Akinagirl:

men!

These are boys.

Your right. They clearly dont understand the institution of marriage, and what it is built upon.

You don't know how it would feel when you though the man you are willing to sacrifice for feels that our marriage might end so sign this for "security".

Do you know how it feels when my future is stolen away from me by a gold digger, because I failed to use protection?  It feels like I just got raped physically and emotionally by a big horse.

You don't know how it would feel to see the look on my friend's and family's face when they eventually find out that i signed a pre nupt. You don't know how it would feel to see my friend and her husband together in trust and happiness while my marriage is built on distrust.

What about my family?  They would be so happy that our marriage is built on love, and that I have finally found a woman who truly loves me for me  

That is not what they will see. They will see that you dont trust her or that she is a trophy wife.

Akinagirl:

Your right. They clearly don't understand the institution of marriage, and what it is built upon.

They say that women are the ones who think of money, but look all these post. These so called men are basing their marriages on material things and THEIR future. but they have no sense because these things mean nothing because they can go just like that. while your wife love is everlasting.

so my life is now material things
how many years of hardwork did i put in to sweat out all those material things

YEp, THEIR own future, NOT including his wife!

@onyiye, I am ''dudu19 of dagenham'' its wat u've potrayed ur self as wetin u wan do
report me 2 seun

@akinagirl, and wat do u know about the institution of marraige

Akinagirl:

YEp, THEIR own future, NOT including his wife!

OUR future.  The prenuptial agreement also includes her security . It's being done for the both of us.

@hydrocabon, dont mind dem jare

HCH3COO:

so my life is now material things  
how many years of hardwork did i put in to sweat out all those material things  

The second you put a pre nupt into the equation, your life is nothing but material things. because that is what a pre nupt really means. you are trying to protect your material things. not your so called heart, but your material things.

These are not women, these are girls.

They think life is cinderella.

What do i know about the institution of marriage?? MORE THAN YOU APPARENTLY!

Most married guys I know are working their asses off to pay bills, rarely to get to spend time with their families, mediocre or no sex life, and have wives that spend as much of their money as absolutely possible.

dats why am asking

onyinye2:

The second you put a pre nupt into the equation, your life is nothing but material things. because that is what a pre nupt really means. you are trying to protect your material things. not your so called heart, but your material things.

Aaaachooooally, some of those material things are my life.  Besides, the purpose of the prenup is to protect against theft and heartbreak, to verify your love, to guard my future.  I wouldn't be able to take care of myself, put a roof over my head, buy some of the things I need . . .

You are just a kid dudu. Why not try trusting your wife. Marriage is not about material. That is what a pre nupt is.

dudu19:

Most married guys I know are working their asses off to pay bills, rarely to get to spend time with their families, mediocre or no sex life, and have wives that spend as much of their money as absolutely possible.

So you are basing every woman to the two soul friends you know??

HCH3COO:

These are not women, these are girls.  

They think life is cinderella.

You think a marriage is like a bank account.

so wat wld ur kids think when they discover that their mom cld leave at any time knowin she's goin away with half their assets imagine dats shyt

Women!!

Just imagine sitting your ass in a court room seeing the woman who once told you she would stick with you till the very end scheming with her team of lawyers to fleece you of all you toiled for your entire life, Imagine seeing the woman you placed your trust in smiling as you move your stuff into a U-haul truck and leave all your stuff behind, Imagine your friends laughing at you when you move from crib in berverly hills to a shanty in the projects, imagine going from a Rolls Royce to a Renault, Imagine the pain of loosing both your love and your wealth all to the same person, Imagine the regret and psychological trauma of being fooled by the woman you thought was the one.

Okija,
Is that your answer to the thread.

You have failed once again.

olodo, like men are not the same way

Okija_juju:

Women!!

Just imagine sitting your ass in a court room seeing the woman who once told you she would stick with you till the very end scheming with her team of lawyers to fleece you of all you toiled for your entire life, Imagine seeing the woman you placed your trust in smiling as you move your stuff into a You-haul truck and leave all your stuff behind, Imagine your friends laughing at you when you move from crib in berverly hills to a shanty in the projects, imagine going from a Rolls Royce to a Renault, Imagine the pain of loosing both your love and your wealth all to the same person, Imagine the regret and psychological trauma of being fooled by the woman you thought was the one.

Ah!   It hurts man.            

Like i said look before you leap!

Okija_juju:

Women!!

Just imagine sitting your ass in a court room seeing the woman who once told you she would stick with you till the very end scheming with her team of lawyers to fleece you of all you toiled for your entire life, Imagine seeing the woman you placed your trust in smiling as you move your stuff into a You-haul truck and leave all your stuff behind, Imagine your friends laughing at you when you move from crib in berverly hills to a shanty in the projects, imagine going from a Rolls Royce to a Renault, Imagine the pain of loosing both your love and your wealth all to the same person, Imagine the regret and psychological trauma of being fooled by the woman you thought was the one.

Nwoke, are starting to show your true colors now. You don't give a damn about love or your wife. You only give a care about how you look upon others. You care so damn much about how your boys will view you, that you will allow it to go against your better judgement.

Ruby_Pearl:

Okija,
Is that your answer to the thread.

You have failed once again.

olodo, like men are not the same way

Sweetheart please refrain from using cuss words as we are only trying to shed more light on the complications involved in the institution of marriage.

Akinagirl:

Like i said look before you leap!

We have looked, the distance is pretty long, its a long way down if we should fall, as wise men, we are only taking pre-cautions.

Sweetheart please refrain from using cuss words as we are only trying to shed more light on the complications involved in the institution of marriage.

You sound so much like your buddy over there. HCH. She na that one you call cuss words eh?

anywaz, could you alteast shed the light on both side of marriage institution? or is your light too dim?

onyinye2:

Nwoke, are starting to show your true colors now. You don't give a damn about love or your wife. You only give a care about how you look upon others. You care so damn much about how your boys will view you, that you will allow it to go against your better judgement.

Nne, You are have also shown the interest in the other parts of marriage that does not have to do with love. You are more interested in securing your interest should the marriage go wrong. If you really love me,, then a simple pre-nupt should not be an issue.

Ruby_Pearl:

You sound so much like your buddy over there. HCH. She na that one you call cuss words eh?

anywaz, could you alteast shed the light on both side of marriage institution? or is your light too dim?

go and play with acidrop jare. Olodo

@akina am lost who told u am married, and didn't ask 4 a lecture on pre_nupt. am still waitin 4 d right answer u deceitful little actress

@onyiye i did not remember sayin anythin about 2 soul friends, i've based my facts on the people
around me am not married but i can tell u am a lot happier than they are

HCH, which one is ya own?

shut it, young man!

Pele o grandma

Ruby_Pearl:

You sound so much like your buddy over there. HCH. She na that one you call cuss words eh?

anywaz, could you alteast shed the light on both side of marriage institution? or is your light too dim?

The truth is that both parties do not want to get hurt, everybody hopes for the best in marriage, everybody hopes for a good and true partner, nobody ever prays for divorce, but we both know we cant control the future, the law is there, if we ever gat a divorce, you can sue for half of my shit _{(alimony and child support not included)}. All we are looking for is a little insurance, something to fall back on if shit should ever hit the fan.