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See My Life Outside by hotwax: 7:54am On Dec 02, 2013
December 2nd 2010 was the day I wooed my ex girlfriend.

This lady can kill with her love wantintin. She will do as if she is gonna die if I leave her (na lie).

There is this my classmate that was disturbing her. She told me about him. How he has being disturbing her. Blah blah.

She said the guy called her one day and was crying. She said she felt pity for him.

One day she was with me and she received one silent phone call. All she was saying was "yes, hmmn, No" throughout the call. After the call, she suddenly said she's leaving. I became suspicious. I thought of setting up a trap.

I took her to the boss stop where she was suppose to join Berger Bus. Normally, when she joins a bus, I will keep her company till the bus fills up (at times wait for the bus to depart). But this day, I set her up, I left immediately she entered the bus and went hiding somewhere close to that garage.

Lo and behold, after some minutes, I saw my girl walked out of the bus to join Ikeja bus (The guy stays in Ikeja).

I quickly came out of my hiding and approached her, so you are going to meet Leke in Ikeja. She was shocked, her mouth was ajar, looking dumbfounded.

I left and she rushed after me. I told her, "I knew he was the one that called you".

She started giving me excuses. She said she want to go and meet Leke and talk to him. That he should leave her alone. She said she feel pity for him. He is always crying on phone blah blah. She said she wants to go and put an end to the whole sh**t. But she is afraid to tell me because she does'nt want me to get hurt. I told her I am not granting permission, but she should do her will (even if her force her not to go, she will still go, so why bothering myself).

She went to Ikeja. In the evening she called and narrated how it went. How they met in a park close to Allen avenue. She said she didnt go to his house. She said she told him plainly, she is not interested, she is engaged to another man blah blah. But, I didnt believe her though. I just played along.

One day, I went to her house, she was in her bathroom, she left her BB on her bed.

As I was waiting for her to finish, So was pings dropping on her BBM. I was suspecting her before, therefore nothing stopped me from spying on her.

This same Leke guy caught my attention. I saw his pings "I am missing you right now", "I am hard and I need to ride you", "I love the way you rode me yesterday, you are so sweet" nasty things. I also saw my girl chat history like "You mean the world to me", "you are the best thing that has ever happened to me".

"You mean the world to me"
"you are the best thing that has ever happened to me"


She always tells me these words. I was shocked, she came out and saw me reading her chat. I dropped her phone and left.

This is the same girl I took to my mother then. Now I feel men should not be emotionally attached to women. They will always cheat no matter what you do.

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Re: See My Life Outside by UjSizzle(f): 8:00am On Dec 02, 2013
sad

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Re: See My Life Outside by hotwax: 8:11am On Dec 02, 2013
Also, the same month, she caught the guy with another lady and she and the lady engaged in physical fracas.

The issue was a popular rumor among my colleagues. Come and see shame. She went hiding for some months.

I remember posting on her facebook wall "LOL"

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Re: See My Life Outside by Nobody: 8:13am On Dec 02, 2013
Bro, nothing do you. Every disappointment is a blessing if you look at it from a different angle.

That girl is not yours. One day, you'll see.
Re: See My Life Outside by Codedboy95(m): 8:16am On Dec 02, 2013
Hehehe.. Am patiently waiting for the season 2 of this story
Re: See My Life Outside by hotwax: 8:21am On Dec 02, 2013
Codedboy95: Hehehe.. Am patiently waiting for the season 2 of this story

Season 2 ko, part 3 ni
Re: See My Life Outside by Mobsync(m): 8:21am On Dec 02, 2013
Only God would help some of these women. You pity a guy crying?

Sorry in advance.

I remember a dude I lived with in 100 level back then. When he wanted to snatch his friend's girlfriend, he was crying to her on the phone while she also did same. The dude was just using the girl to laugh the next day...

...He also later forked her and gave us full gist.

Two words: EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION
Re: See My Life Outside by hotwax: 8:22am On Dec 02, 2013
sexkillz: Bro, nothing do you. Every disappointment is a blessing if you look at it from a different angle.

That girl is not yours. One day, you'll see.


I have seen that already. Thats why she is labeled "ex"
Re: See My Life Outside by hotwax: 8:25am On Dec 02, 2013
Mobsync: Only God would help some of these women. You pity a guy crying?

Sorry in advance.

I remember a dude I lived with in 100 level back then. When he wanted to snatch his friend's girlfriend, he was crying to her on the phone while she also did same. The dude was just using the girl to laugh the next day...

