There are times in a relationship when certain signs
point to the fact that you and Mr. X are not meant to
be together. After you’ve already dedicated time
getting to know someone, getting attached to the
person, and getting involved in their lives, it’s
depressing to think that that was all just a waste of
time.
But you know, the real waste of time is spending
your life with someone you’re not really into. Below
are some signs to tell if you should leave or stay:


You’re happier when he’s not around
You probably haven’t thought about it, or haven’t
pinpointed it as such, but in reality, you are happier
when he’s not in the room, than when he is. Plain and
simple: you know what happiness feels like, and
you’re not feeling it around him.


You prefer sleeping alone to sleeping with him
You’d rather stay home and get a solid eight hours of
sleep in your bed at your home where you’re more
comfortable, than drive somewhere to see him.
You don’t want to talk about your relationship
This is a major pointer for most ladies; if he is not the
type you want to show off to your girls, then do have
a re-think. Talking about your relationship bores even
you. When your friends ask you how it’s going, you
say, “Great!”, and change the subject. But come on:
when you’re into a guy, you have a million things to
say.


You don’t speak up when you’re upset
You acknowledge that your boyfriend is being selfish,
rude, or annoying, but you don’t say anything. And
the truth is, you don’t really feel upset. When you’ve
become emotionally detached from somebody, you
don’t feel affected by his poor behaviour.


You think about other men, extensively
We all occasionally acknowledge that somebody else
is attractive, even while we’re in a committed
relationship. But you find yourself thinking about a
guy you met for five minutes, in every single day,
even when you are with your current guy. Huge exit
sign.


You don’t notice that you haven’t talked in a while
Ladies love to talk, especially to their men or their
girlfriends. But if it happens that you vaguely,
casually notice that, “Oh yeah…we haven’t spoken
since yesterday”; but you didn’t notice his absence.
And that 24 hours felt like it flew by.


You make no effort in your appearance
You just don’t care. You really don’t. You think about
the prospect of him thinking you look ugly, and that
prospect doesn’t bother you. This is what you want to
wear right now and his opinion just don’t count.
Sometimes, even when he protests, you look him in
the eye and say, “this is what I feel like wearing”.


You stop sharing exciting news with him
He’s not the person you share exciting, or difficult,
changes in your life with. It just feels like effort re-
hashing it all to him. And quite frankly, you don’t
know that he deserves to share in your happy
moments, or even vulnerable ones.
You stop asking for his advice


It just annoys you if you do take it in, and for the
most part, you tune it out. You don’t value his way of
thinking or living, so why would you want his advice?
Or his company at all?


You’re thinking often about ending it
Every so often, we might think about wanting to end
it with our guy. But you have a thought about it
everyday – how you’d do it, what you’d say, what
your life would be like without him, and so on. And
the thoughts have only been increasing lately.


You’re hesitant to make future plans
Purchasing a N35,000 plane ticket to go visit his
family in the holiday, screams “Bad idea!” to you. In
fact, making any solid future plans with him, that
require much time, energy or money, feel
irresponsible, and you are not just prepared to do
that.


Thought of him with someone else doesn’t make you
jealous
Okay, maybe just a little, but if you love someone,
you should be seething with rage (non-violent type),
just thinking he might be with some other lady. If
you think really hard, and actually visualise, in vivid
colours and every detail, your man having sex with
another woman, you don’t get a massive stomach
ache. You should run.


You really care about inconsequential things
It matters what restaurant you eat at, or what movie
you watch, or if you go to a cinema hall or
supermarket. Why? Because, when you’re into
someone, their company makes all activities fun. But
when you’re not into them, the activity itself has to
do all the work of satisfying you. Your partner is just
extra weight. Sometimes, you even avoid certain
places, because someone who knows you might find
you there.

Ladies, with all of these, the handwriting to the exit is
clearly on the wall.

190:

Kid Go To Bed

Chop kiss

Copy and paste tinz....u for acknowledge d source naa

biko andy put sauce(source)

Andy are u this wise?I doubt

shizzle11: Copy and paste tinz....u for acknowledge d source naa

I made it up myself bro.

alutacontinua: Chop kiss

thanks for saving my brains

shizzle11: Copy and paste tinz....u for acknowledge d source naa

paste one and let see
imao

What disturb me most is why we still have nairalanders' who will not acknowledge a write-up either copy and paste or brain work.

And later they will run back to nairaland with disgusting topics like "help me now before i commit, my bf/husband is killing, their life on fire" et al.

Miner13: What disturb me most is why we still have nairalanders' who will not acknowledge a write-up either copy and paste or brain work.

And later they will run back to nairaland with disgusting topics like "help me now before i commit, my bf/husband is killing, their life on fire" et al.

lwkmd

Popowaa: Andy are u this wise?I doubt

Don't Judge A Book By Its Cover, sweetrat.

Andyblaze:
Don't Judge A Book By Its Cover, sweetrat.

do i look like a rat

Popowaa: do i look like a rat

its the code name for heart in yabaleft

Plagiarism. smh

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BUSTED

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sexkillz: www.photooprahwinfrey..com/2013/07/how-to-know-if-you-are-meant-for-each.html?m=1

I posted the article there

alutacontinua: Chop kiss

What about me?

Andyblaze:

I made it up myself bro.

Lies!


Your madness wey no get level fit put up all these thing together?

Andyblaze:
Don't Judge A Book By Its Cover,sweetrat.

Andy bro,how dare you call my babe that name?

Danhumprey: Andy bro,how dare you call my babe that name?

Stop famzing everyone

Andyblaze:

Stop famzing everyone

That's the truth.

Andyblaze:

I posted the article there

Busted

Danhumprey: Andy bro,how dare you call my babe that name?

slap am give me

Popowaa: slap am give me

No worry. He won't repeat that.

Andyblaze:

I made it up myself bro.

Shatap! Thief

U gotta hand it to nairalanders...
dey r not even concerned with d content of d article
Their bone of katehenshaw dat it is copy and paste....
lwkmd...

Danhumprey: What about me?