fellis:

Na you sabi o, me I don't care whether people fvck and go free or fvck and go to prison. I am only interested in women living their lives how they please without having to 'submit' to another person for all eternity or put up with his cheating under the excuse that men are naturally polygamous.

anukulapo:

That's being selfish. It is like saying "I'll finish the wealth I accumulated while I live than think of my lineage."
Your memory would not be a blessing.

anukulapo:

Yea,better start a crusade for women not to have to "submit" to another being. Maybe you should advance it and demand for a known feminine figure among the deities-- The mother, God the father, the daughter, the son, then the holy spirit. It will help the gender balance and women liberation movement since women are being marginalized.

Olugbenger:
Hate or like it, the male race would always remain superior until women become men.

phanthomz: Male children are different frm female children. Dat doesnt make dem special. Infact, the females are actually stronger than males in all ways. Dy make thr home and takia of the men who are infact boys. I call dem boys because most men dont know wat it takes to make a home. Its never always about the money he doles out.

Infact, when such men grow old and av urethral stricture frm various infections dy got while sleeping around or av diabetes wc will impair their manliness, dy should not expect d same womsn dy nneglected at home to come and care for dem in the hosp. Their cash should do the caring.

Growing up, my parents never discriminated btw us male or female children. The females washed cars, changed tyres, cut grass, pushed cars and every oda thing. The male did dishes when it was his turn, did his laundary and we all rotated doing our parents laundary, we all cooked and all. We all had the same curfew time and mum woke us up at d same time for morning chores.

Today, we are all married and its working for us. I dnt wait for my hubby to change my tyre or check my car battery or fix bulbs. My bro cooks when his wife isnt home and basically, we are happy. Dad made us girls buy lands b4 marrying. And made us all av minimum of an msc.

I think it was probably because dy were educated sha. But dats how im going to bring up my kids cuz it sure worked for me. My dad always boosted our self confidence and i dnt see myself being lesser than any man.

jeffizy: Please get with the flow and don't assume!
What do I mean by quality of life?

I mean having a life worthy of emulation and commendation.
For better understanding, check NELSON MANDELA .
He's gone now but everyone misses him. If his children refuse to build on such legacy, how does that concern Madiba where he is now?

tpia@:
Well, you say you're male, tell us what's special about you.

Olugbenger:


You are a bad person!

anukulapo:

LOL. What a condition.
It's not by choice. The order came to be. I advice all to embrace their cross and accept the things they can't change.

tpia@:
Well, you say you're male, tell us what's special about you.

OrangeHokage: female children don't continue legacies and bloodlines male children do.. And forgot this equaltiy shit everyone one is Tryna put up now female children have never been recognized and will never be. Even the bible says so..

Arosa: Interesting topic, all I want to add is that before DNA test it was only a female child that can guaranty the continuity of your lineage. unlike the male which is uncertain cos his wife could have a child for another man and claim it's her husband's.

phanthomz: Male children are different frm female children. Dat doesnt make dem special. Infact, the females are actually stronger than males in all ways. Dy make thr home and takia of the men who are infact boys. I call dem boys because most men dont know wat it takes to make a home. Its never always about the money he doles out.

Infact, when such men grow old and av urethral stricture frm various infections dy got while sleeping around or av diabetes wc will impair their manliness, dy should not expect d same womsn dy nneglected at home to come and care for dem in the hosp. Their cash should do the caring.

Growing up, my parents never discriminated btw us male or female children. The females washed cars, changed tyres, cut grass, pushed cars and every oda thing. The male did dishes when it was his turn, did his laundary and we all rotated doing our parents laundary, we all cooked and all. We all had the same curfew time and mum woke us up at d same time for morning chores.

Today, we are all married and its working for us. I dnt wait for my hubby to change my tyre or check my car battery or fix bulbs. My bro cooks when his wife isnt home and basically, we are happy. Dad made us girls buy lands b4 marrying. And made us all av minimum of an msc.

I think it was probably because dy were educated sha. But dats how im going to bring up my kids cuz it sure worked for me. My dad always boosted our self confidence and i dnt see myself being lesser than any man.

tosrich: The importance of a male child was Socially constructed to ensure male dominance.

Crixina: with men like this,one can't just help but hate the idea of marriage.

Cos if probably one can't give birth to a male child,he will not just stop at hating you(the wife)he will extend the hatred to his own children(females).

Next thing the woman goes loco due to emotional trauma.

Royal Roy:



LWKMD

fellis:

Very inspiring post. I commend your dad for all he did, men like him are rare and special.

The bold part of your post is what I don't agree with sha......too much generalization in it.

Crixina: with men like this,one can't just help but hate the idea of marriage.

Cos if probably one can't give birth to a male child,he will not just stop at hating you(the wife)he will extend the hatred to his own children(females).

Next thing the woman goes loco due to emotional trauma.

Area-Fada:
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Not necessarily true dear.

If a boy doesn't come, it's not the woman's fault. But to say that a male is not important in the family is to demonstrate an astounding disconnect with our African culture in favour of Western culture that promises a lot but delivers little.

Here the European country in live in, over 55% of my work colleagues have divorced at least once already. Some are going through their third divorce and they're not even 50 yet.

So it's not exactly the romance/matrimonial el dorado that our African women believe the lax Western culture offers.

If it happens that a boy is not forthcoming, you would do well to lovingly explore how your man is taking it.

I have several male relatives, some have 3, 4 or 6 daughters, no sons. They are all quite happy.

anukulapo:

You can't expect less from a feminist whose thought is to win the favour and approval of women. Much generalization in favour of women.
A right standing man would point to many lovely and appreciable facts about having a woman/women around and in His life but he's also know a man's peculiarity (if he's intelligent, diligent and objective enough)