10:53pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
simply_me: and this is someone who sees your unclothedness and sleeps with you on a daily basis.what's moral abt sleeping with him on daily basis and receiving BB monthly subscription from him? |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Britzdon(m): 10:53pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
I like this thread....na nl babes get dis one. |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by vainfairy: 10:55pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Gracyel: Before nko.....İs there any big deal in dat?? We don talk am b4 na.... ödè lö like!!!give a woman half a yard,she'll take miles!! She go say she b lady!! Was wondering if dats ow ur pop cooks 4ur momma? |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Pls it is WRONG!!! If he wants you to cook for him it should be in a house he has provided for you both after taking permission from your parents/family and 'doing the needful' - Marriage. As my Grandma always said - ". . . . . if you give a boyfriend too much, what will remain for your Husband?" Remember there is no guarantee that they would be the same person. Don't mistake a man's appetite for food as being equal to Desire for you - men will eat anything!!! Don't get it twisted. . . 4 Likes |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
2buff: Given has been my greatest problem! I would sacrifice to make everyone around me happy. Am d last person to buy anybody over! But in a typical african home, u have to buy the family over.it takes me time to get used to people, my ex family said I was proud when in actual fact I was shy!, I had to adjust drastically! Had to go out of my way to play and strike conversations. Is that me buying them over or sacrificing for love? When u meet the family of ur spouse, deception, is the other of the day! U have to be in their good books. As a woman, u have to buy your husbands. Family over and that's d truth whether you're being real or faking it! Back to the topic, cooking for a guy is also part of the deception. How many women really love cooking? Don't we buy guys over by cooking?everything is a risk. I am talking based on experience. Cooking for a man would not make him marry you! |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by komek(m): 10:58pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
yankison: I used to ff that babe until I discover she is senseless, I stopped ff her. She dey yarn opata well well |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Britzdon(m): 10:59pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
honestly I dont see anything wrong with my girl friend entering the kitchen if she visits.....c'mon girls,you shouldn't be talking as if you dont do it.. |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by ICHIEMAN: 10:59pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Gracyel: İ knew someone will come up with d 'money' issue...Av seen nd heard of various cases wher girls also giv their boyfrnds money. So wats d big deal in money. İf a bf wants to use mere money to tie me down to be his slave, let him go nd swallow his money. How much are u guys even giving girls, that u always make a big deal out of it!!!!Is there any special kinda blessing or sèxstyle u girls give guys that u would make a deal out from just mere cooking? |
Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Roda94(f): 11:00pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Iaz93: What of when you visit him with the packaged food? You two would still be alone So? I wouldn't visit him alone-ever so most likely maybe if we go out to places I'll just drop it with him or on my way home I'd drop it at his house. Staying and eating together at home alone is a definite no-no for me 1 Like |
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