if it is more expensive keeping a girlfrind over a commercial sex worker i call them ( not a prostitute) then u are not productive.

it just like using N1000 to eat in an eatery then actually goin to the market to buy food stuffs and cooking the food for the same qty u would buy frm d eatery.
If it costs more to prepare the food at home then ofcourse it is better to eat at the eatery and save ur time.

Ladies add more value. I am a vey rude guy in nature and ladies conplain I talk to them anyhow, what do u expect, i pick up all d bills.
--You come to my house, I pay your transport to and fro,
-- when ever you need to talk to me, u flash and i call you back( even when there is airtime on ur fone, you just believ it is my responsibility to call)
--- U get my house, u flash to let me know u r out side
---- u pick a cab u can ordinarily cannot affort when ever u want to came and see me even when you dont usually do same when you have to go about ur other business.
---UR bis is my prerogative
--- allowance
---- up keep money
---- toileteries
-- u want to take flight trips
---always begging
Damn, I effiwizzy, i have neva complained, i earn a six digit salary so folks dont think i m crying or protesting here, but i make u feel so used, bleeped. i talk to u carelessly, no regard, no respect! that the price.
IF i do like like almost evty thin fora lady, CANT YOU EVEN AFFORD TO PAY UR KEKE MY VISIT UR SO CALLED BOYFIRIEND (only N50) where is your pride, is it not the same thing a commercial sex worker would ask for, y cant you make a differnce and let me sya chai, had it been my babe dey!
YOU ALL ACT SAME. den y accuse another of standing on the road and as a matter of fact, little and upcoming whores stand on the road, professional have their client who have their contacts and the go aboit doin their other businesses.

U see in abuja, a lady lives in a posh house in maitama which cost N800,000 FOR A YEARLY rent, drive and infinity or a range and you ask her what she does, she takes you to one 12 by 12 shop she has rented in garki, stocked up money from her prostitution, she hires a sales girl and pays her 20k a month.
THE total outflow of income fromsales in that shop in a year cannot even service that car let alone pay her next year rent. what suppliments the balance ? coporate prostitution .
so stop castigating little girls on thje road. I m not condoning or encouraging comercializing sex but lets look at it from a broader spectrum.

mumumugu: All girls are whores.

u mean including all d ladies in ur house?i doubt it if u ave a sister,mother nd gf.remember ur mum ws once a grl.no offence

Poster, how dare you?. I mean, HOW DARE YOUR YOU??. If i may ask you, were you a virgin before you got married??. So, what makes you different?. The same way we look pass premarital sex, the same way we should also look pass strippers, sex hawkers and the rest of them. What is bad is bad there's "no doctrine for original sin". oloshi!!

dis is for @ mumumugu, you said all girls are LovePeddler right? Pls tell us, what breed is your mother and sister?

francababy: I cannot believe that guys will sleep with those rough looking, unkempt girls you find in brothels. Seriously what fun is it to sleep with a girl that has had sex with like 10 guys before you that day? I created this topic because I was driving home now and passed Obalende. Come and see them.. Chai

Guys do you even enjoy sleeping with any of these girls?

#yemi alade's tone Question!!

YOUR ONLY CONTRIBUTION TO THE RELATIONSHIP BE SAY U DEY Bleep ME. THEN U HAVE NO VALUE BECAUSE THE LAST TIME I CHECKED, COMMERCIAL SEX WORKERS DO SAME.

blasterman: chongi
is the reason for phorking any ashawo kobo kobo , which is a very bad thing because asheawo na diease spreader and also give bad luck if you jam better jezebel. Truth talk is that some boys will nack any moving woman that has a pulse/ heartbeat. Also belevie that some guys have phork underage,dead bodi, person great grand motheror mad woman. some they Bleep doll

The real truth is that the dick has a brain or send chemical to brain
that turn man into zombie for tuto. when the dick is satisfied (by releasing sperma/wet dream) it will release the main brain

So that is the reason y yansh dey back

O boy, i culdnt pass reading this so i had to laugh and quote u. What a funny comment!

tpia@:


exactly my point, women can be so b*itchy.


how can someone sit down and just be looking for what to abuse about other people's lives, meanwhile, she herself is frustrated and chasing men away with her nastiness?

am so lovin diz

shymexx:

Nice siggy and I had to sign in to endorse your post, fam. You said it all. Salient points with supreme wisdom.

I'm not into prostitutes/female-escorts/call-girls, but I love strippers. I love strippers so much, I used to eat breakfast in strip clubs, back in day. We live in the materialistic age in which most girls are somewhat quasi-prostitutes in a way (I said most not all because they're still a few decent ones out here). However, most of them won't accept the obvious. They would rather live in denial, like people can't see through the whole facade.

I'd say the only difference between the ones who do it professionally and the pretentious materialistic ones is that, the professional ones have got a "store"/"office"/"stall" where they sell their "wares"/"services". However, the pretentious ones are hustlers, who just prey on suitors that meet their desired criteria. Also, the funniest thing is that some of these "decent"/"normal" chics have a higher mileage than the so-called, prostitutes.

