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Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by GoodFaith: 1:40pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
Marriott1980: I love this thread and I'm compelled to comment and share my experience....When i newly got to America, after just 3days i was introduced to a Nigerian girl who is a nurse here and apparently her sis in law who just came from Nigeria pittied her situation and decided to go husband hunting for her cos she was 29 at that time and i was 29 too.....We started talking on a very nice note and in 2days we were chatting like we have known for ages and already planning on how we wil meet cos she stays in another state....but along the line something changed and she will always find fault in anything i say and tell me I'm thinking and talking like a Nigerian and my attitude stinks.....something my girlfriend in Nigerian back then can never say...don't let me bore you with stories but all i can say is we didn't get along and she is so mannerless and this changed my orientation about Nigerian girls here and i can never marry any. My new gf is American and she treat me with respect The B think because she is nurse she can talk down to you Dude look for happiness |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by Ugosample(m): 1:43pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
Haha. can't stop laughing |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by GoodFaith: 1:45pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
stalliontp: I imported my wife. She turned shakara momentarily but i showed her who the boss is, we are cool now. However on the hindsight, i could as well have married one of those i knew back in the US and we will still be ok. It all depends on the man- if a man can't handle a foreign based woman, he most likely wont be able to handle a village based woman.dude you didn't show her that you are the boss I think her common sense came back to her Likely she might have had good people with experiences that talk to her about life in the USA and The importance of marriage I am very happy it work out for you |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by Ugosample(m): 1:47pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
Permit me to say that to marry out of your tribe or race should not be seen as something of a taboo. After all Moses, David and Joseph among other bible characters married non isrealites. David's grandfather also married a moabite. i guess it all has to do with understanding and finding a woman that understands you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by Gracious10: 2:02pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
stalliontp: I imported my wife. She turned shakara momentarily but i showed her who the boss is, we are cool now. However on the hindsight, i could as well have married one of those i knew back in the US and we will still be ok. It all depends on the man- if a man can't handle a foreign based woman, he most likely wont be able to handle a village based woman. Am also interested to know how u showed herb who the boss is. Hope it isn't what am thinking. Mail order brides have lots to complain about their Boss ( husbands). Lets hear ur strategy. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by Deschil: 3:31pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
You are right my dear but when I referred to the gay guys I wasn't even thinking of the obviously effeminate ones. You will be surprised at who is now gay, MANY of them are MACHO. It is like a virus that is FAST SPREADING. The sad thing is, E NO DEY SHOW FOR FACE. Many new gays WERE ONCE STRAIGHT! baby_123: |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by GoodFaith: 3:45pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
Deschil: You are right my dear but when I referred to the gay guys I wasn't even thinking of the obviously effeminate ones. You will be surprised at who is now gay, MANY of them are MACHO. It is like a virus that is FAST SPREADING. The sad thing is, E NO DEY SHOW FOR FACE. Many new gays WERE ONCE STRAIGHT! This Nigerian men in oversea gay issue is a surprise I am wait for any news on a Nigerian dude that is on the DL |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by semmypat: 6:20pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
I think I should tell U̶̲̥̅̊ my own! There Ȋ̝̊̅§ ds guy i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ US dat has been asking Fø̲̣̣я̅ my hand i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ marriage and anoda one i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ UK. S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ recently I got a VISA τ̅☺ US and †ђξ guy i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ US tried convincing τ̅☺ come and go back and I asked him y he said S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ many things τ̅☺ discourage but on getting there I decided τ̅☺ stay. №ω let tell there fears! †ђξ ladies here understand what's on ground, they work round d clock here and most of them are nurses S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ they make more money dan some those guys U̶̲̥̅̊ Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴͡. S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ d men instead of them τ̅☺ b supportive and assist their wives, they want τ̅☺ rule U̶̲̥̅̊ don't expect a woman that worked from 11pm τ̅☺ 7.30 am τ̅☺ still come back home d kids and take them τ̅☺ school. D Ibos are fund of these. Then those ones dat run back τ̅☺ nigeria τ̅☺ get married eventually loose their spouse when they get U̶̲̥̅̊ know yoruba will say Omo aijobe ri. †ђξ moment they get τ̅☺ USA and Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴͡ †ђξ way things are and they Ħª√ę all d necessary papers they take off. S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ what those men need Ȋ̝̊̅§ wisdom and God's direction |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by troy20(m): 6:54pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
semmypat: I think I should tell U̶̲̥̅̊ my own! There Ȋ̝̊̅§ ds guy i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ US dat has been asking Fø̲̣̣я̅ my hand i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ marriage and anoda one i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ UK. S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ recently I got a VISA τ̅☺ US and †ђξ guy i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ US tried convincing τ̅☺ come and go back and I asked him y he said S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ many things τ̅☺ discourage but on getting there I decided τ̅☺ stay. №ω let tell there fears! †ђξ ladies here understand what's on ground, they work round d clock here and most of them are nurses S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ they make more money dan some those guys U̶̲̥̅̊ Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴͡. S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ d men instead of them τ̅☺ b supportive and assist their wives, they want τ̅☺ rule U̶̲̥̅̊ don't expect a woman that worked from 11pm τ̅☺ 7.30 am τ̅☺ still come back home d kids and take them τ̅☺ school. D Ibos are fund of these. Then those ones dat run back τ̅☺ nigeria τ̅☺ get married eventually loose their spouse when they get U̶̲̥̅̊ know yoruba will say Omo aijobe ri. †ђξ moment they get τ̅☺ USA and Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴͡ †ђξ way things are and they Ħª√ę all d necessary papers they take off. S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ what those men need Ȋ̝̊̅§ wisdom and God's directionyou couldnt be more right.its hard to put a leash on a dog once you've put a crown on its head. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by pickabeau1: 7:56pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
