I have no idea since I am never lonely. As a matter of fact, I barely have time for myself. I suggest you read a book, watch movies at home, go to events, try out new recipes, something! There is so much out there to do.

Have u tried joining a gym or health club? that might help too. I think the another thing that can make a person feel lonely and can't do much about it is if there is no money to hang out or go out and do things that Goodness this is not your case. I also supposed that you have learnt your lessons by now when God blesses you with a good relationship next time you would work harder to keep it. I only said that because there are 2 sides to every story. You did not tell us why the guy walked out, this is not to say that it was your fault either but just to touch on that lightly.

Try speaking in tongues

maybe you are depressed and you don't know.

See you ppl worrying abt loneliness. when you have a baby to babysit eh, you'll be happy with every loneliness you get by

Why dont you pick up a hobby or help out in the community. there is always something to do when you are feeling lonely or bored.

As someone a few years younger then you and a man i can say i already feel the dire need for a companion .
I suggest you go out there and find someone or hook up with internet dating.We are social creatures and we need partners.

Not been lonely since I was in my mother's uterus!

Too much going on in my life to be lonely.

I like staying alone. . .doesn't mean I'm lonely

Listen to music, read novels, play with your hair or something, you won't get lonely.

stillwater:

I like staying alone. . .doesn't mean I'm lonely

Listen to music, read novels, play with your hair or something, you won't get lonely.

definitely still live with ur parents eh.

So?

stillwater:

So?

nothing.

Please get over the ex, first and foremost. You need to get over all the "I just don't know what to do with myself cos I have been doing everything for two". I know this is tough, but it's the first step you have to take. Rebuild your self esteem. Since he walked out with another woman, this can be a great challenge for you and your self worth could have been severely dented. You may be suffering from depression as well. Get some help books that will help you to deal with this or seek Christian counselling. I know this helps. A lot of people have given some very wonderful suggestions here.  You must begin to look forward. Please don't let your age be a barrier to rebuilding your life. You may be thinking you made a mistake, you could have done some things differently to keep him, bla bla bla. That kind of thinking will not help your cause. I am a woman who's been where you are and I had to jumpstart my life again almost immediately after he walked. Please, sweetheart, your life is worth living and there is a better tomorrow. Don't stay in a rot. Get your life back. Email if you want to talk more privately. Wishing you the best because that's what you deserve.

Also read this book: Sassy, Single & Satisfied by Michelle Mckinney Hammond. It helped me loads and got me into her books. You can be happy now.

baby i think u need to 4get past and forge ahead to enjoy the little life hsa given you instead of dying out of LONELINESS. I sincerly encourage u to get a befiting young guy get free from the prison of LONELINESS. GOODLUCK.

loneliness one ugly demon

@poster

Try to invest time in your hobbies. Start a new hobby if you haven't got one. Keep yourself on your toes and always welcome changes and new things in life. Make new friends and hang out with old friends too. Help others because it can be more rewarding than feeling pity for yourself.
You will find yourself too busy to feel lonely.

Be a lion and get rid of the lioness

Since u pray I would guess u r christian (well, or muslim), And as one I don't think remarry should b an option (my personal opinion), and u kno what, I'm a lot younger but I know what u mean, I'm an introvert just like u an I'm startin to open up a bit, but since u have already been married and may have been expecting to have been raising a child why not adopt one, I would personally love to do that some day but you should do that, u would have something to do and wouldn't be lonely, I mean there are lots of children motherless children out there, u should also try to be involved in ur church or local community, Find out the things u like and as many people have said join a club or a group, God bless

Find something to do. Find a hobby. Travel. Date. If you have a creative mind you can come up with all kinds of projects to keep you busy. Take a class in your local college. Is there something that you were always curious about then take a class in it. Have you been interested in playing a musical instrument then get a tutor and learn how to play. Don't let the loneliness eat you up. Who says you have to be married with 100 children right now. Have fun girlfriend. Things could be much worse. Where are you located by the way

Try something new. Meet new people. Force yourself to get out of a routine and surprise yourself. Never forget your family and friends. This what I do to cope with loneliness.

Lonliness isnt a disease you have to begin to learn how to enjoy your own company
everyone needs time alone to reflect its the best time to think clearly and thoroughly
but the best thing is to get closer to your family- family time is never wasted

otokx:

Try speaking in tongues

True talk.

how is it going luvchild

@poster. . . Get a PS3 and some good games e.g God of War 3 and your life will never be the same again. You can also play with people all over the world with a great internet connection. Cheers.

Blaise Pascal once said : The misery of man starts with the inability to sit still in a room and enjoy solitude.

People are posting on this thread when it is possible d poster has found a patner and no longer lonely smh