People need to stop hating on other people's hustle especially when they're no different from those they're hating on.

THIS IS JUST VERY PERFECT

Mindependent:

But guys consider material gain too na, are they pros too?

u can call them prostitute too. It is not particular to a gender. U look pweety#nicepix#tripin...

I don't know why anybody will create a thread against ashews, I can't imagine where my life will be today if not for them. One love to everybody in da houz

I wouldn't be so quick to generalise. I have neva been to a brothel nd I hv no intention of eva going there.
I wouldn't be so quick as to judge the ladies who sell their body because no one knws wot they are going thru. My mother isn't a slut. My sister isn't a slut and most ppl in my family are not either. I would defend them till they act in an indefensible manner. I hv come across gels that act in a morally depraved manner but I won't open my mouth to utter the words that some guys have used on ladies on this thread. Let he who is witout sin cast the first stone( and dat goes for the guys,too).

lorretta u: you can make ur points without twisting my words.
I think we all agree that sleeping with different men for financial gain is prostitution. Maybe the person you need to sort out the problem with is yourself.
Ps I have a man,he's not wealthy. I hope that makes you realize your folly
Many guys out there are struggling to survive doing meaningful albeit low pay work. Are they all single? Nope they have women who love them too.
Many women help men out financially every second and every minute everywhere in the world even as we speak. Why you people chose to overlook such glaring facts and lump all women into a category called 'prostitute' is beyond me. But it reeks of dishonesty and maliciousness on the part of the men who are sharing this same view.
Now the question is, are you a rich man/wealthy man?
If no. But you have a woman or have had a woman who loved/loves you, I hope you can see how despicable you're for lumping her in with prostitutes even when she was/is with u despite your lack of wealth.
I do not know anyman who's single because he's poor.like I said many of you have even multiple women despite your poverty. You included.
Coming here to disregard that/those woman/women just to feel among these ill-bred low lifers that call themselves real MEN on nairaland is nothing short of wickedness. And I wish that the ladies involved with these type of men would come to know what the men really think of them.it's so disheartening. Really.
If a woman has ever spent a penny on you,I hope you know you're a gigolo?

I used to have a measure of respect for some select dudes on NL. Sadly most of them have lost that respect on this thread and they don't even know it.those who even feel confident calling their moms and women prostitutes. I wonder how they feel doing that.
What a travesty

IF HE LOSSES HIS JOB WLL YOU STILL LOVE HIM?
CAN WE EVEN KNOW THIS GUY AND CONFIRM ALL YOUR TRUE LOVE ALLIEGATION?
because you too dey lie. No girl dey EVER gre say she like guy because of money , even my gf. Its an anthem but when d chips are down, ....
IF UR GUY DOSENT MAKE CASH AVAILIABLE TO U FOR SOME OBVIOUS REASON FOR OVER A PEROIOD OF SIX MONTHS IN A STRETCH, WOULD YOU HOARD IN ANNOYANCE OR HAVE THE TENDENCY TO? leave dat tin babe

Alikaxon: Look at this op. I don't know what guys has done to her that she so despice them alot. Look at who's saying they re unkept; how kept re u? Meanwhile, what's the difference between them and you? They get money from men to do their hair, you also do. They get money from men to go shopping, you also do. With your pesistent ugly attitude towards men, It shows u've developed hatred for them(not me) and people like u are still single even in their late 40s, what a life?

guy u re on point. Thumbs up!

gwas:
Like a friend would say - "those whores private part is far cleaner and neater than most of all these mummy's girls".

Ashawo na job of the old..or should I say the oldest job on earth. Na ashawo them take born us. Abi your mama no open leg for your papa. Abi na virgin be your mama before then born you. Abegi ashawo better pass girl friend. Na pay as you go.. but girl friend you go be there source of income. What's the difference. A woman cannot assist you in life without announcing it. What you hear is, after all I have done for you. Even suffer with you.

RedBenson:

O boy, i culdnt pass reading this so i had to laugh and quote u. What a funny comment!

Second that. But that dead body and mad woman get as in be o

GeneralShepherd:

This general attitude is disturbing, I have been with a number of women and I am unemployed! You guys should try honesty sometimes. Most girls are not even prostitutes.

Bloke, you are very shameless! So you are unemployed and you are proud to say it bluntly abi? Smh!

Eheh....I can comment now...took my tym 2 read every comment 2day;nt becos I no get work o;buh it was so fun,entertaining,educational,and wot not,u go learn some better abuses and logical interactions...love all y"all on nairaland,even the ashewos wey dey here sef....as for me,I don't judge or moralize,cos no need,inasmucch as you can make ur own decision on ow u wanna live ur life;u can't make such 4 ur friends,bros and sis,cos even some people commenting here;their sis na correct ashawo sef;buh maybe their still living in denial,likewise some guys here,na people brodas dey stil go all those dem ashys face;buh the truth be say,all dogs de chop shit;buh the d one wey chop shit finish carry for mouth,na him dem dey call "shit eater"...so,if u dey chop shit,if u chop finish,clean ur mouth,cos if we take a closer look @ most people lives behind the scene;u"ll agree with me dt even most people speaking in favour of the prostitutes are actually saints;after all,wot did it take for mary magdalene 2 becum a saint;js washing Jesus's legs abi,guess most of the people dt were nt prosititutes in those era can even sit close 2 her in heaven now....

mumumugu: All girls are whores.