wowww.. you actually were able to read it troy20: 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by troy20(m): 8:13pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
pickabeau1: wowww.. you actually were able to read itwell i had to read it four times. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by pickabeau1: 8:16pm On Dec 04, 2013 |
i tried once... n gave up troy20: 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by Nobody: 2:01am On Dec 05, 2013 |
GoodFaith: Yeah. TO tru n tru. Lol |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by MrsChima(f): 4:44am On Dec 05, 2013 |
Ihedinobi: Buhahahahahha! Tonto Dikeh is the poster child for best raised Nigerian chick huh? |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by MrsChima(f): 4:47am On Dec 05, 2013 |
Creamish: Back off heffa. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by MrsChima(f): 4:49am On Dec 05, 2013 |
dotcom_na_me_na_me: What's the difference |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by MrsChima(f): 4:56am On Dec 05, 2013 |
GoodFaith: Typical.....it went waaaay over your head. And yet these loud and aggressive American women are STILL with Nigerian men 7, 8, 9, 10 plus years! Don't tell me the men are still waiting on their papers. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by MrsChima(f): 5:03am On Dec 05, 2013 |
GoodFaith: [/b] You are a lie. Nurses makes decent money and the reason they work 16 hours either by choice or mandatory. Stay your ash out of medical field. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by logica(m): 9:03am On Dec 05, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima:Duh...in diaspora, she has the backing of her family and government...in Nigeria...she has no backing... |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by logica(m): 9:05am On Dec 05, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima:What is the difference between what he said and what you said? Is "decent money" the same as "a lot of money"? Anyway, some people consider $25/hour a lot of money; some don't. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by Nobody: 9:19am On Dec 05, 2013 |
logica: Duh...in diaspora, she has the backing of her family and government...in Nigeria...she has no backing...That's not the point. This thread is about those ladies that would join their spouses abroad in the West. logica: What is the difference between what he said and what you said? Is "decent money" the same as "a lot of money"? Anyway, some people consider $25/hour a lot of money; some don't.What the average nurse earns, and it is more than $25 per hour is enough for them to be financially independent and live well in the West. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by MrsChima(f): 1:56pm On Dec 05, 2013 |
logica: Duh...in diaspora, she has the backing of her family and government...in Nigeria...she has no backing... So you want a defenseless chick to boost that pathetic ego? Na wa oo! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by MrsChima(f): 1:58pm On Dec 05, 2013 |
logica: What is the difference between what he said and what you said? Is "decent money" the same as "a lot of money"? Anyway, some people consider $25/hour a lot of money; some don't. Are you Somali? LMAO @people thinking 25 dollars isn't enough money! I dey laff in Yoruba! |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by GoodFaith: 2:34pm On Dec 05, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima: Sorry A good income for me is over $150,00.00 Yes not including wife's income A decent income is $80,000.00 for me Please don't fool yourself regarding the 16 hours daily-- we all know better |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by GoodFaith: 2:36pm On Dec 05, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima:People I know are not with their American wife for the green card I know of Marriage that are over 35 yrs |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by logica(m): 5:33pm On Dec 05, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima:Which ego do you speak of? Mine or your fathers? |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by logica(m): 5:35pm On Dec 05, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima:For people who've earned way much more than that, it sure isn't a lot of money. I can understand where you are coming from though, if it is a lot of money to you. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by logica(m): 5:37pm On Dec 05, 2013 |
tensor777:Respond again with some coherence. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by Incrizz(f): 8:45pm On Dec 05, 2013 |
logica: LOL. Sydney, Australia.Oh! The "of" got me confused there then, lol. I am sure I wouldn't have been if I had read "..case in Sydney" |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by onuwaprecious(m): 9:26pm On Dec 05, 2013 |
Ihedinobi:i love this your comment dat is good. Anywhere you marry it is good but what is there is to find your choice woman. As for me even if she is a white woman let her learn my language. She can even come to my country and learn it i want my children to learn how to speak my language. It does not matter where you marry from ur country or aboard but what matters is how de marriage is going. Ask for Gods direction. No one is bad a black or white lady. Where ever you find your missing rib it is good. You have to know what God is talking about de marriage to be. I want a lady who will make a home for me. Who will be my wife,sister,mother etc. Where ever she comes from nigeria(home oraboard) africa or white man land. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by MrsChima(f): 1:29am On Dec 06, 2013 |
logica: Which ego do you speak of? Mine or your fathers? Your mammy's. |
Re: Nigerian Men Abroad Prefer Marrying From Home? - Why? by MrsChima(f): 1:30am On Dec 06, 2013 |
logica: For people who've earned way much more than that, it sure isn't a lot of money. I can understand where you are coming from though, if it is a lot of money to you. You are not the people that have earned more than 25 dollars an hour....I am sure of it. So it wouldn't matter to you. 1 Like |
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