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Top 9 Signs She's Cheating On You by lokito: 6:52am On Nov 29, 2013 |
It is a sad fact, but there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. So, although you might be in love with your better half, there’s always a chance that she might be cheating on you. Contrary to what your macho side might think, you may not be the center of her universe after all. But you can rest easy. Here is a top 10 list of signs she’s cheating on you. While all the cheating signs that follow may not imply that she is in fact cheating on you, each is definitely a warning that something is amiss with your ladylove. Depending on the scenario, you may need to look further for more signs she’s cheating on you. 1. She detaches herself from your family The fact that she no longer wants to attend your family’s functions or hang with your friends is one of the signs she’s cheating on you. This sign may be indicative of cheater’s remorse on her part, which means that she likely feels guilty about cheating. The less she immerses herself in your circles (which contain people who are painful reminders of her sins), the less mental anguish she’ll have to endure. 2. She nags you incessantly Gone are the days when the two of you could communicate with harmonious precision. Now, every sentiment you express sets her off and she finds any excuse to lash out at you. If such an about-face sounds familiar, she may be subconsciously trying to justify her little tryst. Nagging you helps eliminate or at least ease her nagging guilt. So if she habitually begins to point out your every flaw, you may want to get to the bottom of what’s really going on because it’s one of the signs she’s cheating on you. 3. She has a mysterious friend A telltale sign that your woman is cheating arises when a mysterious friend inches his way into the picture. Whether it’s someone she claims is a coworker or an old friend from way back, she keeps this friendship under wraps and is hesitant to share any general details about him, much less introduce you. And it doesn’t take a Ph.D. to figure out why. 4. She deflects simple questions You should be suspicious of your girlfriend when she refuses to answer the simplest and fairest of questions or answers questions only after repeating them back to you, which usually indicates a mind that’s searching for a lie. Be wary of times when, rather than reveal that she got home at midnight, she begrudgingly asks, “Why do you want to know what time I left the saloon?” If she gets defensive about disclosing information that she used to volunteer without hesitation, she may be hiding something or someone and it’s one of the surest signs she’s cheating on you. 5. She shifts priorities away from you If she is involved in a hot and heavy romance with someone else, you’ll definitely feel a shift in her daily priorities. Suddenly, there are no more implied Sunday dates at the movies or so many excuses she has not to visit you. There is a tendency for most philanderers to schedule meetings with their new flame as often as they can, which results in a complete disregard for previous engagements. 6. She puts more effort into looking sexy You may like her just the way she is, but that won’t stop her from trying to dazzle her new fling. Just as you tried to impress each other at the beginning of your relationship, she’ll try to impress her new flame with a sudden urge to improve her style, change her makeup and alter her physical appearance for the new man in her life. So, while her desire to look sexier is one thing, not caring about your opinion on the matter is quite another. 7. She becomes autonomous One of the biggest signs she’s cheating on you is her breaking away from your little two-person unit to become more autonomous. She has dropped ” we” from her vocabulary in favor of “I.” Moreover, she does more things on her own and stops consulting you about future plans. In short, she conducts herself in ways that hint that she no longer needs you to hold her hand. Whether she’s hoping you’ll leave her or she’s simply looking for more time to lead her “double life,” it’s safe to conclude that she wants you out of the picture — she just can’t build up the nerve to leave you. 8. She is secretive about her schedule She may claim to no longer have time for any extracurricular activities with you, yet she has one foot out the door the minute one of her girlfriends calls. Either that or she has been “going away on business” one too many times. And when she does leave, her whereabouts are sketchy at best and you are somehow always the last to know. Disclosing her itinerary to you at the last minute and overlooking your plans in the process can mean many things, one of which isn’t that she’s forgetting, but rather leaving you out. 9. You become irrelevant What could be worse than a girlfriend who nags you about absolutely everything? How about one who stops noticing that you’re even alive? All at once, she doesn’t care if you don’t want to go to the saloon with her; she’ll just find somebody else with whom to go. And whatever opinion you may have, be it about how she looks or how you’re feeling, is met with a tepid response. In other words, she doesn’t place the same importance on what you think and what you do as she once did, especially on things that directly affect the relationship. |
Re: Top 9 Signs She's Cheating On You by masagoody(m): 7:10am On Nov 29, 2013 |
And so likewise, when ye shall see all these signs, no that it(the end) is near. Even at the door-matt 24 vs 33... #endTIMEthings |
Re: Top 9 Signs She's Cheating On You by Enegod(m): 7:13am On Nov 29, 2013 |
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Re: Top 9 Signs She's Cheating On You by Nobody: 7:19am On Nov 29, 2013 |
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Re: Top 9 Signs She's Cheating On You by Rick9(m): 7:40am On Nov 29, 2013 |
That Number 4 Is So True , Why cant partners be loyal, well some people mis use Loyalties anyway. |
Re: Top 9 Signs She's Cheating On You by lokito: 7:51am On Nov 29, 2013 |
Harbosede02: @op Be loyal first or we'll continue to ruin your mascara....@signature Yes!!! Your loyality is in doubt |
Re: Top 9 Signs She's Cheating On You by ednut1(m): 12:19pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
She is extremely jealous and blocks u from havin chance wit oda gals, she is cheating on u, all na format . She gist u about guys who are just friends, #experience 1 Like |
Re: Top 9 Signs She's Cheating On You by chineloSA(f): 12:58pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Like ignoring him and taking very good care of myself and my looks without cheating This list will be very handy ![]() |
Re: Top 9 Signs She's Cheating On You by stevecantrell: 4:23pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
A guy should never let things get to that stage Push sentiment aside, and take out the trash ! |
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