What brothels do your sisters and cousins operate? or do they ply their trade by the roadside?

lynpetra: Any guy who feels every woman is a prostitute also believes every female members of his family is too.No biggie,just his
observation.

U don show abi? How market for that side?

martronilla: shut up! i say make u shut up! u dey craze? wat is d meaning of this nw? y d insults? read her post.... did she in any way send a wrong msg? nairaland na public forum ooo.... pple av diff opinions bt right nw, ur opinion doesnt count.... m so mad at u right nw.... infact, tfu!

Is this how short ASUU has made your fuse and brains? You forgot that no matter how angry you are with him,it doesnt reduce his mb?If you are very angry you go and be the fourth fish in the sardine.

Shaanteel: including your sister

Did he tell you he has a sister?

francababy: I cannot believe that guys will sleep with those rough looking, unkempt girls you find in brothels. Seriously what fun is it to sleep with a girl that has had sex with like 10 guys before you that day? I created this topic because I was driving home now and passed Obalende. Come and see them.. Chai

Guys do you even enjoy sleeping with any of these girls?

YabaLeft Association of Nigeria's Executive Member

...but, the OP is sooo flat chested I no longer find this thread amusing. #unfollows#

Well I don't blame dem, when a guy will try and ask a gurl out u start forming wetin u no be, wetin u expect make him du, aswear na d ugly gurls go later get husband before una wey fine, na wowo guys una later go marry

[size=28pt]sexkillz! where are u o? some people here needs to be banned till 2070[/size]

candor4: Most guys r pigs.............dnt quote me ........................

and all girls donkeys .....why shldnt i quote u?

Effiwizzi:

IF HE LOSSES HIS JOB WLL YOU STILL LOVE HIM?
CAN WE EVEN KNOW THIS GUY AND CONFIRM ALL YOUR TRUE LOVE ALLIEGATION?
because you too dey lie. No girl dey EVER gre say she like guy because of money , even my gf. Its an anthem but when d chips are down, ....
IF UR GUY DOSENT MAKE CASH AVAILIABLE TO U FOR SOME OBVIOUS REASON FOR OVER A PEROIOD OF SIX MONTHS IN A STRETCH, WOULD YOU HOARD IN ANNOYANCE OR HAVE THE TENDENCY TO? leave dat tin babe

I don't know where you know me from. I take exception to you calling me a liar. I don't call u names. Stop that.

If you say you've NEVER met a woman who can be with u thru trying times, I think that's untrue.

The problem with you guys is that you think seduction is about beauty... but you are completely wrong. Seduction is a hideous spirit that will stop at nothing until it devours you. That's why you never find it easy to stop such immorality.
The only way is to turn your life over to Christ Jesus. It's the only way out.

Effiwizzi: Hmmmmm,
It still seems most people do not still literaly know who a prostitute is. It bothers me that they could just miss some few millions if there were to be on the who wants to be a millionaire hot seat..
It starts from the writter of this trend. She saw girls standing on Obalende road bla bla.
PLEASE go back to ur dictionary, prostitution is a sex in lieu of money or favour of any kind period. You dont need to be on ALLEN AVENUE, or in front of NICON hilton to be termed a prostitute.
Going by this english definition i did not create, There is hardly any WOMAN who can escape this whether at one point of her life or the other.

Some girls make it look better or tushed this days by saying its my sugar daddy - A man, married to anoher woman and you know it not that you are decieved, there is no future in that relationship you also know that. It all about you gratifying him sexually and hs pays your bills and that same you will look at another girl on Obalende and call her a prostitute! is there really any difference btw you and her, pls i need to know here.

Back then in school, i used to have number of female some student who would want to be hooked with big boys who come into town when i organise a big show so they could give a night stand a get an envelop- whatare you? u fine tune it to run girl. U are a prostitute. (sex and money exchanges hand)
most girls lobby to attend big event if they could just be lucky to be taken home by one senator or the other-- PROSTITUTION.

i want to finally add here that I critically made an obervation and came to a conclution that it is cheaper, safer and more cost effective to get sexual gratification and pay for it straight on that to keep on glorified hooker in the name of a girlfriend who do not contribute NADA to ur body or spririt, emotionally or psychological, mentally or otherwise. They just feel since THEY have sex with you as a girlfriend, they have done what mary magdalene could not do for Jesus and as a result, you just have to assume the position of their financial benefactor. Now tell me, is there any other thing the girl on Obalende does differntly other than that? tHEN WHAT MAKES YOU DIFFERNT/SPECIAL?

RedBenson:

Bloke, you are very shameless! So you are unemployed and you are proud to say it bluntly abi? Smh!

What is shameless about being unemployed?