...He also later forked her and gave us full gist.

Talking about EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION

Some guys are funny. Crying just to open a lady's leg.

How desperate and low.

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Re: See My Life Outside by demelza: 8:28am On Dec 02, 2013
Op, thank God for you jare.
No nonsense shall follow you into nextyear.
Re: See My Life Outside by borntobegr8t(m): 8:31am On Dec 02, 2013
Its not worth it having a girlfriend, wen u are not ready to marry..always go for olosho, less worry, no arguments, dey are more reliable ,dey dnt give excuses..guy give olosho a try and ur life won't be outside again
Re: See My Life Outside by hotwax: 8:32am On Dec 02, 2013
demelza: Op, thank God for you jare.
No nonsense shall follow you into nextyear.

Amen and you too.
Thanks
Re: See My Life Outside by hotwax: 8:32am On Dec 02, 2013
born_to_be_gr8t: Its not worth it having a girlfriend, wen u are not ready to marry..always go for olosho, less worry, no arguments, dey are more reliable ,dey dnt give excuses..guy give olosho a try and ur life won't be outside again

Hahhaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
Re: See My Life Outside by borntobegr8t(m): 8:32am On Dec 02, 2013
demelza: Op, thank God for you jare.
No nonsense shall follow you into nextyear.
U still dey this our Nigeria grin
Re: See My Life Outside by demelza: 9:46am On Dec 02, 2013
born_to_be_gr8t:
U still dey this our Nigeria grin
Before nko?
ASUU no gree allow me fly out. grin
Re: See My Life Outside by 190: 3:35pm On Dec 02, 2013
grin grin
Re: See My Life Outside by Nobody: 5:03pm On Dec 02, 2013
I really can't see your "life" outside. Wrong title.
Re: See My Life Outside by sambrozini: 5:18pm On Dec 02, 2013
Ehnehn bros abeg yan me the state of current girl ......
Re: See My Life Outside by shizzle11(m): 8:00pm On Dec 02, 2013
op, she' s just one those plenty girls out there, make sure she remains your ex and move on
Re: See My Life Outside by dayleke: 3:20am On Dec 03, 2013
gcfr.com:
I really can't see your "life" outside. Wrong title.

Yes you can....
The Yoruba translation is "E wo Aye mi l'ode".
If I am not mistaken..
Re: See My Life Outside by Nobody: 4:27am On Dec 03, 2013
Omo everybody dey cheat jare and girls are not left out.
Its left to you to understand why she did it, search your heart of heart if you still want her and maybe forgive and continue or move on.

Bro its your choice jare.
To cheat no be new thing but try and understand why she did it logically.
Re: See My Life Outside by Nobody: 4:31am On Dec 03, 2013
born_to_be_gr8t: Its not worth it having a girlfriend, wen u are not ready to marry..always go for olosho, less worry, no arguments, dey are more reliable ,dey dnt give excuses..guy give olosho a try and ur life won't be outside again


Even if you marry nko?.
You guys no know anything.
Cheating na piece of cake now o.
May God help us.

No be only when person insert USB for your babes port be cheating o.
Na person wey you catch cheat o.

So sometimes forgiveness is just key bro and sis.
Re: See My Life Outside by hotwax: 7:27am On Dec 03, 2013
gcfr.com:
I really can't see your "life" outside. Wrong title.

Read the post
Re: See My Life Outside by hotwax: 7:28am On Dec 03, 2013
dayleke:

Yes you can....
The Yoruba translation is "E wo Aye mi l'ode".
If I am not mistaken..

Genius
Re: See My Life Outside by hotwax: 7:30am On Dec 03, 2013
@tjololade:
Omo everybody dey cheat jare and girls are not left out.
Its left to you to understand why she did it, search your heart of heart if you still want her and maybe forgive and continue or move on.

Bro its your choice jare.
To cheat no be new thing but try and understand why she did it logically.

Women don't have reasons for cheating. They are always tricked into cheating.
They are like babies. They dont know what they want.
Re: See My Life Outside by Miner13: 7:36am On Dec 03, 2013
If you are to noticed your life is outside why not humbly return it inside
besides, must i know about that
Re: See My Life Outside by hotwax: 7:39am On Dec 03, 2013
Miner13: If you are to noticed your life is outside why not humbly return it inside
besides, must i know about that

Did anyone forced you to click on the title?
Why did'nt you ignore?

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